Some women have been married for many years and now they are equivalent to single mothers. They cook and take care of the children alone, regardless of injuries and illness. Tired, I want to sleep for a while, but I'm worried about oversleeping and missing the children's school time.

When I go to pick up my children from school alone, I have to worry about strange eyes, see my greasy household clothes, and put my children to bed alone. My husband is finally leaving work, thinking that he can finally speak his mind. Finally, he is waiting for a message that he can't go home at night.

At this point, the woman finally couldn't help crying. In her life, her husband rarely appeared from beginning to end, as if he had never appeared in Zhang Ju's life.

In marriage, many young mothers have had such a life experience. In fact, marriage itself is not terrible. The terrible thing is to marry the wrong person. Since then, husband and wife life has become a widowed marriage.

In fact, from love to strangeness to divorce, there are cases around us. Some women give up their careers for their families after marriage, lose their figure and even suffer from postpartum depression.

However, there are still some women who have to go out to work under pressure in order to earn money to support their families after marriage. Even some women have to take their children with them when they work to earn money, and the father of the child has never played the role of father from beginning to end, and has no sense of responsibility as husband and father at all.

Men don't care about children and family, and women can only be both fathers and mothers, taking care of children while working.

Nowadays, most women have to undertake housework and children's education, and do all kinds of housewives' work. What is even more frightening is that they can't get the understanding of their husbands in the high-intensity life state of taking care of work and family.

Which woman doesn't want to live a life of three meals a day and four seasons with the man she loves, which woman doesn't want to have her own career and a happy family at the same time, and which woman doesn't want to keep her former vitality and their health forever.

Then, it is definitely not a whim for women to choose divorce, nor is it carried away by anger, but that women are too tired. She is not afraid of hardship, and she is afraid that men will not understand her hardship. Women have given men countless opportunities to make up for it, but men don't realize it.

Some men abandon their wives when they are depressed after giving birth, and when they complain, she chooses to forgive them. When the man coaxed them into saying that they were just careless, the woman still chose tolerance.

Children cry in the middle of the night, women are hugging him, and men sleep next to him, every day, women forgive men normally. When men tell themselves that they are too tired to work and ask women to save money, women can only do it.

In the marriage life, in the baptism of daily necessities, women are washed away more and more lightly, so they are disappointed and heartbroken, so they can only choose to leave.

I remember watching a TV play. Before the divorce, the hostess said to her ex-husband, "I thought I would need you badly at least once in my life, but I was wrong." Even without you, there will be my parents' funerals when I give birth, when my children are sick, when my parents are exhausted from raising children and sick, and when I wait on them in the hospital. I can do it without you. Of course, it would be nice if you were by my side at these times when I was afraid and worried, but you never stood in my way. "

When a woman is strong enough to bear anything in life alone and no longer needs a man, a man has no meaning in marriage.

A happy marriage is one of the luckiest things in life. An unhappy marriage is equivalent to living without any meaning. Marriage is different from the love period of two people.

Marriage requires a man to do a responsibility and responsibility. If a woman chooses marriage, she should enjoy this happiness. At the same time, both husband and wife should make all preparations. Marriage is the life-long responsibility and obligation of husband and wife. After marriage officially enters life, both husband and wife should shoulder heavy responsibilities and take care of each other.

Then, before you get married, you should also make all the preparations. When you are urged to get married by your family, when you meet the right blind date, and you are not sure whether to marry the person in front of you, or whether to have a lower quality of life, or whether to maintain your independent personality first, and slowly find a person you like and live that high-quality life, all these depend on your choice.

In addition, women should not lower their value after marriage, and should also have a career of their own in the case of a happy marriage. After marriage, men should have a sense of responsibility and responsibility, and always remember their obligations.

Marriage is a mutual effort and care, not a one-way responsibility. Only when husband and wife Qi Xin work together can the road to marriage become brighter and brighter.