1. Be an ambitious person
Mao Zedong once said, "If you are confident that your life will last two hundred years, you will swim three thousand miles into the water."
Napoleon also once said "A soldier who doesn't want to be a general is not a good soldier."
These famous quotes tell us that we should have faith and confidence as a person. Faith is the beacon that guides us to success, and self-confidence is the driving force to reach the pinnacle of life. A good future comes from self-improvement, self-reliance, and self-confidence. Don’t give up until you reach your goal. Don’t let go. It is often not others but yourself who fail you. Don’t regard one failure as the final judgment of life. Escape is cowardly, avoidance is passive, and retreating appears even more incompetent. The road to success must be forged by oneself. There are confusions in life and difficulties in doing things. Nothing in the world is smooth sailing, only strong confidence and perseverance. A man establishes himself in the world, makes his own decisions, is not afraid of failure, and never gives up.
When you succeed, don't get drunk. When you fail, don't be discouraged. Don't blame others and worry about others. When faced with the hurdles of "mountains and rivers", you can only move forward courageously, persevere, and use confidence to overcome all difficulties. If you want to achieve something in your career, you must be willing to do big things and take on difficult tasks, set an ambition, and set a goal, so that your life will have a direction. Where the heart is, there is the road. Only with ambition can you have the ability, courage and courage to be a human being. Therefore, as a person, you need to ask where your ambition is and whether you have confidence.
2. Be a kind person
“In the beginning, human beings are inherently good.” Kindness is the warmest, most beautiful, and most touching ray of humanity. Not everyone may be successful in life, and not everyone may be a hero, but they must be kind and kind. Kindness is the way to harmony and beauty. Only when your heart is filled with compassion and kindness can you move and warm the world. Without kindness, there is no inner peace, and there is no peace and beauty in the world. Love is a basic kind emotion. When we meet a beggar, we give him some money. When we meet the old, weak, sick, and pregnant women, we take the initiative to give up our seat. When we meet a lost child, we send him home and give him guidance. direction. A smile, a simple action, and a heartfelt greeting are not difficult for us to do, but they may help others get out of trouble. All people and all things are connected. When you give to others, you are actually benefiting yourself. When you hurt another life, you are actually hurting yourself. The so-called kindness is nothing more than having a great love and compassion, not harming others, not saying anything, and not lying to others. With a kind character, there is the basis and possibility to truly love your parents, others, and nature. A kind person is like a bright light, which not only illuminates the people around him, but also warms himself. Kindness does not need to be instilled or forced, it will only infect and spread to each other. Therefore, a person does not necessarily have to be upright and vigorous, but he must be kind and sincere. Therefore, as a person, you have to ask if you want to be kind.
3. Be an educated person
China is a nation that pays great attention to self-cultivation and advocates morality. Over the past five thousand years, no matter how things change, diligence, loyalty, humility, and filial piety are the eternal virtues, and many ancient sages regard them as family heirlooms. The success of a small business depends on opportunities, the success of a medium business depends on ability, and the success of a large business depends entirely on character and ethics. Generally successful people are often virtuous people. The so-called education means that one should know the depth and the shallow, the honor and the inferior, the high and the low, the important and the important. It should follow the rules and observe the moral principles. Educated people often use virtue instead of skills, often use Tao instead of strategy, and often use propriety instead of power. Educated people are detached from nature and take good care of their own hearts when they are alone. When they are with others, they consider others, be kind to others, be calm and calm, and take good care of their mouths. If you live your life in a round and round way, do things with tact, be tranquil and far-reaching, and reflect on yourself, then everything will go smoothly and with peace of mind. Therefore, as a person, you have to ask yourself whether you are educated.
4. Be an optimistic person
People are not here for suffering, so they cannot keep a straight face every day and be sad, sad, distressed, and frustrated all day long. There is no joy in life, there are no absolutely happy people in the world, only hearts that refuse to be happy. The world is like a mirror, if you smile at it, it will smile at you; if you cry to it, it will cry to you; if you are calm, it will It will give you a calm mind; if you are aggressive, it will give you a cold eyebrow. I like to hear praises but dislike criticism from others. I want fame and fortune but don't want to lose them. This mentality will only imprison myself like a chain. Only by transcending them can one experience freedom and happiness. With a happy heart, you will see a world worth rejoicing. If your heart is full of sorrow, you will see a world full of sorrow. Instead of worrying about what you cannot get, it is better to be satisfied with what you already have. grateful. Happiness is not sought outside the heart, it can only be found within the heart. If the heart is satisfied with happiness, you can still be at ease even if you are in a prison toilet. Have good intentions, be a good person, be filled with joy, be cheerful, be optimistic, and in this way you can stand as a monument and create a beautiful scenery. Life is short, instead of being nervous about everything, it is better to learn to "be silent". Therefore, as a person, you have to ask yourself whether you are optimistic.
5. Be a tolerant person
Being open to all rivers depends on a tolerant heart. When doing things, don't be too narrow-minded.
A ruler is short, an inch is long, gold is not pure, and no one is perfect. Appreciating others' strengths and tolerating others' shortcomings depends on having a loving heart and tolerance for others. Burning with anger for your enemies will only hurt you. If you can't bear to take a breath, you will speak evil words and attack others with swords and guns. If you can't bear the equinox of others, you will be jealous and frame them. Such a life can only be dim and dull, and the road will become narrower and narrower. The right and wrong in the world, good and evil, joy, good and bad, hot and cold, honor and favor, must be relaxed and accepted calmly, so that the road will become wider and wider. Tolerance is not the suppression of cowardice and retreat, but the wisdom and courage to endure humiliation and bear heavy burdens. It is the ability to recognize the truth, dare to take responsibility, and understand how to resolve and accommodate. To think about others is to pave the way for oneself. Tolerance is not connivance. It is reasonable to be sensible and emotional. What you consider is the self-esteem and tolerance of others. Being kind to others is equivalent to being kind to yourself. No matter how much you are hurt in life, you don’t have to be resentful, brooding, or holding a grudge. Learn to forget. Forgetting is the best protection for yourself. Learn to be grateful and thank life for giving you the opportunity to hone yourself. When the soul is full of sunshine, life is naturally full of brilliance. Therefore, as a human being, you should ask yourself whether you are tolerant and generous.
6. Be a down-to-earth person
Those who are down-to-earth, do things in a down-to-earth manner, and put their hands in their pockets will never be able to climb the ladder of success. The more you work hard, the more chances you have for success. God rewards those who work hard. Don’t just talk, don’t be indolent, work hard, and God will pay off. Only by doing your best and fulfilling your responsibilities can you achieve great things. Those who never win seldom fail, and those who never climb rarely fail. If you want to know the taste of success, you must dare to venture and dare to do, speak less and do more, be determined but persistent, and failure to act will inevitably delay the opportunity. If you don't want to do small things, you will definitely not be able to do big things. If you don't care about the easy tasks and are too ambitious, it will be difficult to achieve a career. You must first sweep a house before you can sweep the world. Start with yourself, start from now, start with small things, start with every detail. Being an honest person, telling the truth, and doing honest things is the long-lasting and fundamental thing. Therefore, as a human being, you must ask yourself whether you are honest.
7. Be a wise person
Having knowledge does not mean having wisdom. No matter how much knowledge is accumulated, if there is no wisdom to apply it, the knowledge will lose its value. Knowledge is static. Once people have knowledge, they should also understand how to correctly apply the knowledge they have mastered in practice. Without wisdom, it is nothing more than a book recording knowledge. Wisdom is the intelligence of the mind, a kind of insight and judgment. Having the courage to change the things that can be changed, having the mind to accept the things that cannot be changed, and having the wisdom to be able to tell when it can be changed and when it cannot be changed, and when to "do" and when to "not do". Knowing what you are doing, knowing what you love to do, and knowing what you can accomplish is wisdom. There is only direction without wisdom, and direction itself is meaningless. Wisdom is sometimes a kind of balance and compromise. Use moderation to reject extremes, use reason to analyze situations, use pragmatism to exert influence, use calmness to control decisions, use consciousness to correct your attitude, use learning to accumulate experience, and use courage to give up baggage. This is the manifestation of wisdom. For the weak, it is not enough to care, you must help; for your subordinates, it is not enough to be fair, you must be kind; for others' mistakes, it is not enough to forgive, you must forget; for your own future, it is not enough to dream, you must act. Emptiness can produce wisdom, learning can produce wisdom, peace of mind can produce wisdom, and wisdom can produce success. Everyone has something worthy of respect and learning. Compassionate people teach the way of compassion, and barbaric people teach the way of tolerance. If a person lacks wisdom and is unwilling to sweat, then there is no success. Therefore, it depends on whether you have wisdom or not.
8. Be an upright person
Being upright and doing things decently, upright and fair are the foundation of one's life and conduct in the world. A person who is upright is not afraid of a slanted shadow, a person who is upright is not afraid of a crooked shoe, and a person who is upright is not afraid of a crooked shoe. With good conduct, you have the confidence to be a person, and you are strong-willed in doing things. You have a selfless heart and a broad mind. Being open-minded and aboveboard will win the trust and respect of others. If you are not upright yourself, how can you upright others? An upright person does not seek selfish interests, is not greedy for profit, does not cover up his faults, does not cheat, do not flatter, do not flatter others, do not act shady, treat others equally, and deal with things fairly. Speak well-founded, say one thing and two things. Say what you need to say and do what you need to do. Everything you say is the truth and everything you do is right. He has evil intentions, is mysterious, duplicitous, scheming, and manipulative. He does one thing in person and another behind the scenes. He talks like a gentleman on stage but does petty things off stage. How can he uphold justice and uphold justice? Therefore, as a person, you must walk straight, behave righteously, and do things appropriately. You must ask yourself whether you are upright and fair.
9. Be a prudent person
Wisdom lies in managing the big, and caution lies in fearing the small. One careful consideration is better than a hundred hasty actions, and the embankment breaks from the ant nest. Even the smallest things can be careless. . Respect is the first virtue, prudence is the foundation of conduct. Prudence is the basis of "not being confused". A prudent person must be a clear-headed person and must not be confused in the face of big rights and wrongs. In life, there are words that bring disaster and actions that bring shame. Of course, if you want to make achievements, you must be extra cautious. Be a low-key person, do things with humility, think carefully and act diligently. If you think ahead, you will be safe in the near future. When things go well, you feel elated and elated, but when you encounter setbacks, you complain about everything but others and others, and you are full of complaints. "Always walk by the river, even if your shoes don't get wet." It depends on your skill and concentration. When you lower your head, you must also learn to look up at the sky.
If you observe quietly, your mind is like still water, and you are humble and prudent, then things will be easy to accomplish. To be cautious or to stay away from danger is the best way to ensure safety. It is better to rely on caution than to rely on recklessness. Only by being cautious can you be sure of victory. Therefore, as a person, you must ask whether you are cautious.
The above nine points are not perfect. No one is a sage or a perfect person, so how can he be flawless and have no regrets? If you want to be comprehensive and omnipotent, it has never been possible since ancient times. But there are only unimaginable things in the world, and nothing is impossible. who I am? How should I behave? What can I do? How am I doing? Where am I going? In the vast journey of life, we must always ask ourselves, remind ourselves, light up a heart light for ourselves, and sharpen ourselves, so that we can be good people and do things well. Do you think so?
Five sentences that will change your life
The first sentence is: Excellence is a habit.
This sentence was said by the ancient Greek philosopher Aristotle. If excellence is a habit, then laziness is also a habit. When a person is born, except for temperament, which is different due to nature, other things are basically acquired and are the result of family influence and education. Therefore, everything we say and do are habits developed over time. Some of us have formed good habits, and some of us have formed very bad habits. Therefore, from now on, we must turn excellence into a habit, make our excellent behavior habitual, and become our second nature. Let us habitually think creatively, habitually do things seriously, habitually be friendly to others, and habitually appreciate nature.
Note: You must be able to "pretend", and you must "pretend" continuously and uninterrupted. After a long time, it becomes true and becomes a habit. For example, arriving at the meeting on time, every time Arrive at the meeting on time, and you just pretend to look at it. You pretend to look at it for 30 years. After a long time of pretending, it becomes a habit. :)
The second sentence is: Life is a process.
Although the results of things are important, the process of doing things is more important, because we will be happier when the results are good, but the process makes our lives fulfilling.
The final result of human life must be death. We cannot say that our lives are meaningless. There is very little eternity in the world. When college students fall in love, they swear every day that I will love you forever. This is actually untrue. Statistics show that 90 out of 100 couples who fall in love among college students will eventually break up, and half of those who eventually get married will get divorced. Do you think love can last forever? So the most true way to say it is: "I am truly loving you today, at this moment." Tomorrow you may fall out of love, and after falling out of love we will experience the pain of falling out of love. This experience is also a process that enriches your life.
Note: Life itself actually has no meaning. It is just you who give your life a meaning that you hope to achieve. Therefore, the process of enjoying life is a kind of meaning.
The third sentence is: The shortest distance between two points is not necessarily a straight line.
In the relationship between people and the process of doing things, it is difficult for us to get things done straightforwardly. Sometimes we need to wait, sometimes we need cooperation, and sometimes we need skills. When we do things, we will encounter many difficulties and obstacles. Sometimes we don't have to stand up and rush forward. We can choose to go around difficulties and obstacles. Maybe things will go more smoothly this way. Think about it, everyone, when we talk to others, we have to think about which sentence sounds better. Especially in China, a relatively complex society, everyone must learn to find ways to forgive others and make people think that you are a very mature and good person, so that you can get things done.
Note: If you are taking a math test, you must answer the shortest straight line segment between two points. If you are walking, you can obviously go directly from A to B, but no one is walking. You It's best not to leave, because there are traps. When doing things in China, linear thinking will run into obstacles in many places. This is the wisdom of doing things with Chinese characteristics.
The fourth sentence is: Only those who know how to stop know how to speed up.
When I was skiing, my biggest experience was that I couldn’t stop. When I first started learning skiing, I didn’t hire a coach. I looked at other people skiing and thought it was easy. Isn’t it just sliding from the top of the mountain to the bottom? So I put on my skis and slid down. As a result, I slid from the top of the mountain to the bottom of the mountain. I actually rolled to the bottom of the mountain and fell many times. I found that I simply didn’t know how to stop or keep my balance. Finally, I repeatedly practiced how to stop on snow and slopes. After practicing for a week, I finally learned to stop, slide, and stop again on any slope. At this time, I discovered that I could ski, and I dared to rush down the hillside at high speed from the top of the mountain. Because I know that if I want to stop, I can stop by turning around. As long as you can stop, you won't hit a tree, hit a rock, hit someone, and you won't be killed. Therefore, only those who know how to stop know how to move forward at high speed.
Note: Using a car analogy, BMW can travel 200 kilometers, but Chery can only travel 120 kilometers. Why? The engines are probably about the same, but the difference lies in the braking system. I can't brake the car after driving for 200 kilometers. Haha, my God!
The fifth sentence is: Giving up is a kind of wisdom, and defects are a kind of grace.
When you have six apples, never eat them all, because if you eat all six apples, you will only eat six apples and only eat one flavor. , that’s what apples taste like. If you take out five of the six apples for others to eat, even though you lose five apples on the surface, you actually gain the friendship and favor of the other five people. You can get more in the future. When others have other fruits, they will definitely share them with you. You will get an orange from this person and a pear from that person. In the end, you may get six kinds. Different fruits, six different flavors, six different colors, six friendships. People must learn to use what you have in exchange for something more important and rich to you. Therefore, giving up is a kind of wisdom.
Note: Every time you give up must be a sublimation, otherwise don’t give up; every time you choose must be a sublimation, otherwise don’t choose.
The greatest joy of being a human being is to get what we want through struggle, so having shortcomings means that we can be further perfected, and having shortcomings means that we can work harder. There is a TV movie in the United States about a rich man who left an inexhaustible inheritance to his descendants. As a result, all his descendants became drug addicts, committed suicide, went to prison, or were mentally ill. Why is this happening? Because the rich man left so much money to his descendants that they could inherit a large amount of property without labor. Inheriting a large fortune can buy almost anything. Therefore, when a person lacks everything, his living space is deprived of him.
If we wake up every morning and feel that we have shortcomings today, feel that we still need to be more perfect, and feel that we still have pursuits, that is a very happy thing!