I very much agree with what Xu Huizhen said that forgiveness is to forgive yourself. Well, He Yongqiang did let Xu Huizhen down. He Yongqiang was selfish, narrow-minded, chauvinistic, petty-minded, and short-sighted. He was like a frog in a well and knew nothing about Xu Huizhen's ambitions. Do you think two people can be together? There is a mismatch between the woman he wants and the woman he wants
In He Yongqiang’s eyes, Xu Hui is really strong, capable, and even immoral. What he wants is a woman who has no independent opinions, is submissive to him, and admires Chen Chen , even if his life is messy, he can't let go of his stupid or even ignorant man. The world that such a person sees is only as big as the mouth of a well. What else do you expect? If Xu Huizhen is so entangled and resentful, it is not for herself, but for herself.
After marrying Cai Quan, Xu Huizhen completely let go of her resentment. Otherwise, how could she help He Yongqiang secretly? How can he take over his three daughters and raise them carefully? Because he didn't want them to grow up to be as short-sighted as He Yongqiang. Sure enough, under Xu Huizhen's training, He Yongqiang's three daughters all became capable, able, and competent people. Lao He is just an old guy abandoned by the times
This Lao He is not a bad guy. At best, he is an old guy abandoned by the times. He lives stubbornly in his own narrow circle. Sometimes he feels pitiful and even Sadly, even such a person has his own concept of love. He wants to find a woman who is gentle and appreciates him, but this woman is definitely not Xu Huizhen. Love is like a person who knows when drinking water is warm or cold. Cai Quanwu is so wise, and only a true and kind person is worthy of a wonderful woman like Xu Huizhen.
The strong-willed melon is not sweet. In fact, Xu Huizhen fell in love with Principal Xu from the beginning, but it seems that Xu Hesheng is also a bit fussy and cares about Cai Junwu. Huizhen gets angry when she hears this. , immediately regretted it. She didn't think Xu Hesheng was very sinister, but she saw the shadow of He Yongqiang in Xu Hesheng. To be honest, as free, brave, and far-sighted as Xu Huizhen, there were not many people who could really match him, and even fewer.
In the newly liberated New China, there are a few people who can stare at the newspapers like Huizhen, care about national affairs, keep up with the times, or really like her and admire her. Cai Quanwu is this kind of person , on the one hand because of Cai Quanwu's kindness, on the other hand because of his great wisdom and foolishness. There were many people like He Yongqiang and Xu Hesheng at that time, so Xu Huizhen was destined to write this story. He knew that He Yongqiang was just an episode in her story at best. He Yongqiang owes him
For a long time, she has been embarrassing He Yongqiang like this, causing trouble for him and keeping him from getting off the stage, because in his subconscious, He Yongqiang owes her, at least to treat herself openly and honestly. I'm sorry, but this stubborn person always doesn't have it. If he doesn't, he won't, but he can't be allowed to lead the child badly. Especially Jingli, he didn't want He Yongqiang to put any brand on the child, otherwise Jingli would be the most responsible child, especially when he named the child Caizhen.
I really admire Xu Huizhen, a woman who said, “Women admire chastity, men imitate kindness, know their mistakes and correct them, and their actions will bear fruit.
One's life is short, one's lust is long, a messenger can be recovered, but a weapon's desire is hard to measure." This is a thousand-character essay that Cai Quanwu boasted about Jingli after hearing the name Cai Zhen. An unknown coolie could recite it by heart. From such a passage, we can see what an admirable man this is, and the name Caizhen is the greatest feedback to Xu Huizhen and Cai Quanwu. Who else can she hate if she is still bound by He Yongqiang's narrow-mindedness? I'm really sorry for the name Cai Zhen!
There is so much love and hatred in life. It is better to forgive others or to forgive yourself. This is Xu Huizhen's wise words to everyone! You are not in the same field or channel at all. When you try to persuade others, you don’t know that his vision is as wide as the mouth of a well. Even if you still have a bright future, he will never see you, so your hatred will always be there. Sky, if once I put it down, I would feel that all the hatred is no bigger than the mouth of the well...