1, lack of time concept.
Most procrastinators lack a sense of time. The following is a short story: neighbor Lele doesn't get up when the alarm clock rings three times every morning, and her mother finally drags her out of bed. She got up, and she will still get up. Her mother told her that she would be late, but Lele ignored her. She continued to wash her face slowly at her own pace, and then had breakfast slowly. By the time she finished breakfast, it was almost 8 o'clock and Lele began to grow up. Mother will say, "why don't you get up early?" Get up early tomorrow. " Lele readily agreed, but the next day, he repeated the scene of being late before, which is a typical example without the concept of time.
2. Lack of planning and organization.
Some children don't know how to assign homework after school. They just want to play. After supper, they haven't started to do their homework. After dinner, they want to watch cartoons. When they start doing their homework, they start doing their homework and reading comic books. 10 When sleeping, the children haven't finished their homework and their manual homework. Especially on weekends, when there is enough time, children don't have a good plan and a sense of time. They are always urged by their parents: "Eat quickly and go to a special painting class after eating." "Get dressed quickly, or you will be late for the dance class." This is a typical lack of planning and organization.
Children without organization and planning will not be efficient even if they have a lot of time.
3. Lack of concentration
A noisy environment can lead to children's inattention. For example, when children are doing homework, the TV at home is loud, or parents are talking loudly, so children's attention can't be concentrated, and there may be the possibility of secretly "listening" to TV.
If there are too many things on the desk, such as extracurricular books, toys and snacks, children will be attracted to other things. They will touch toys for a while, read extracurricular books for a while, and eat snacks for a while, which will also distract them from doing their homework.
Other parents may have such a misunderstanding: children will naturally not delay when they grow up. In fact, this idea is not appropriate. Any behavior habit is formed from childhood or after deliberate practice. Procrastination is very unfavorable to children's future development.
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