People should live like a movie, a game, or a building. At least it should be like a building, standing on the earth, with its own structure, pattern and space. It should reflect light and shadow in the changing environment, and collapse and destroy in the long river of time.

——"Only Time Knows"

Someone must have given you similar chicken soup: life should be a good movie, and in every scene of this movie, the protagonist His actions should all point to his future.

But how can we perform this movie well? Is it a plot with highs and lows, or is it a plot that keeps moving towards a climax? It seems like no one can tell you exactly what to do to make a great movie. So, you can only explore as you go, look here and learn there, occasionally feel complacent about a perfect frame in the movie, and also feel depressed about a frame in the movie where the performance failed.

And there is a "Sooner Star" who has been interpreting the movie of life in his own way, and has used this movie to influence countless young people, allowing them to start recording and changing their own insignificance in a way that can be seen. And a short life.

Be satisfied with the present, but not satisfied with the future

"Who are you? Where are you going? How are you going to get there? How fast are you going to get there?" This is The four questions that Sister Xiaosha always asks in the timetable are also the four questions that she will ask when she guides everyone to plan a time efficiency manual.

And she also used her own experience to explain her own answer.

In the summer of 2001, she graduated from the Broadcasting Department of Communication University of China. She worked as a broadcast host at CCTV for a year and then switched to a consulting company. Three years later, she left a foreign company to study in the Art Design Department of Renmin University of China. With a master's degree in new media, he later founded "Zunzao" and served as the editor-in-chief of "Fashion COSMO" in 2014 and 2015.

When talking about these turning points, Wang Xiao said, "How others evaluate you is not necessarily related to what kind of person you really are. From the past to the present and even in your future life, you will always be the same person." Continuing the process of discovery. So understand that you need to understand what is best for you as early as possible.

These labels of "foolish and restless" are not only applicable to young people born in the 90s or 00s, to the chic sisters born in the 1975s, or to every ordinary person who is constantly pursuing a more perfect life. All are equally applicable, but she used another word to explain "restlessness" - that is, "extreme love".

"If I am defined as unreliable by everyone, then I am still unreliable now, that is, I cannot find a life that is settled once and for all, and live it safely by following this ordinary law. This is impossible for my nature. If the traditional values ??define peace as: engaging in a standard life recognized by others day after day, or focusing on something for three to five years. , or if focusing on a career that you don’t love is called contentment, then I don’t love it.”

In a word, it means being satisfied with the present, but not satisfied with the future. The chic sister in the public media gives people a sense of chic as her name suggests. She exudes confidence and elegance with every move of her hands and feet, as well as endless longing and control over life.

Be early: the time can be seen

At 21:12 Beijing time, along with the airport’s broadcast reminder, the picture flashed across the big screen, and the handsome sister pushed the suitcase with her hand and slightly flipped her hair to face her. Come. This is the opening scene of a short video on Sister Xiaosha’s Weibo. In the second half of 2018, she will fly to various parts of the country to prepare for the early college, and use practical actions to influence and change more people.

In 2008, an article "Written on the Day I Turn Thirty" was forwarded by tens of millions of people. From career, relationship, life to beauty, more people saw a man who was willing to take advantage of himself. A Beijing girl who sucks blood from her knocked out teeth and shares her various life experiences, and at the same time is very candid and unrestrained.

Subsequently, he published "Women Know It's Early", "Three Views Are Fragile", "100 Days to Get in Shape with Sister Xiaosha", "Questions and Answers at the Rice Crossing", and "Live a Life According to Your Own Wishes", Including the 2018 new book "Time Can Be Seen", Sister Xiaosha has become an independent and strong spokesperson for the new generation of young women.

In 2013, Wang Xiao founded the first domestic inspirational brand "Zunzao" and the first domestic women's self-management and communication platform "Zunzao". The spirit of "Zunzao" advocated by her has inspired millions of young people. female.

If Wang Xiao wants to use actions to convey a kind of life and work attitude and values ????to the majority of women, it should be to live a life according to one's own wishes. She constantly interprets and proves one sentence - you The hard work and time are visible.

If she were to share any experience as a female entrepreneur, she would tell you: "First of all, you have to consider whether you have talent and whether you are suitable for starting a business; whether you are willing to start a business for someone who doesn't A determined goal and a long-term goal are constantly being laid; thirdly, an entrepreneur is a compound talent and an interdisciplinary subject. You need to know finance, supply chain, and logistics... You also need to be determined to continue learning, and at the same time You need strong enough expression skills and the ability to communicate with others, learn to communicate and listen.”

In short, starting a business is something that needs to be started before you think clearly. If you think everything through. At some point, your courage will be gone. You must be bold and believe that life is an experience. Don't be greedy for comfort. The experience of a lifetime is the most important.

The most ideal beauty is to be beautiful and self-aware

Ask Sister Xiaosha, what is the standard of beauty?

She said that the beauty she admired was displayed in Liang Fengyi - her freedom of soul is the greatest interpretation of beauty. A woman cannot be born with a perfect skin and a free soul. The so-called living the way she wants is nothing more than constantly modifying the skin and carving out the soul through self-discipline.

She also has two interpretations of beauty: the first is a beauty that has energy and energy and vitality that radiates from the inside out; the second is beauty that is scientifically quantified. And the most ideal beauty she hopes to create is beauty without knowing it, rather than beauty without knowing it. That is to say, you need to clearly understand what you have now, what you can do, and what you want to have. After having a starting point and a direction for your efforts, you can use the accumulation of time to see the final changes.

"It will always pass, and it will eventually come." She wanted to say this to herself ten years ago, and now she also gives this to you. Everything will pass, and the future will come. Just like the chic sister who has a successful career and family, she lives out her ideals confidently and gracefully, without labeling herself too many ideals. She seizes every turning point in life and strives to reach the next level.

As one of her Weibo posts said: "The meaning of life is given by yourself." And we will always accompany you forward.