1. Not taken seriously
If you insist on ranking your family, you will find that you will always be the last one, and in the process, he will be double-marked because he doesn't pay attention to you. For example, he is very kind to his parents, and it is very bad for your parents to give money during the Spring Festival. Besides, you can't do what he can, so he can, when he comes to a friend's house. Second, there are many selfish men who try to change you and hope that you can live according to his standards under the banner of being good for you. For example, some men will tell you that it is too hard and tiring to go to work, and this bitter husband can come alone. Later, you can take care of the children and do housework at home, but later you will find that you have to go to work, take care of the children and clean the housework. He has not compensated you yet, and he does not understand your suffering. For example, if you want to buy a cosmetic, he says you don't want to buy it, but you look at other people's cosmetics.
Take others' kindness to him for granted.
You can't see other people's efforts, and you won't touch them. Even if you are kind to him a hundred times, as long as you are bad once, you will immediately deny all your previous kindness and don't understand your difficulties and difficulties. Even if others can remember his goodness, they will soon forget it. In short, he will always take what others have done to him for granted and find fault with you. Of course, the most chilling thing is that if you are a little unhappy, you will completely deny your contribution with some cold words, and always adopt an attitude of enjoyment, without sacrificing your feelings, especially when you divorce, you will immediately show your true colors and gain huge benefits.
Will force you to do things you don't like, regardless of your feelings.
If you have repeatedly mentioned that you want to take the promotion exam, but he still lets you run around and take up time, if you tell him that her mother-in-law's picky makes people collapse, but he still lets you take care of her, no matter whether you are wronged or not, then you must understand that he is a very selfish person and only cares about himself.