Etiquette is sunshine and rain, and it is the flower of the soul. As guardians of the family, what should we do? In my opinion, etiquette is for yourself first. Don't be angry with yourself easily, let your mood shine, and you will be warm to others. Then, etiquette is given to those closest to you. Parents, wives, husbands and sons in your own family, we may feel that people who are too close are very polite and embarrassed. In fact, family members are too familiar and close, which is exactly where courtesy is needed. Thank you, one word. Never tire of listening. Some of us are bound to be upset because our children are impolite, so we might as well start from ourselves and be polite in adults, so that our children can be infected in a good environment.
How do you want others to wait for you? Be kind to others first. When you are friendly to others, you may not always be rewarded, or you may suffer temporarily, but in the long run, the person who benefits the most must be yourself. Jackie Chan, a famous actor, has a famous saying: If you lose, you gain. As the saying goes, if you give someone a rose, there is more fragrance in your hand. A person who pays attention to etiquette will certainly gain a happy family, successful career and harmonious interpersonal relationship.
Finally, let's join hands with etiquette to create a better life. Etiquette has developed vigorously, and observing, learning and practicing etiquette has become a common practice.
The most important thing in life is politeness, which is more important than the highest wisdom and all knowledge. "-[Russia] Herzen
The Chinese nation is known as the "state of etiquette", and how should the new generation of young college students, as the stars of national hope, pass on the fine tradition of Chinese nation's worship and respect for etiquette from generation to generation? I think it's necessary to talk about the topic "What do contemporary college students lack", from which some problems may be found and solved in time. Only in this way can we really cultivate compound practical talents in the new century: sit down and write, stand up and say, and run out to be competent.
An old professor said with emotion, "I think some college students can learn to queue up in a civilized way even if they fail to live up to the training and education of the university during their four years in college." Listen, shock, doubt-I'll tell you, it's actually our own fault. Don't you see? -It was on the bus, and the old professor with gray temples reluctantly "stood and observed" a pair of "student lovers" sitting beside him in the same car and quietly "whispered". Is this normal? ! It's unusual to walk away when you meet a teacher and call him by his first name behind his back. That's the classroom and study room. Pairs of men and women are cuddling, completely ignoring the "visual pollution" of others. After eating in the canteen, it was full of beautiful things and a mess. Draw and tear after reading the book. Cheating in exams is even more varied and changing with each passing day, which makes teachers hard to prevent. Is that normal? ! How can such a high-quality student be accepted by the society and welcomed in the group? How can a person who doesn't know how to respect himself and others expect him to respect society and the nation? No wonder some employers complain that college students are arrogant and sloppy, unable to do big things and unwilling to do small things. Their self-cultivation and civilized quality are disappointing to some extent! Listen, shock, doubt-think about it! Does this evaluation also include you and me? Even if you master the deepest knowledge, what value does such "image orientation" have for society and people? How to locate the image quality of college students? In today's transformation from exam-oriented education to quality education, how to strengthen etiquette education, improve students' civilized quality, and educate students to learn to be human first is really an urgent task of education!
Xunzi said, "If people are rude, they will not live, if things are rude, they will not succeed, and if countries are rude, they will be uneasy." It can be seen that etiquette is the foundation of being a man, the foundation of career success and the good medicine for governing the country and keeping the country safe. "Governing the country and leveling the world starts with self-cultivation". In the future, regardless of politics, business, learning and creation, students must first learn to be human. In today's society, image is value, and the external expression of people's quality is image, which is a concept with profound connotation and extensive extension. People's mental outlook is undoubtedly an image and a comprehensive feeling. At present, people generally unify the image of college students with the visual image, which is what we often call the CI concept. CI is the abbreviation of English Corporate Identity, which literally translates as "organizational characteristics". The basic elements include: spiritual identity (university spirit, school motto, outlook on life, etc. ), behavioral identity (style of study construction, psychological quality, mental state, temperament and feelings, etc.). ), and visual recognition (clothing, manners, interpersonal communication, etc. Combining with the concept of CI, it is not difficult to find that the image design of contemporary college students should be a well-read, high-quality and dynamic group with independent personality and diversified ability, and should be a combination of intelligence and ability.
Confucius said, "If you don't learn manners, you can't stand.". College students belong to a special class with a higher social level, which requires us to have a good image in order to be invincible. Facing the broad road of job hunting after graduation, we all hope to successfully improve ourselves and realize our self-worth. However, "courtesy in the world, rudeness is hard to move" and "ten years of school work is not worth ten minutes of society"! Instead of exclaiming like this, it is better to plan ahead, so I think that when studying the image quality orientation of contemporary college students and how to improve their image quality, on the one hand, we should strengthen etiquette education from school moral education, strengthen etiquette courses, incorporate moral education into etiquette education, and carry out colorful etiquette activities to promote a more intense etiquette atmosphere on campus. On the other hand, college students should have strong internal quality and good external image. "No rules can make Fiona Fang", we should be strict with ourselves, formulate a set of etiquette system for ourselves, consciously adjust moral concepts, values and behavior patterns from the shaping of external image to the pursuit of internal realm, constantly expand the field of self-knowledge and comprehensively enhance self-image.
We believe that young people are prosperous and young people are national. As a star of hope, we will not live up to the expectations of the people of the motherland, and make our reputation as a "state of etiquette" more worthy of the name and more dazzling in the new century.
We believe that young people are prosperous and young people are national. As a star of hope, we will not live up to the expectations of the people of the motherland, and make our reputation as a "state of etiquette" more worthy of the name and more dazzling in the new century.
There are more and more impolite people in our life. I remember what Confucius said, "If you don't learn manners, why can't you be worthy?" I think it makes sense.
The Chinese nation is famous as "the state of etiquette". As China people, we should be polite. The beauty of appearance refers to the beautiful facial features and strong figure. Inner beauty contains more things and can accompany him all his life. For example, when friends usually walk around, they should also keep the basic rule: "Don't be rude when you come."
Once a college student accidentally met an old man while riding a bike. The college student shouted "Do you have eyes?" Scold the old man in one sentence. She can't believe that this fashionable college student is so rude. She struggled to get up from the ground and left without saying anything.
Mr. Zhang Zexing, a famous economist, has been engaged in the research of Keynesian economic theory, and his academic achievements are well-known at home and abroad. Now he is an old man. Every time I meet a friend, the old man bows nearly 90 degrees, and the other person is at a loss. Through these two things, we can see that impolite behavior directly affects the quality of individuals.
Politeness is a tenacious wisdom. This peaceful and inner expression is respect for others, which will not cause the other person's antipathy, and naturally broaden their room for manoeuvre. Smart people abide by this law in their lives.
Because "courtesy is in the world, rudeness is hard to move."