Extroversion is necessary for life, introversion is for self-enjoyment

Terayama Shuji said that he only dreamed of the sea when he was alone.

What are the characteristics of introverted personality?

Careful observation

Introverted personality can quickly observe changes in the surroundings in most quiet environments. to make judgments about their own actions. This enables people with introverted personality to often make correct and more precise actions and obtain more adaptable results.

Delicate thoughts and hidden emotional reactions

People with introverted personality have good emotional self-control. Most of the time, it is not that they are unwilling to talk, but that they have developed a habit.

Some introverted personalities are affected by congenital influences or the environment in which they grew up in childhood, and they become more and more "introverted" in their later growth. For such introverted people, some things It’s not that I don’t want to say it, it’s that it’s passed and there’s no need to say it anymore.

Good at analyzing and explaining

Introverted personalities are thoughtful and observant, and they have rational analytical skills in most situations.

Profound pessimism

“Precocious people are basically pessimistic.” This confirms the majority of introverted personalities who have problems in their family of origin: they mature prematurely and are introverted. , they have already understood many truths in their hearts, and the emotions that were not properly handled at a young age have turned into a set of concepts buried deep in the hearts of introverted personalities, which makes them look at most problems, even the world, with their own thoughts. My own "pessimistic filter".

Imagination

Many famous artists are introverts, such as Monet, Renoir, etc., and there are also many famous people, such as Einstein, Buffett... Introverts Because people are quiet and don't like to talk, they are good at thinking, so they have rich imagination and depth.

Is introversion a flaw?

Introversion is not a flaw.

There is no need to feel inferior or feel anxious about it. Not everyone is lively and outgoing, and not everyone needs colorful Du Jiao. We can socialize in our own way and express our love for life and love for others in our own way.

For introverted personalities, do these three things to become an introverted person: reduce speculation and don’t care about other people’s opinions

Feel that you have no right to participate? Do you think your words are not interesting enough? No matter how many reasons you have Let yourself feel inferior and anxious... Let us reduce internal friction, be more courageous, do what we like down-to-earth, don't think about what others think, and be brave enough to be ourselves.

Make friends in your own circle

For introverted personalities, it is more important for us to use our true appearance to make friends with truly like-minded people, and to establish high-level and stable relationships. relationship, this kind of circle is the circle that is helpful to us.

Create a correct sense of introverted boundaries

“Don’t feel weak, just go to the place where you are strong.” Don’t run away from yourself or your own shortcomings. Some shortcomings are often The most unique thing about him.

We don’t need to cater to others and erase the most precious things about ourselves, but it is precisely after we establish the correct introverted boundaries and sense that people will favor you as a unique and stable person. .

What I hope you understand is: "Human beings always look from the life they choose to another life they did not choose, feeling envious and regretful." But the most precious thing is the choice we make now Introversion is fine with all this.

Mao Buyi said: "You have to allow some people to have a quiet youth. I hope every introverted personality can face himself correctly, give full play to his own advantages and potential, and become a treasure.