Maybe I like this TV play too much. When I was in college, I picked up this novel by Zhang Henshui, and I felt deeply while reading it. It turns out that Jin Yanxi is much more annoying in the original, and Leng Qingqiu is not so lovable in the original. It turned out that they were not meant to be together.
After reading it, I remembered a sentence once used to describe Chiang Kai-shek and Song Meiling-if they don't agree, how can they walk together? Chiang Kai-shek and Song Meiling have such a good relationship because they are United and their ideas are appropriate.
Many potential problems between husband and wife are obvious after marriage.
From ancient times to the present, marriage has always been about matching the right family. I used to scoff at this. I think as long as there is love, everything can be ignored. The marriage between Leng Qingqiu and Jin Yanxi made me understand that this is not simple.
Is there no love between them? Once vigorous, once passionate, once deeply loved, but in the end, love and marriage ran aground. No matter how much you love each other, you can't beat the difference of outlook on life and values, and you can't beat the door.
Leng Qingqiu, as its name suggests, is cold and lofty.
What you can't get is always in turmoil. When Jin Yanxi was tired of luxury life, such an aloof woman appeared, which made him shine at the moment. At this time, in Jin Yanxi's eyes, Leng Qingqiu was noble and mysterious, far better than the woman he had known before, so he tried his best to pursue her. Love is coming, who can tell if it is a temporary infatuation?
The only difference between them seems to be the rich and the poor.
Jin Yanxi said, "In our love, there is no difference between rich and poor".
They broke their differences and got married.
Jin Yanxi is a fresh person. Over time, he was tired of Leng Qingqiu's coldness and clearness, and began to miss his life of leading a drunken life, and also resumed his dissolute life.
Leng Qingqiu was born in a poor family. Although he read a lot of poems, he was also subject to feudal backward thoughts. She is unwilling to touch new things, even a little pedantic. She doesn't like excitement and sociality, just the opposite of Jin Yanxi.
Although she is arrogant, she is also an ordinary person. She loves money. Jin Yanxi accepted all the gifts she sent. Although she was worried about her self-esteem, she didn't want to return them. Afterwards, she admitted that her heart was bought by Jin Yanxi's generosity. It's not that she doesn't know the truth that Qi Da is not Lian, but it's a pity that this sudden romantic pursuit makes her feel at a loss and addicted to it. Unfortunately, the tide turns. What should I do if I get sick? How was the delivery? What about taking the child away from home? Can't let Jin Yanxi a little regret. I've been reading for nothing these years, but I just can't see through such a person.
Jin Yanxi was born in a wealthy family, and he was taken care of by his family. All his problems can be solved with money and power, just as he pursues Leng Qingqiu. Everything came so smoothly that he didn't know how to cherish it. He is a man who loves freedom. Even if you get married, you can't lose your so-called freedom. He still contacts all kinds of women like a single man. Such an irresponsible guy.
They originally came from two different worlds, completely different family environments, different outlook on life and values, and different life ideals. Different life ideals have different life trajectories. Their life paths never intersect, which doomed their marriage to failure.
Later, they didn't have a common language and didn't even want to talk. How terrible this is for couples. Husband and wife have nothing to say, how can they live together?
In this era, family is only the second, and more importantly, ideas and ideals are correct.
If two people have similar outlook on life and values and common ideals, they will work in the same direction. No amount of difficulties and obstacles can separate them.
There are endless words every day, so it is very beautiful to get along.
If we are United, we can also go together.