People fail not because they don't have faith, but because they can't put faith into action and stick to it. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
3. The saddest person in the world is a person who has no advantages to show off, but uses annoying arrogance and boasting to cover up his poor inferiority. Weakness of human nature
If you want to succeed, you must meet the following conditions: enhance your enthusiasm with desire, smooth the mountain with perseverance, and believe that you will succeed. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
If you are unhappy, the only way to be happy is to sit up happily and pretend to speak and act happily. If your behavior exudes happiness, you can't be depressed all the time psychologically. This little basic truth can bring miracles to our lives. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
6. The process of spiritual maturity is a process of self-discovery and self-exploration. It is difficult for us to know others unless we know ourselves first. -Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
7. Fear is mostly caused by ignorance and uncertainty. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
8. Lincoln said: "An accomplished person can't care about others everywhere and spend time arguing with others. Unnecessary arguments will not only damage his temperament, but also make him lose self-control. Be as humble as possible to others. It is better to let the dog go first than to argue with it. Bitten by a dog, even if you kill the dog, you can't cure the wound. " -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
9. One of human nature is that people will not accept criticism from others, always think that they are always right, and like to find various excuses to defend themselves. -Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
10: Many people can't be good communicators, mainly because they only talk about things they are interested in, but these things annoy others. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
1 1: If you are criticized, please remember that it is because criticizing you will give him a sense of importance, which also shows that you are accomplished and attractive. Many people get satisfaction by blaming people who are more accomplished than themselves. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
12: Your interest lies in your ability. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
13: For those immature people, they can always find some excuses to cover up their shortcomings or misfortunes. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
14: Try to get close to those who know you, trust you and encourage you, which will have a great influence on your future success. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
15: Many lonely people do this because they don't understand that love and friendship are not gifts that fall from the sky. If a person wants to be welcomed or accepted by others, he must pay a lot of efforts and costs. If he wants others to like us, he really needs to do his best to love. Friendship or happy time cannot be stipulated in the contract. Let's face it, whether the husband dies or the wife dies, the living have the right to live a happy life again, but they must understand that happiness is not given by others, but to win the needs and love of others by themselves. -Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
16: If you don't agree with others, you may want to stop him, but you'd better not. It's no use. It is better to make friends than to make enemies; But if you want to make friends, let your friends walk in front of you. There is a saying in Germany: "The purest happiness is the happiness we get from the difficulties of others." Yes, some friends may get more satisfaction from your difficulties than from your victory. So don't always exaggerate your achievements to others, we should be modest, so that people will always like it. We should be modest, because neither you nor I are great people ...-Dale Carnegie's Complete Works of Human Weaknesses.
17: The most important thing is not whether others love us, but whether we deserve to be loved. -Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
18: in the complicated modern society, only those who can keep their inner peace will not become neuropathy. People who don't know how to resist anxiety will live shorter. Nothing can make a woman age faster than worry, thus ruining her appearance. What makes you relaxed and happy most is sound faith, sleep, music and laughter. -Have confidence in the future.-Have a good sleep.-Look at life from the funny side. Health and happiness are yours. -Dale Carnegie's Complete Works of Human Weaknesses
19: Being kind to others is not a responsibility, but a pleasure, because it can improve your health and happiness. When you treat others well, you treat yourself well. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
Gratitude is the product of high education, which ordinary people can't get. It is human nature to forget or not thank. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
2 1: Everyone I meet has something better than me. I should learn from them in this respect. -Emerson's The Weakness of Human Nature
22. Willie James: "In human nature, the deepest nature is the desire to be valued by others." -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
The saddest thing in human nature is that all of us are procrastinating to live, dreaming of the beautiful rose garden on the horizon and unable to appreciate the roses blooming outside our window today. -Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
Accepting the fait accompli is the first step to overcome any misfortune that comes with it. Accepting the worst can help you develop your new abilities psychologically. The biggest disadvantage of worry is that it destroys our ability to concentrate. Once worry happens, our thoughts will wander around and lose our decision-making ability. If you have concerns, do the following three things: 1. Ask yourself: What's the worst that can happen? 2。 If you must accept it, be prepared to accept it. 3。 Then calmly find ways to improve the worst situation. -Dale Carnegie's Complete Works of Human Weaknesses
25: In any case, stay true and unique. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
26: The first step for a person to mature should be to dare to take responsibility. When we live in this world, we have to face many responsibilities in life. For those immature people, they can always find some reasons to get rid of some of their shortcomings or misfortunes. It is important to transform people's lives better, instead of indulging in the abyss of self-pity. Take the consequences for your actions and be responsible for your actions, not just kicking a chair! -Dale Carnegie's Complete Works of Human Weaknesses
27: save face for others! What an important question this is! And we seldom think about it. Even if others make mistakes, we are right. If we don't save face for others, we will ruin a person. -Dale Carnegie's Complete Works of Human Weaknesses
It seems that there are fewer people who can cultivate the ability to listen well than anyone with a good personality. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
29: The concept is extremely simple, but unfortunately, it is very complicated and difficult to realize. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
30. "Unwilling to be mediocre, advocating struggle" The value of life needs to be realized by hard work. From the beginning of stepping into this world, we have been endowed with an invisible responsibility, light or heavy, and have interpreted different lives. Everyone has his own life trajectory, and we watch from the sidelines, watching others' happiness or sadness. Life is so long, we can't immerse ourselves in other people's colorful stage, and we still have our own stage to perform with our heart. "Self-improvement, morality", I advocate this broad spiritual realm. -Dale Carnegie's Complete Works of Human Weaknesses
3 1: Do it well if you want to. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
Two men look out from the fence. One person sees the mud on the ground, and the other person sees the stars all over the sky. True happiness is not necessarily pleasure, but mostly victory. The most important thing in life is not to invest your income. Anyone can do this. What really matters is how to profit from the loss. This requires wisdom to show that people are smart above others and stupid below others. Man has the ability to turn defeat into victory. Nietzsche: Excellent people can not only endure what others can't, but also are willing to take such challenges. Our greatest weakness may bring us unexpected help -Dale Carnegie's Complete Works of Human Weaknesses
33: "Let's remember that the objects we get along with are not absolutely rational animals, but full of emotional changes, prejudice, conceit and vanity." No matter how much you admire people, they all have such things, but they are obvious and not obvious. -Dale Carnegie's Complete Works of Human Weaknesses
Many troubles in life stem from our blind comparison with others and forgetting to enjoy our own life. -Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
The biggest lesson I have learned is that our thoughts are the most important. If I can understand your thoughts, I can understand you, because your thoughts make you who you are. By changing our own ideas, we can change our lives. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
Our fatigue is usually not caused by the work itself, but by anxiety, tension and unhappiness. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
Don't judge others, lest they be judged. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
Treat others as you want them to treat you. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
39: One thing, as long as you can think of it, you will think clearly. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
The only way to influence others in the world is to talk about what he wants and tell him how to get it. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
4 1: None of us want to be lectured, and no one will like it. Please remember that you must make us feel happy and interesting, otherwise, we won't pay attention to anything you say. At the same time, please remember that one of the most interesting things in this world is to refine the anecdotes of celebrities' elegance and wit. So, please tell us the stories of two people you know, and tell us why one of them succeeded and the other failed. We are happy to listen. At the same time, please remember that we may benefit from this example. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
I have no time to quarrel and regret, and no one can force me to hate them. I think of those kind people who helped me, and I can never repay them! -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
43: What you think of you is not who you really are, but what you think you will become. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
If you admit your mistake before others blame you. If the other person wants to say something, you have said it for him, and he has nothing to say, then you have a 99% chance to get his understanding. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
45: Shakespeare once said, "Nothing is good or evil, but thought makes it so." -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
As long as you believe what you are doing is right, don't care what others say. -Dale Carnegie's Complete Works of Human Weaknesses
We have to believe in something. However, if we don't take action on this belief, everything will still be useless. Faith without action is useless. People don't fall down because they don't have confidence, but because they can't turn their beliefs into actions and persist regardless. Of course, faith alone is not enough to make us mature. The advantage of faith is that it can strengthen our courage, so that when we are tested, we will not get cold feet. Unless we are based on faith and then put it into action, any truth principle is useless. Only actions count. -Dale Carnegie's Complete Works of Human Weaknesses
If you are criticized, it is because criticizing you can give him a sense of satisfaction. This also shows that you are successful and attractive. Small people are often proud of the shortcomings or mistakes of great people. Unreasonable criticism is often a disguised compliment. -Dale Carnegie's Complete Works of Human Weaknesses
49: For those who like to avoid responsibility, difficulties have become the best shield. If people feel that the environment is not good all day, of course, they will blame their faults on "defects" or other reasons. Mature people will not fall into their own predicament, but face it bravely, accept it, and then try to overcome and solve it. They won't beg for mercy, they won't despair, and they won't make excuses to escape. Immature people can always regard their differences as defects and obstacles, and then expect special treatment. -Dale Carnegie's Complete Works of Human Weaknesses
50: People who can pour out their troubles to intimate friends are usually people who can grasp happiness, reduce fatigue and be full of energy. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature