Since life requires constant thinking and labor, what is the meaning of life? Today, I will use the concept of Virgo to discuss the meaning of life with you.
Is it Virgo or obsessive-compulsive disorder to strive for perfection in everything?
Take stock of three psychological phenomena of Virgo. What do you think of them? A virgin? !
Virgo is the earth sign in 12 constellation. She is very good at analyzing problems, has strong logical thinking ability, is good at summarizing, screening and judging, and works methodically and strives for perfection. Virgos always want things to get better, constantly improve their abilities and make themselves better.
Therefore, many Virgos will improve themselves through textual research, like cleaning to make the room cleaner, like storing and sorting to make things cleaner, and like sports to make their bodies better. But behind these advantages are hidden unknown psychological kinetic energy and even serious obsessive-compulsive disorder.
Count the three major psychological phenomena of Virgo:
First, long-term rest or play will aggravate inner anxiety and self-blame.
Virgo's heart is hard to really relax. If you are in a state of rest or play for a long time, ta will feel a strong sense of self-blame, and feel that he is too slack and enterprising. They should do something to make themselves better and more enterprising, even if they practice writing, it won't take long. If you don't do anything for two weeks, the inner anxiety and remorse of virgins will make them insomnia.
I have a Virgo friend. He rests six times a week and gets off work late every day. One day, he rested and we went out to play all day. In the evening, he felt very uncomfortable. He felt that he had done nothing that day, so he was abandoned.
Second, a strong perfectionist tendency.
Not only that, Virgo also has a strong perfectionist tendency. As long as there is a little flaw in many things, my heart will itch, and I must strive for perfection. For ta, the perfection of many things is not for others to see. First of all, the hurdle that ta can't get through.
I know a Virgo who often practices meditation. Because of the flexibility of ligament, it is difficult for him to cross his legs. One day, he can finally double his legs, but his legs will hurt. He found that the height of his left and right legs was asymmetrical when his legs were together, so he gritted his teeth and moved his legs flat. I asked him why he didn't take it step by step. He said it was uncomfortable and imperfect to see his legs different in height.
Third, I feel inferior and always feel that I am not good enough.
Virgo also has the biggest psychological state, that is, inferiority, and always feels that she is not good enough. Therefore, Virgo people are often very modest, and they will be very careful and serious in doing anything, for fear that they have not finished well. Even if they are already excellent, they will think that they are just so and will not be complacent.
I met a Virgo friend at school and got a scholarship every year. One day he was walking on the road and suddenly told me that he felt that he was not good enough. I thought ta was faking it, so I made fun of it. People who get scholarships every year are not good. How can you let others live?
A few years later, I realized that he really didn't have confidence. He always feels that he hasn't worked hard. Others didn't get scholarships but didn't study hard. He just spends a little more time reading than others.