No one in the world is perfect, let alone people who have never made mistakes. When a person makes a mistake, he will generally reflect on himself, but some people just talk casually and perfunctory, but they don't put it into practice. What's the use of reflection? Therefore, one should not only learn to be a man, but also reflect, review and do it when making mistakes.

If you do something wrong, you should reflect on those things. We can find out from some small things in daily life, such as whether you are kind and polite to others at ordinary times, whether you are practical in your study, whether you are serious and enterprising, and so on. If you can do it, you must keep it. If not, ask others humbly. Absorb the strengths of others and improve your own shortcomings. In this case, you are not perfect, at least you are perfect!

In modern society, many teenagers are self-righteous and do whatever they want, always holding the mentality of "as long as I like it, why not". Therefore, they often see their sons killing their fathers for a small sum of money, as well as stealing, taking drugs, buying cars and other illegal acts. Although they only regret and reflect when they get to prison, can they really guarantee that they will not make the same mistakes after they get out of prison?

Self-reflection is the most important thing in life. If you reflect on yourself after making some achievements, you will achieve more achievements, but self-reflection is often not easy to do.

The results have come out. At this time, I have a report card in my hand and my mind is blank. How did you get such a bad result? I just looked at my report card and looked back.

That was a few days before the exam from grade two to grade three. I made a lot of efforts than others, and finally won the championship in one fell swoop, taking the first place in the third grade.

But then what? As the saying goes, "it's easy to fight a mountain, but difficult to defend it." From that time on, I didn't concentrate on the class, finished my homework after class, not to mention working harder than others, and mixed with some people who made trouble all day because of poor study. The teachers saw that I was so scared, so they stepped back and talked to me. I just turned a deaf ear and thought that the teachers could not pass me. After that, I went my own way, still playing and being self-righteous, but time flew from my debauchery.

Finally, another exam came. I thought it was easy, but I was wrong. Every question seems familiar. At this moment, I really regret what the teachers said. Especially the words of the class teacher: "It's time for you to reflect." It makes me feel worse.

"Ding Ling ..." The bell pulled me back from thinking. I think I really should reflect. If I listen carefully in class, can those questions look familiar? If I reflect in time, can I fall to this point? Think about me before, and then think about me now. I'm really changing too fast. I'm glad I failed this time. Let me reflect. I can change in time and try to get back the old time in time.

After this incident, I got a truth: "If you want to be a successful person, then you must always reflect, and don't be complacent and ruin your future just because you have achieved a little success." Please remember that reflection is the most important thing in life, my friend!

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The perfect life is the perfect combination of 50% romance and 50% reality. Without romance, life will be emotional and boring. However, without reality, life will be irrational and nothing will be achieved.

Realistic people tend to be more pessimistic, because they are more likely to see the cold feeling (whether to add "warmth"). The most fundamental reason is that they live in the material world and only pay attention to their own capital accumulation. Romantic people are more likely to be happy than real people, and a little gift is enough to make them happy for a long time, because they live in an emotional world, and they will see how many friendships they have gained while losing material things.

In the final analysis, the conflict between reality and romance is whether the eyes used in things are rational or perceptual. Some people say that reason is the sublimation of sensibility. Many people agree with this view, but it is not. If reason is the sublimation of sensibility, then everything that can be explained by sensibility can be explained by reason and the same conclusion can be drawn. However, this is not the case. There are many things that are completely different from these two views. Therefore, it is impossible for sensibility to completely replace rationality. Sensibility and rationality are irreplaceable, just as romance and reality are indispensable in life, they will coexist. A life with both will be a perfect life.

Two people go camping together. One of them woke up in the middle of the night and asked his partner who was awake next to him, "What do you see?" "I see stars all over the sky ... what about you?" "I saw our tent stolen!" They had no choice but to drive home and ended the camping trip. Half a year later, the two met and learned that both of them were unemployed. Those who saw the starry sky were fired because they could not meet the boss's standards, and those who saw the tent resigned because they could not communicate with their colleagues. Here, they had an idea at the same time. Why not start your own company? When the company opened, people who saw the starry sky served as deputy general manager and personnel minister. The person who saw the tent became the general manager and the minister of product quality. Finally, the company has achieved impressive results. The name of this company is "Romance and Reality". The perfect combination of their personalities created a corporate myth. However, we don't necessarily have a friend with complementary personalities, so revise your personality, have 50% romance and 50% reality, and have a perfect life!

Comments: The exposition of "perfect life" is incisive and novel, and it can treat problems dialectically. Reality and romance are two concepts, two kinds of thinking and two kinds of attitudes. From the examples cited by the author, it can be seen that the two kinds of people look at problems and think about them from different angles. It is difficult for a person to have two personalities at the same time, and those who really have these two personalities are truly perfect. But I think it is necessary to find someone with complementary personalities.