Why do people suffer, and why does life become very difficult? In the final analysis, it is not that people have too little, but that people want too much. It's not that there is no freedom, but that you can't understand the essence of freedom. Freedom should obey reason, and rational freedom means not doing what you want. Only in this way can people become their own masters. Li Ka-shing, the richest man in Hong Kong, said. Self-discipline is the ability and condition that a person who is determined to cultivate himself and achieve great things must have. In a big way, it is the embodiment of a group's ideological quality. In a small way, it is a test of a person's willpower. The performance of self-discipline is to know how to love yourself, be brave in introspection and be good at self-control. American psychologists have done an experiment. They put a group of children in the same room, put candy on them and told them to wait until the staff came back. Then I watched them with a hidden camera and found that only a few children overcame the temptation of candy. Later, the staff followed up and found that most of the children who didn't eat sugar had successful careers in adulthood, while those who ate sugar had little success and the unemployment rate was high. It can be seen that self-discipline is the cornerstone of success.
Don't think that indulgence once in a while has no effect on yourself and others. Indulge occasionally, and it will become a habit. People who have bad hobbies or have had bad hobbies are not liked. Don't think that there will be tomorrow after today, and everything is uncertain. If you don't do something today, you won't have a chance to do it later. So don't indulge your time. Do what you can do today, and do it as soon as you think about it. What we fear most in college is not that we are not motivated, but that we are not bound by our own thoughts. What we need most is to improve our skills in the process of finding goals, find ourselves in the process of finding goals, and form our own unique way of thinking. Simply put, what do we need to do when we graduate early? Is it postgraduate entrance examination or employment? What universities fear most is making mistakes. When everyone is crowded into the school gate, no one cares about your right or wrong, only your result. Don't be afraid to make mistakes. Fear lies in your ability not to make mistakes. Efficiency and effect are multiplied to get the optimal growth value. There are a hundred reasons to do something, and a hundred excuses to escape if you don't do it, so you can only try to fill your whole body and make your blood boil.
Life is sometimes really confusing. You try your best to do one thing, but nothing has changed. And some people around me, especially former classmates, friends or neighbors, seem to be effortless, one after another, lucky and get what they want. What is the reason? Some people often attribute the reason to their limited ability, think that they are not as good as others, and see that some people who seem to be not as good as themselves are better than themselves, so they attribute the reason to fate. In fact, others can succeed, not because they are naturally better than you, nor because they deserve it. Everyone is eager for success, but God has not given us a guide to success, but we have the ability to overcome all challenges. In fact, the best guide to success lies in each of us, but we don't realize that this guide is potential. Play your potential!
I have been trying to plan my time when I was in college, so that I can live a meaningful time every time. I will and will hold my cell phone in class, but I will try my best to restrain myself. I downloaded a software on my mobile phone and forced myself not to play. I can introduce this software to you: Nissin. There is a tomato clock function for every background operation. The tomato clock is a kind of clock similar to the kitchen timer. The average normal person's concentration time is about 25 minutes. You can also use a timing tool such as an hourglass to concentrate on your work, and then don't stand up and move whether you finish it or not. You can also let this software limit you when you want to play mobile phone, and you can't "study hard" too much. I will make a plan for myself every day, and I will not do nothing for myself. I will make a plan on this software every day and then let myself do one thing at a time, so that I will make progress over time. Although I may not make obvious progress, I know that my daily life is still meaningful. Finally, I will write down my feelings today in the function of the storage box, and I will write down my thoughts and opinions. In fact, the planning of a university still depends on its own nature. There is no standard answer, everyone's situation is different, everyone's direction is different, everyone's strategy is different, and they are constantly changing and adjusting with time. So look at yourself!
We should aim at a self-disciplined lifestyle and challenge all kinds of lazy ideas and excuses that pop up from time to time. Always reflect on yourself and cultivate yourself into a self-disciplined person. To control your emotions, desires and emotions, conquer all your weaknesses, continue to succeed and become a real strong person. You know, the strong man is strong because he shows his good side to face life, so he surpasses everyone, stimulates his potential and lives better. The potential of each of us is endless, but how much we can play depends on our self-awareness. No matter who you think you are, it will immediately affect your potential. A person's life is like climbing a mountain, and good scenery is often a dangerous place. Many people stop for fear of danger, and only a few people climb to the top and enjoy the beauty of fairyland on earth. A truly successful life must be a mountain of adventure! The more adventurous people are, the more they can detonate their potential. Therefore, failure is not due to fate, and success is not due to strength. Everyone hides amazing potential, and if left buried, it will stimulate potential in a mediocre life and achieve a brilliant life. So don't always indulge in mobile phones, try to restrain yourself!