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My wife's last message
Cherish what you love. There is no regret medicine in the world.
My wife is a little tail. She asks me everywhere I go. I'm bored, but she enjoys it. However, this little tail disappeared forever in the middle of the night when it rained heavily ... My mood was very sad and my heart was full of guilt and pain. I can't forgive my mistake
On my wedding day, my wife bought me a mobile phone with the money from buying a ring. That night, the two of us were under the covers, debugging the ringtone of the mobile phone over and over again. We feel that life is like this bell, loud and sweet, full of longing and hope. From that day on, I often received a phone call from her: "Husband, buy something to eat after work." "Husband, I miss you and I love you." "Husband, go to my mother's house for dinner at night." My heart is warm. Once I forgot to charge my mobile phone, which happened to accompany my leader to the grassroots. I didn't get home until midnight. I opened the door and found that my wife had cried her eyes red. It turns out that since I got off work, she called every quarter of an hour, and I was out of service. My wife is more anxious and always thinks something is wrong. Later, she called every ten minutes and didn't put down the receiver until I opened the door. I don't think much of my wife's fuss: "I'm not a child, what else can I do?" My wife said she had a hunch that I wouldn't come back until I answered the phone. I patted my wife on the head and smiled: "Fool!" "However, since then, I have never forgotten to charge my mobile phone in time.
Later, I got a promotion, got money, and changed several mobile phones. Suddenly one day, I remembered the ring I owed my wife, so I excitedly dragged her to the mall. But she hesitated again and said, "What's the use of the platinum diamond ring in your hand?" Will you buy me a mobile phone? I can contact you often. "So I bought her a mobile phone.
That day, one of us was in the bedroom and the other in the living room, texting each other and having a good time.
One night, my colleagues and I went to a friend's house to play cards. We are in a good mood. My wife called: "Where are you?" Why don't you go home? ""I play cards at my colleague's house. " "When will you come back?" "Let's talk about it later. "Lost, won, won, lost, the wife played over and over again. It was raining heavily outside, and my wife's phone rang again: "Where the hell are you?" "What are you doing? Come back soon! " "Didn't tell you? I am playing at my colleague's house. How can I go back in such a heavy rain! " "Then tell me where you are and I'll pick you up!" "No need!" All my friends who play cards laugh at me for being "henpecked". In a rage, I turned off my phone.
At dawn, I lost my hands. My friend drove me home, my door was locked and my wife was not at home. Just then, the phone rang. It was my mother-in-law. The other end of the phone cried and said that she came out in the rain at night, rode a bicycle and took an umbrella to my colleague's house to find one house after another, and there was an accident on the road and she never woke up.
I turned on my mobile phone and saw an unread message on it: "Have you forgotten? Today is our wedding anniversary! I'm coming for you, don't run around, I have an umbrella! " She is on her way to find me and will never wake up. I was in tears and looked at this message over and over again. I felt like I lost the whole world that night.
It's been three months since my wife died, and I still can't wake up from the nightmare. I don't want to work. I feel depressed all day and want to accompany her again and again. ...
The purpose of reposting this article is to let everyone learn to cherish it!
Don't let the person who loves you get the slightest harm!
Don't wait to lose it, it's torturing you!
Seven touching stories (please read the last one)
1. Takeaway key
He met her on the train. He sat opposite her. He is a painter. He had been drawing her, and when he sent her the draft, they knew that they lived in the same city. Two weeks later, she decided that he was the love of her life.
That year, she became a bride, as if a dream had come true. It feels so good. However, married life is like a cross race. After polishing, there is no light. He is informal, untidy and unsociable. He advocates freedom and likes freedom. Although she is as clever as the lamb of God, he still feels that marriage has bound him. But they still love each other, and he has a good personality and never plays around.
She divorced him with tears in her eyes, but she took the key to the house. She no longer cares about his unkempt hair, when to rest, where to go and who to be with, but just cleans up the room and cleans up the garbage as always. He is also used to her coming on and off. He loves her more romantically than in marriage. What candlelight dinner, hiking and rose bed, she didn't enjoy in love and marriage, but now. They are no different from husband and wife except that the bright red marriage certificate has become a dark green divorce certificate.
Later, he finally became a famous artist. A foot-high painting turned into dozens of colored bills. She helps him manage and spend. They lived like this until he was diagnosed with terminal cancer. On his deathbed, he took her hand and asked her why she stayed with him all her life without regrets. She told him that love is much longer than marriage. Marriage is over, but love is not over, so she will wait for him all her life.
Yes, love lasts longer than marriage. After marriage, love can continue. Love lies not in the form of marriage, but in the content.
2. Broken vase
He and she are college classmates. He comes from a remote rural area and she comes from a prosperous city. His father is a farmer and her father is a manager. Other than that, no one said they were made for each other. Under the strong opposition of her family, they finally came together.
He is a directional candidate and can only return to the scheduled unit after graduation. She gave up her father's good unit and followed him back to his county. He works as a clerk in the bureau. She teaches in a middle school and leads a hard and quiet life. In today's materialistic world, this kind of love is no less than Hollywood's "classic".
It was very cold that day. She dragged her body with a bad cold and made up lessons for students who dropped out of school at school. She called him and told him to go home early to cook. But when she came home tired and hungry, he was not there, and the room was deserted and there was no trace of popularity. When he came back, she was getting up to cook. She asked him where he had gone, and he said that because she couldn't come back to cook, he went out to eat. She was very sad and walked into the bedroom with tears in her eyes. When she walked past the tea table, the skirt scraped the vase on the tea table, and the vase fell to the ground and broke into pieces. After half a year, she left the county and returned to the bustling city.
This is marriage, strong and fragile. Just like a beautiful vase, if it is placed in the right place, it can withstand the weathering of years, but if it is touched lightly and falls to the ground, it may become countless pieces.
3. dripping window eaves
He and she belong to childhood friends, so familiar with each other, and the frequency of breathing is similar. After a long time, marriage became dull and depressing. She knows that he is considerate and kind, but she is still not satisfied. She asked him, why are you not interested at all? He smiled awkwardly. How can it be interesting?
Later, she wanted to leave him. He asked, why? She said, I hate this lifeless life. He said, then let God decide. If it rains tonight, it is God's will to keep us together. At night, as soon as she slept, she heard the sound of raindrops hitting the window. She was surprised. Is it really raining? She stood up and went to the window. There are water drops on the glass. Looking at the night sky, it is full of stars! She climbed onto the roof. Oh, my God! He is watering with a spoon upstairs. Her heart moved, and she hugged him gently from behind.
Marriage needs a little fun. It is like an oasis in the desert, which makes our tired eyes feel hope and beauty, and gives the "left hand" and "right hand" a fresh feeling appropriately.
4. Last trip
He is a design engineer, and she is the head teacher of the graduating class of middle school. Both of them missed the best season of falling in love, and later they were introduced. There is no earth-shattering process, just getting along with each other and getting married naturally.
On the third day after marriage, he went to work overtime. In order to catch up with the design, he can even work hard all night and stay at home for days and nights. She is busy with the management of the graduating class and often comes home late. For their respective careers, they are like two gyroscopes, rotating at high speed in their respective orbits.
After seeing off the graduating class, she began to re-examine her life and marriage at leisure. She began to be confused and didn't know how important she was to him. She doesn't seem to remember him saying that she loves him. One day, she asked him if he loved her. He said yes, otherwise how could he get married? She asked him why he didn't say love. He said he didn't know how to say it. She took out a written divorce agreement. He paused and said, let's travel. I didn't accompany you on your honeymoon. I owe you so much.
They went to Zhangjiajie, where there are strange peaks and rocks. Rainy weather is the same as their gloomy mood. Walking on the winding mountain road, she found him always walking outside. She asked him why, and he said the road was too slippery. He is worried that the fence outside is not strong and she may fall down accidentally. Her heart suddenly warmed up and she tore up the divorce agreement when she got home.
Many times, love is buried in the bottom of my heart, especially in the process of marriage. It is plain and unspeakable, but it is true.
5. Dried radish
There is an old couple living downstairs. The man is a retired department-level cadre, and the woman was the chief physician of a big hospital before she retired. Their two children, one is a middle-level cadre in a bureau and the other is studying abroad.
One night in autumn, I saw an old lady drying carrots. I'm surprised that a family like her still eats with her own food. I asked her, Aunt Zhang, is your family still flooded with pickles? The old lady is full of charm and smiles happily. She said that you, Wang Bo, like to eat my radish and pickles, and you won't get tired of them all your life. I used to give him dry food no matter how busy I was at work. Besides, now that you are retired, you have plenty of time.
Looking at the old man who turned over the vegetables, I suddenly remembered Mr. Lin Yutang's famous saying: Love a person should start from his stomach. For those marriages that have experienced ups and downs for decades, love may really fall in the bowl and fall on the "dried radish".
Not every love is earth-shattering, but it is a realm of marriage.
7. The scenery around you
Like many families, he once loved each other so passionately, but with the passage of time, he began to become indifferent, which is probably what people often call "aesthetic fatigue." His passion became less and less, and his heart began to drift.
He began to surf the Internet, chat QQ, and look for fresh feelings in the virtual world. One day, he saw a short article signed "Falling Maple Leaves" on a website, which was about a woman's disappointment with her marriage and life. The beautiful words and the faint sadness flowing between them deeply touched him. He doesn't understand how a woman with such delicate and rich feelings can't be cherished by her husband. He couldn't help looking through the woman's registration information, only to find that the registered email address was actually spelled in his wife's name. He suddenly breathed a sigh of relief. Isn't his wife's name Feng? How could he forget?
My wife used to be the president of the literary society in the university, but getting married made her forget many hobbies.
He went into the kitchen and put his arm around his wife's waist from behind. Let's go out for a walk after supper. The wife's shoulders trembled slightly: the sun is coming out in the west? Don't you surf the Internet? He turned his wife's body, looked at that beautiful face and said, I will accompany you for a walk every day in the future.
"I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, but toward which corner of the mountain." People often say that there is no scenery around me, but the scenery is always around you.
7. A docile husband
He and she are both coolies, with low wages, but enough to live. The husband is ordinary, but the wife is beautiful and smart.
Because we both have a lot of time, we occasionally go out to see a movie, go to the park, or go out for dinner. As long as the wife is willing, the husband will accompany her. Everything follows my wife, as long as she is happy and conditions permit, she never says a word "no", as if she never has her own ideas. Once they went out to eat, the wife asked her husband to order, and the husband said, you can order whatever you like. If your wife is a little angry, you won't have any opinions! Isn't it a little timid! The husband was shocked and sighed: I am just an ordinary worker. I can't give you a spacious house and a beautiful car. I just want to give you the best in my ability.
There are humble men and women in the world, but there is no humble love If you love her, give her the best. I think this is the true meaning of marriage.
A person who can accompany you through ups and downs and grow old together, are you willing to hit her?
If she didn't choose to marry you, would she be beaten?
Everyone is fair, accompany you to spend your youth and accompany you through the difficulties. ..........
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