If you are full of quarrels and cold wars together, and you are unwilling to treat a relationship from beginning to end with care and are full of perfunctory, then your feelings will break up sooner or later.
Couples should learn to care about each other, you can really understand each other's difficulties, and you are willing to make appropriate concessions for each other.
If you are never willing to pay for love in a relationship, just want to enjoy the sweetness of love and are unwilling to bear the pain and risk of love, then your feelings often cannot stand the test of time and the baptism of years.
There is a saying in the ending of love:? If people move their feelings, they don't ask for a thing to be reasonable. There is no truth between lovers. ? That's true.
Sometimes, feelings are meaningless. Love is love, and not love is not love.
So, how should couples get along with each other, so as not to make their feelings fade away?
1, maintain good interaction and communication.
Feelings need to be communicated. Couples should learn to maintain good interaction and communication, so that your feelings will not fade.
The really good feeling is that two people can speak freely together, and no matter what topic they talk about, they will not be cold.
If you are never willing to maintain good interaction and communication in a relationship, there is little communication and communication between you, and you are always silent together, then your relationship is prone to deep cracks.
Feelings lacking communication, like fish lacking water for a long time, are doomed to not survive for a long time.
Couples should learn to be honest with each other. When you are together, you can exchange your life experiences and discuss various problems or difficulties encountered in your relationship.
If you never know how to share each other's feelings in your relationship, and you are unwilling to talk to each other no matter what happens, then there will often be deep cracks in your feelings, and there is no way for your feelings to come to the end.
2. Appreciate your partner's efforts.
In love, couples should learn to be grateful, and you should also appreciate your partner's contribution. Only in this way will your feelings not fade away.
Some couples always complain and blame each other in their feelings. They don't know how to cherish each other's fate. They are used to their partners' efforts and are insensitive.
If a relationship wants to last, it is very important that you cherish each other and learn to understand each other.
If you want to get your partner's sincerity, you must first take the initiative to give your love and sincerity. Love and respect are mutual.
When you have a grateful heart, it is easier for you to forgive your partner's small mistakes, you will be more tolerant of your partner, and your feelings will become sweeter.
If you treat your partner's love and sincerity as the liver and lungs of a donkey, you will not only cherish and appreciate it, but will be full of disgust and boredom, so your feelings will become weaker and weaker.
In any case, don't neglect your partner easily, and don't let your partner down easily.
3. Be good at finding the bright spot in your partner.
Everyone has his own advantages and disadvantages. If you want to make your feelings deeper and deeper, you might as well look at your partner with appreciation.
Couples should be good at digging out the bright spots in each other's partners and give sincere praise. Only in this way will your feelings not fade away.
One of the important reasons why your feelings are getting weaker and weaker is that you are full of disgust and criticism of your partner, always staring at your partner's shortcomings and never knowing how to appreciate the bright spots in your partner.
If you think your other half is useless, you really hate your other half, and you refuse to admit the advantages of your other half, then if your other half loves you again, he may be tempted to gradually alienate you.
The really good feeling is that two people can cheer each other up together, and you can give each other strength and confidence.
If you really like someone and you want a long-term relationship, then you should be kind to each other and cherish everything your partner has done for you.
In love, when you can't help but want to get angry with the other half, you might as well think more about the advantages of the other half and relive the good times when you were in love. Perhaps, you will let go of your resentment towards your partner, thus giving your partner more tenderness and consideration.
In short, lovers should learn to tolerate and understand each other, and you should also be good at tapping each other's bright spots and maintain good communication and interaction anytime and anywhere. Only in this way will your feelings not fade away.
When you decide to associate or fall in love with a person, you should pay attention to empathy and give the other person more respect and trust.
If you are always unwilling to keep the necessary sincerity and singleness to a person in your relationship, be perfunctory and deceptive to a relationship, and be half-hearted to a person, then it is often difficult for your relationship to come to the end.
The best way to love someone is to let you know that you are soul mates and appreciate each other.
If you can't be single-minded emotionally, lack the necessary tenderness and affection for each other, and always doubt each other's sincerity, then your feelings will easily produce deep cracks.
Since you don't want to break up and want to have a sweet and happy relationship, you should pay attention to the measure and distance of getting along and be willing to invest a lot of time and energy.
In this world, there is no feeling of once and for all, and there is no feeling of perfection. If you can accept the imperfections in your relationship frankly, and you are willing to fully tolerate and accept all kinds of shortcomings and deficiencies in your partner, then your relationship will be long and sweet.