Some people are arrogant because their emotional intelligence is particularly low, and this low emotional intelligence is considered upright in their own eyes.

For example, when you are doing something that you think is very important, they will pour cold water on you mercilessly. Although they are not malicious, what they say is ugly, and they They don't realize that what they say is unpleasant. They feel that they are just stating the facts and do not feel that such words are slandering you. For example, you just bought a new piece of clothing. When you try it on, you really want to get praise from others, but they say that the dress doesn't suit you well or that you have a bad figure and can't match the dress. Such a behavior is a sign of low emotional intelligence. However, due to face or teasing, English people are embarrassed to accuse others, because if you think about it carefully, their words are rough and unreasonable. Although their words are more ugly, they may say is also true.

There is also a kind of person who arrogantly just wants to affect your mood. This is when they know that what they say is unpleasant, and they will choose the most unpleasant words to hurt you. For example, when you are confident and enthusiastic about something, he will be sarcastic and sarcastic at you. For example, I think you are not fully qualified for such a thing based on your ability, or I think another person may be more suitable for this job than you. This outspokenness actually offends a lot of people, but they think it doesn't matter. Their main purpose is to make you feel depressed. When you are in a bad mood, they will be happy.

I think we can ignore the arrogant people above because we know that what they say will make us feel bad, so there is no need for us to take it seriously, and there is no need to worry about it. Punish yourself for the faults of others.