1, life is like a dagger, we always hold it, but it always hits our own heart. Accept what has happened with a normal heart. A lot of things, the more you want to understand, the more confused you are. Once you have an obsession in your heart. Just like a ball of thread, it will only get more and more chaotic. If a son wants to avoid it, he must promote it. Just let nature take its course. When it comes, it is safe. This is the way to survive.
You will be very lonely for a while. You will go to work alone, eat alone after work, sleep alone, or even be alone on the highway on New Year's Eve. At this time, you don't need to find someone to talk to, you don't need to find spiritual sustenance, just walk alone. Soon we will learn to precipitate ourselves and find our own way of life, which is an aspect of growth. We all have to experience loneliness. The future may not be better, but it will be more calm.
3, the contingency of life, in fact, there are not many profound things, just like who you accidentally married and followed all your life, this is fate.
4. You will meet someone who you are; You will choose who you are. Life that is always talked about is your life, and people are always easily hypnotized by what they say. How scared I am that many complaints you always talk about will become your whole life. You will never be satisfied with what you have unless you can live in peace with your true self.
The tea in the cup floats because of water, and the tea in the cup is fragrant because of water. When the fragrance disappears, the tea gets cold.
6, the surface is cynical, but who can understand how tired and helpless I am.
7. I really want to relive your gentleness again.
8. Sometimes, you want to prove it to ten thousand people. Finally, you find that it is enough to get only one person who understands.
9. Successful people may lose their jobs, be rejected or ignored, but they are good at exploring positive factors in adversity and seeking new opportunities from changes.
10, maternal love is your bitter advice when you are confused; Motherly love is an earnest reminder when traveling; Motherly love is a kind smile when you are lonely and helpless.
1 1. In front of the furnace of time, which one is not a snowman facing the fire? In the long river of years, who is not a puppet who participates in the flow?
12, when it thunders, it is often high above the tree; People say it's ruined, mostly in the group.
13, broad-minded, full of gratitude and appreciation for life. Less than the upper level, more than the lower level, contentment is always happy. Cultivate a variety of hobbies, enjoy it, enjoy it, be kind to others, be charitable and help others.
14. The gold rush was walking in the desert with pockets full of gold. Everyone is exhausted, and only one person is walking happily. Peer: Why are you so comfortable? He smiled and said, I want the least! People can only live once, don't live too tired! If we can keep a normal mind, sit and watch the clouds fall and the flowers bloom and fall in Yun Qi, and go through the vicissitudes, we can get a good mood. Don't fight an uncertain battle: soldiers have lost the battle, and as long as they are not dead, they will have a chance to go to the battlefield again. Life is not like this. Failure once sometimes costs him half his life or even his whole life.
15. If you have a dream, you must have the courage to realize it. Only by taking action can you get closer to your dream. Changing the situation of life requires opportunities, but also the courage to take action. Young people, you never lack courage. From now on, be a brave person and act actively for your dreams. [Action] Observe the person who walks in front of you, see why he walks in front, and learn from him. Busy people can do things well, and slow people can only be opportunistic. An indecisive person, even if he makes a decision, can't carry it through. Goodwill requires proper expression of action.
16, you can scald me with a cup of boiling water or freeze me with a cup of ice water, but you can't consume me with a cup of warm water. I want black and white, clean and tidy. When you grow up, people will understand, and the only regret is those things that have not been tried.
17, I know my own pain, I know my own sadness, I feel my own happiness, maybe the hell in my eyes is the heaven in others' eyes, maybe the heaven in my eyes is the hell in others' eyes. Life is so funny. Don't always doubt that spring scenery is in others. The key is to adjust your mentality and live a good life.
18, most people live a relaxed and ordinary life every day, doing relaxed and ordinary things, small sweetness, small sentimentality, small vanity, small narcissism and self-pity, small dreams, small troubles, small setbacks, small evils, small ambitions ... Life is just like this. One day, you will miss all the beautiful little things and learn to cherish them.
19, how many beautiful things have disappeared and been destroyed, as if nothing had happened in the world. Yes, life goes on. However, everyone in life is constantly losing their most precious things.
20, the so-called success, even if you live according to the lifestyle you want. The worst state is when you want to choose a road that is unwilling to be mediocre, enterprising and struggling, and finally complain that you have not got the life you want, but you live comfortably.
2 1. History textbooks rarely teach us how to avoid making mistakes. Their function is only to tell us how similar today's mistakes are to those in history.
22. No one is really lonely: your enemy is with you from beginning to end. God, why did the previous generation discipline us so much, but the next generation didn't accept our discipline!
23. The following two kinds of advertisements are likely to fail: first, they try to change the position of the audience, thus making them resistant; Second, you are not going to change the position of the audience and let them ignore your existence.
24. In order to kill a writer, critics must choose the right time, neither too early nor too late. When the writer is still an unknown mouse, criticism of him will only enhance his reputation; When the writer's fame is in full swing, it's too late to start again.
25. The sad man said, "The world is too complicated and life is under great pressure. I really want to be divorced from reality. " However, is life really so boring? Looking at the sunshine in the morning, the leaves are blooming and the fish are swimming in the stream. It's really ordinary, but it's wonderful to savor it carefully! Learn to feel life, and you will know that flowers bloom with sound, sand and stones speak, and heaven and earth have feelings, and life has a taste.
26. Maturity is not the aging of the mind, but the calmness after prosperity. If life is a tree, it grows in the wind and rain, blooms in the sun and bears rich fruits. The beauty of the flower season and the sadness of the rainy season are gradually forgotten with the growth rings, half of which is the pursuit of beauty and half of which is the acceptance of incompleteness. I used to hate it, but now I just smile indifferently. Maturity is not to see through, but to look down.
27. In life, there are no quiet days, only a calm mind.
28. As for love, happiness because of happiness means "don't let go of any teasing, don't wait for anyone" and "I don't want what I don't give, I don't love what doesn't belong to me".
29. You, try to walk alone. You always want someone to accompany you in everything, which will make you feel safe; But when you embark on a personal journey, you can actually go to a roadside shop alone, watch a movie alone, eat a whole box of ice cream alone, sit in the library and read a book alone, walk home happily and enjoy your time alone.
30. I like traveling, not traveling. Traveling, even sleeping on the side of the road, is just to see the outside world. Well, walk out of an unusual youth with your feet, and be happy in the sunset even if you are exhausted in the end.
3 1, the greatest charm of people is to have a sunny attitude. Compassion can benefit people; Only by being considerate can we tolerate others; Patience is the only way to be a man; Only with compassion can we measure people; Only if you have a hard heart can you help others; Only with a wise heart can we see people; Only tolerance can treat people with things; Only when you have a beautiful heart can you show it to others.
32. Along the way, every season is incomplete, and every story has dark wounds. Emotion is false, reality is true, and time is obviously gone. It's really not easy to sober yourself up.
33. Life is too hasty to squeeze out any time to get lost.
34. Your clear laughter seems to be yesterday, but now you are walking on thin ice. So you only have yourself in your heart. You regard selfishness as your belief and money as your bargaining chip. Your life is like a series of games. Where there is no pity, there is only terrible killing. Sadly, I'm just a character in your game!
35. Know how to be friends with gains and losses, identify with gains and losses, and live together.
36. I feel that one day no one cares about me, and the world will definitely be better.
37. Life is neither funny nor sad. All the blanks left by life are reminders of fate.
38. As long as there is breath, life will go on!
39. As time goes by, why can't endless thoughts go faster? I can't stand it.
40. You think people can get something for nothing. I can't. No matter how beautiful and self-sacrificing feelings are, they are not delivered to your door for nothing. Strangely, it is this that makes it beautiful. Oscar Wilde
4 1. Once you don't want anything anymore, you will get it. I think this is really an absolute truth. -"The Philosophy of andy warhol"
42. Some people came to this world to live well, while others came to live well.
43. I will always do a few things that move me in my life. I always make a few friends that I can trust unconditionally. Where do you position yourself? In fact, efforts can still reach that position. What kind of people you are, what kind of friends you will meet naturally. Don't give up your efforts, don't complain about the coming, please be yourself.
44. Whether a relationship can go further is not that I love you, but that I tolerate your shortcomings. Thank you for meeting me in the vast sea of people. You can be angry, you can quarrel, but you can't leave lightly. In fact, it is best to trust the next one, and the one you often encounter will be bad; We will think about what we are afraid of, and we will hear what we believe. What scares us is not the outside world, but our hearts.
45. Mom is great. Of course, my favorite person is my mother, so I should be filial to her.
We should heal the wounds of the past by indulging in the past, but we should live in the present. Strength is often forced out. How can I see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? No one is casually successful. Some people; I have no experience, I don't know how, and then I complain and feel self-righteous. Then I didn't feel wrong at all, but I felt quite happy. For this reason, Ta is unhappy and I am happier.
We always want to be children forever, because if we were children, we wouldn't have so many troubles and responsibilities.
48. In the silhouette of time, we are just a floating dust, which gathers and scatters with the wind. What should come will always come, why should not come? If there is no expectation that the spring breeze will blow green overnight, we will be full of joy when we arrive at Taohualiu. Happiness is a kind of satisfaction, and happiness is a kind of mentality. Give life a simplicity and life will give you a flower.
49. The world is progressing and the population is increasing, but the earth will not get bigger, so whoever makes the best use of the land will win.
50. If you look up a little, your situation is completely different. There is nothing wrong with arrogance.
5 1, there is wheatgrass in the eyes, and flowers bloom forever. As long as you are with me, there will be no sigh in my life. No matter which scenery I set foot on, I can laugh at the vicissitudes of life and the eternal paradise in my heart. With the upside down, I am calm and bright. When the wind, frost, snow and ice hit, I laughed without complaining. Misty rain and red dust, I step by step lotus, cloud water Zen heart.
52. How many moments of despair can there be in life? I didn't respond the first time, and I didn't get a response the second time, so I left a great regret.
53. I am desperate for you. I came all the way just to see you. This is also my brave love and domineering love. That's why I want that person to be brave and domineering and love me and come to me.
54. There is no goal, no limit, and it is always trying to rush to the top. In retrospect, it was really embarrassing. It's really early. There will be countless doubts, such a firm answer. I didn't turn the arrow before opening the bow. Staying where I am is not what I want.
55. I always feel better than the average person, but I am also very tired. I don't know who to tell, and I don't want to tell anyone. But I still hope someone gets hurt. Dry your tears, I can do it.
56. When I look back, I find that you have put on your old clothes, and I have faded my tender face. Hehe, talk about the past, the phosphorescence of the skeleton.
Laughing and laughing in front of others, go back to the dormitory and shut yourself in the curtains. In their own world, they laugh outside, which has nothing to do with me.
58. Don't leave regrets, and appreciate every detail of life. Because I am young, I am not afraid of no results. You are so happy and sad. Crazy love, really, time flies, only after that can we cherish it!
59. A person can be ordinary. However, if you live an ordinary life full and meaningful, such a life will never be ordinary again, and it will change from ordinary to extraordinary.
60. The girl who gave me the brightest youth now finds that she has let go. I have never missed her, only those who met and left, and myself who once shone in time.
6 1, the past is the past, and life needs to look forward. Forgotten time, water under the bridge.
62. Don't forget to promise what you want to do and where you want to go, no matter how difficult, how far and how unreliable. -Lu Sihao "You have to believe that there is no tomorrow that you can't reach."
63. The life I want is to have a serious job, open a less serious pub, sing two songs after work, make friends from all over the world, keep two cats in the pub, and enjoy drinking while licking cats with a group of people with similar tastes.
64. I hope you are getting better and better. I hope everyone can live the life they want. I really want to have time to keep reading. I wonder if I will have so much time after graduation.
65. Everyone is growing up and has learned a lot, from ignorance to sophistication. Will you still keep that original childlike heart? Sometimes I always ask myself, have you really grown up? Are you really sensible? Have you really grown up?
66. Time smoothes the side face and pretends to be extraordinary. Sooner or later, we will lose to time. Good night, ordinary world.
67. I like you. I didn't know until today that you have found someone you love. I am embarrassed. I want it, but you can't bear it. I still don't want to lose my memory of you.
68. She is like a traveler, but she is too tired to enjoy the infinitely beautiful scenery in front of her. This love did not make her feel a little happy, but she knew that this love was great and should not be lost.
69. Taste life with your heart and look around with gratitude.
70. Don't care about those who don't care about you, don't think about those who don't care about you, don't worry about those who don't care about you, and don't be with those who don't waste their time on you.
7 1, I would rather be poor and enjoy it, but I don't want to be rich and worry.
72. You are your own enemy, and only you can defeat yourself; You are your own God, and only you can save yourself.
73. Things like love and marriage are only temporary expedient measures for human beings to solve their own problems, which is why the more backward they are, the more flawed they are.
Judging from the tone of many couples talking to each other, it is not like two lovers at all, but more like a feud.
75. Love is a positive force. This kind of power can break through the barriers between people and unite people. Love can help people overcome loneliness and alienation, but at the same time, it can maintain individuality and integrity. In love, there will be such a paradox: two lives are integrated, but they still retain their personal dignity and personality.
If I haven't seen the sun, I can stand the darkness.
77. The first year of marriage: two people live for love. The second year of marriage: two people live for marriage. The third year of marriage: two people live for their children. In the later years, the two lived to live.
78. The real disappointment is not shouting, crying or losing your temper with you, but being silent. What you have done has nothing to do with me. Relax, you don't have that many viewers.
If he were my own son, I would be a hundred times tougher than before. If he were my own son, there wouldn't be so many electronic toys and high-end clothes, even shorts are famous brands. He won't take the piano. How many fingers did you say he moved when he bought it? He will be a very simple child, just like any ordinary family child, but he will definitely grow up in the future. Only children who grow up in this way will be much stronger than you and me. More importantly, it will be much harder than you and me.
80, everyone should have their own pride, don't have to be wronged for anyone, don't have to flatter anyone, don't have to follow anyone, and don't have to pretend to please those who ignore themselves, be proud of your life and live so proudly.
8 1, youth is a beautiful flower. If we want to manage our life well, we must let this wonderful flower extend that confidence. That smile. That persistent attitude.
82. Life is a process. Sadly, it cannot be repeated. Fortunately, this need not be repeated.
83. Believe that you have the ability to control your life! The rest of my life will be different. With a sincere heart, I will bravely face all the choices and separations.
84. Love lets us walk out of the narrow space and gives us more freedom. However, the subsequent marriage destroyed this fantasy, together with his once small free space.
On the surface, we are trapped by something in life. For example, many people complain that there are problems in marriage, boss and company. They often blame the outside, but in fact they are restricted by the internal mental model. Something is pressing him like an addiction, manipulating him all the time, and he doesn't know it.
86. The so-called luck is that the opportunity meets your unremitting efforts in the past.
87, don't ask the future, feel thrilling for the first time.
88. Most people ask me what my ideal is. Basically, I will say that I am famous and promoted to be a member of the upper class, because it is easier for the other party to understand. Why should I talk about my ideals everywhere? But I hope my lover can understand me.
89. You can sit back and enjoy success, but you may not be able to resist the sweat and tears left by your loved ones.
90. Be calm when frustrated and indifferent when proud. If frustration is the wealth of life, then trauma is the driving force of progress. No one's life will be smooth sailing. If we can face temporary failure with indifference, success is only a matter of time.