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If nine out of ten words in the original text hit the mark, it may not necessarily be a miracle; if one misses the mark, it will be embarras

Better silence than impatience, clumsiness than skill

If nine out of ten words in the original text hit the mark, it may not necessarily be a miracle; if one misses the mark, it will be embarras

Better silence than impatience, clumsiness than skill

If nine out of ten words in the original text hit the mark, it may not necessarily be a miracle; if one misses the mark, it will be embarrassing especially in Pianji; ninety percent of the plans may not be attributed to success. , if one plan fails, then there will be a lot of discussion. A gentleman would rather be silent than impetuous, clumsy than cunning.

The translation says that nine out of ten sentences are correct, but no one may praise it. If one sentence is not correct, there will be criticism. If you plan ten things and nine of them succeed, no one may necessarily give you the credit. If something is not planned successfully, others will criticize it. Therefore, a gentleman would rather be silent than impatient and talkative, and would rather appear clumsy than show tact.

Comments As the saying goes, "Good things don't go out, but bad things spread thousands of miles." The reason why good things can't go out is because people are jealous and don't mention your glorious things. As a result, these good things are covered in dust and frozen, so that they can never be known to the world. On the contrary, once something bad is done, driven by people's schadenfreude, they will immediately spread the word to ten or ten, and everyone will soon know about it. The more people do things, the more opportunities they have to make mistakes. Only those who do nothing may not make mistakes. For the sake of sanity and self-preservation, it is indeed a good idea to do less. But if no one steps forward to do something, nothing can be done. People have the instinct to preserve themselves, and they have the obligation to develop mankind. It is necessary to think twice before acting, but it must be done.

The road of heavenly principles is wide, but the road of human desire is narrow

Original text: The road of heavenly principles is very wide, and if you wander your mind for a while, you will feel the vastness and grandness in your chest; if the road of human desire is very narrow, then you will leave traces, and you will see everything before your eyes It's thorn mud.

Translation: The road of heavenly principles is very broad, and if you pay a little attention, you will feel open-minded; the road of human desire is very narrow, and as soon as you set foot, you will see thorns and mud in front of you.

Comments: There is a world of selflessness in your heart, but it is difficult to follow a path filled with greed. The hearts of people in the world are always full of desires, but the path of desire is very narrow. Although it can satisfy temporary vanity, if you go down this road, your reason will be deceived, so all your words and deeds are driven by material desires, and there is no need for much in your future career. Talk about it, even the surrounding environment is full of thorns, which will naturally make people fall into the abyss of pain over time. If a person aims at personal gain, even if he achieves success and fame, he will not feel happy in his heart. Instead, he will experience unbearable boredom and loneliness, and even doubt the meaning of life. If he failed, he would be even worse. He would be scolded by thousands of people and would be infamy for thousands of years. Only when human life is combined with truth and public interests can it gain eternal value. He will never fail, he will always have a strong backing and a chance to start over. Failure is just a stage, not the end.

The blessings of tempering will last forever, and the truth will be known through investigation

Original text: One has to endure hardship and one has pleasure to temper, and those who practice to the extreme and become blessed will have long-lasting blessings; one has doubts and one has faith. Those who know through surveying and surveying to the extreme will have their knowledge become true.

Translation: The happiness obtained by training each other to the extreme can be long-lasting; the knowledge finally gained by comparing doubt and belief is true wisdom.

Reviewers grow up through pain and suffering. Zhang Juzheng passed the imperial examination at a very young age. The examiner thought he was a talented person and was afraid that he would become arrogant if he succeeded as a young man, so he deliberately did not admit him. Zhang Juzheng was not discouraged after his reputation fell, and he won again a few years later. On the contrary, Zhongyong was also very smart when he was a child. But his parents were all about showing off. Neighbors also praised it. He followed this simple path, and when he became an adult, he was completely mediocre. What is easy to gain is easy to lose. Only by going through hardships can you get true happiness.

Recognize righteousness and principles with an open mind, reject material desires with a solid heart

Original text: The heart must not be empty, otherwise the righteousness and principles will come to stay; the heart must not be unreal, otherwise material desires will not enter.

The translator cannot but be humble, for only by being humble can one accept true knowledge; the human heart must be enriched, and only those with enriched hearts can withstand the invasion of material desires.

Comments Among the disciples of Confucius, Zilu was famous for his courage in criticism and self-criticism. He dared to question Confucius face to face, and when he was criticized by others, he would be very happy and even punish those who pointed out his mistakes. Bow down and salute. Confucius admired this disciple very much and once said: "If my way doesn't work, I will sit on a small raft and drift on the sea. At that time, I am afraid that the only one who will follow me is Zilu."

"If the bottle is empty, the air will come in; if the heart of fire is empty, the flames will beat. You must be humble in order to learn. Every time Churchill received foreign guests, he began to prepare materials several days in advance. In order to design every sentence, he even thought about it while sleeping. Because he admits his ignorance. A person who is omniscient and omnipotent does not need to learn.

You should be tolerant and do not want to be clean.

Original: There are many living things in the earth and water. There are always no fish in those who are pure; therefore, a gentleman should keep in mind the dirt and do not practice purity.

Translation: There are many creatures in dirty places, and there are often no fish in clear water. He has the capacity to accommodate the secular world and cannot be alone in admiration.

Comments: If a person requires that the people he interacts with be as pure as angels, he can only live with God. "If you observe, you will have no disciples." If you demand too much from others, you are isolating yourself. People who are self-admiring and self-righteous will lack friends. If they put themselves into a state of isolation and helplessness, they will not be able to achieve success in their careers. There is no absolute in the world. The truth is that good and evil are intertwined, and nothing is absolute or unrelated. Therefore, our basic attitude towards life must be both pure and tolerant. The key is how you treat them. If you go with him, you are a loser; if you influence him and lead him to the right path, you will succeed.

Not being greedy is a treasure.

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The original text: When people are greedy for selfishness, they turn hardness into softness, turn wisdom into stupidity, turn kindness into misery, and turn purity into filth, which ruins their character throughout their lives. Therefore, the ancients regarded non-greed as a treasure, so they lived a better life.

As soon as a person has the idea of ????self-interest, he will change from strong to weak, from smart to ignorant, from charitable to cruel, from pure to filthy, which will stain his life. Character. Therefore, the ancients did not regard greed as a good thing, so they can live a safe life.

The comment is that people must not be greedy. Once greed affects the conscience, it will naturally disappear. If the conscience disappears, the concept of good and evil will be lost. Once the righteousness is lost, other The fortitude suddenly disappears, the wisdom turns into confusion, the kindness turns into cruelty and meanness, and the noble character is stained by just one thought. It will ruin your personality throughout your life. So the ancients said: "Greed is the root of all evil. "A greedy person is the most cowardly. He is always afraid of losing his own interests. A greedy person is also the most stupid. There is only one person's self-interest in front of him, making him extremely short-sighted and simple. Greedy people will become cruel, even if they are father and brother. His position must be usurped, and his nephew's wife must also be usurped. There is no friendship, no family affection, and no humanity. A greedy person is like a car with its brakes removed. What awaits him cannot be peace and happiness.

The master is sitting in the hall, and the six thieves are gone

Original text: The ears, eyes, and ears are the outside thieves, and the lust and consciousness are the inner thieves. It’s just that the owner is ignorant and sits alone in the middle hall, and the thieves become family members!

Translation: The lustful sounds and beauties heard and witnessed are the thieves from outside, and the lust and prejudice are the thieves hidden in the heart. As long as the master can think clearly and sit still in the middle of the hall, these thieves will become the thieves of the family. Servant.

Comments: If a person cannot be his own master, he will become a slave to material desires. It seems not humane to keep human desires and drive them out of the door. But it can only be one. The status of a servant cannot be improved. When you control material desires, it is a good servant; when it controls you, it is a bad master. Therefore, in daily life, we must abide by certain principles and be in love. , stop at etiquette, pay attention to self-cultivation, eliminate selfish desires, and always maintain a noble moral sentiment. This is the reliable foundation for a gentleman's career. Poverty is a good way to work without losing elegance.

Original article A poor family sweeps the floor and a poor girl combs her hair. Although the scenery is not beautiful, the demeanor is naturally elegant.

Translation: Poor people keep their floors clean, and poor girls have their hair neatly combed. Although they are not gorgeous in appearance, they naturally have an elegant temperament. How can a gentleman live in poverty? Just give up on yourself? One of the "Seven Sages of the Bamboo Grove" who commented on the Wei and Jin Dynasties was named Ruan Xian. He lived in the south of a street.

The family was very poor, but the family on the north side of the street was very wealthy. Every July, when the weather is nice, every household will go through the boxes and take out all the clothes to dry. Those people in the north of the street wore silk and satin, so the clothes that were displayed were dazzling and dazzling. Ruan Cheng couldn't find any clothes to dry, so he picked up a pair of coarse trousers on a bamboo pole and hung them in the courtyard. When the neighbor saw it, he said to Ruan Xian: "You'd better not dry your clothes. It's too shabby to dry clothes like this!" Ruan Xian replied: "Everyone is drying their clothes. Although I am poor, why can't I dry my clothes!" Ah, beauties are more beautiful because they don’t wear jewelry or makeup, and gentlemen are more moral because they live in poverty and have a bumpy career. At this time, all the false praise and flattery disappeared, leaving only innocence. "It's good times and bad times", being proud when you are prosperous and wealthy is something that even a villain can do, but only a true gentleman can still be heroic when times are unfavorable. Confucius's student Yan Yuan lived in embarrassment but was not embarrassed. Even Confucius admired him very much and thought he was a wise man. The external environment will change due to the tricks of fate, but what remains unchanged is the human spiritual state.

Be prepared for a rainy day and be prepared for any disaster

Original text: Don’t let go when you are idle, and you will benefit when you are busy; don’t let go when you are still, and you will benefit when you are moving; don’t deceive in secret, and you will benefit when you are in the light.

Translation: Seize the time when you are free, it will be beneficial when you are busy; don’t let your mind go blank when you are quiet, it will be beneficial when there are activities and things; don’t hide your mistakes and deceive others when there is no one, it will be a big deal There are benefits when you see the light.

Comments: "Open water channels on sunny days, but beware of heavy rains." People should have foresight while living, and usually make more accumulations to prepare for unexpected events. Life is like a journey with a far-distant destination. When you arrive at every rest stop, you cannot just take it easy. Instead, you must take advantage of this opportunity to find something you may use in the future. Because when you find something you really need on the road in the future, you may not be able to find it around you. And it may not be too late. Don’t waste all your time, life is too complicated and you may encounter any situation. You may need anything. The more effort you have when you are free, the less embarrassment you will have when you are busy. Lu Meng, the general of Soochow during the Three Kingdoms period, had never read any books since he was a child. Sun Quan, Lord of Wu, said to him: "You are in charge of national affairs now, so you should read more books." Lu Meng said that he had too many things to do and had no time to study. Sun Quan said, "I still study a lot. Are you busier than me?" From then on, under Sun Quan's supervision, Lu Meng made rapid progress in his studies. One day, Lu Su and Lu Meng accidentally drank together. Lu Meng's extraordinary conversation made Lu Su surprised and happy. He patted Lu Meng on the back and said, "I can't believe that you are very knowledgeable. You are no longer a young man from Wu." I'm confused!" Lu Meng said with a smile: "I've been separated for three days and I'm looking at each other with new eyes. Why do you still look at me with the same old eyes?" The main reason why accomplished people are better than us is not that they are geniuses, but that they are better than us. Will use idle time.

Desires come and go, don’t let them go easily

Original text Where thoughts arise. Only then did I realize that I was on the road to desire. Then he came up from the road of reason. You will fall asleep as soon as you wake up, and you will change as soon as you wake up. This is the moment when misfortune is turned into blessing, and death is brought back to life. Don't let it go easily.

As soon as you realize that the thoughts that arise are in the direction of desire, you should quickly pull them onto the right path of reason. Discover when ideas arise and reverse them as soon as they are discovered. This is the key to turning disaster into happiness and restoring life to death. Don't let it go easily.

Comments: When a person is particularly excited, he will often do reckless things. The fact that such emotions appear indicates that the person may not realize that this is a good thing at ordinary times. is bad. Good and evil are all in one thought, and this thought is not formed in the moment but in daily practice. It can be seen that if a person cannot guard against evil thoughts in the bud, he may suffer from the miserable situation of "one misstep leads to eternal hatred, and the next time he looks back, he will be a hundred years old." as a result of. The biggest difference between a gentleman and a villain is whether he is good at controlling his emotions and whether he can reverse his feelings when he is excited. People should reflect on themselves more, especially when they are excited. Doing so can save you from disaster.

To obtain tranquility in the place of movement, to obtain happiness in the midst of suffering

Original text: Stillness within tranquility is not true tranquility. To obtain stillness in the place of movement is the true state of nature; happiness is not true in the place of happiness. Happiness, getting joy out of suffering is the real secret of the mind and body.

Translation: The tranquility obtained in a silent environment is not true tranquility. Only the calm mood obtained in the noisy and commotion can be regarded as reaching the original true state of nature; the joy obtained in a happy environment is not true tranquility. True joy, only when you can still maintain a happy mood in a difficult environment, can you achieve the true joy of your mind.

The comment state can be divided into the state of the body and the state of the mind. Ji Kang, one of the "Seven Sages of the Bamboo Grove" in the Jin Dynasty, was arrested and imprisoned for offending a powerful man. When he was about to be executed, he was still able to keep his composure. He sang a song while playing the piano and said goodbye to the world, appearing calm and calm as still water. Living in the wilderness or drifting on an island, it is impossible not to be quiet. Being demoted to home, trying to deal with national affairs but unable to do so, what can you do if you don't stay quiet? This is the quiet of being in a quiet place, helpless. If given a chance, nine times out of ten they will break the silence and enter the world of flowers. Some people are not like that. They are indifferent by nature, and they are in officialdom and not bothered by worldly affairs, such as Tao Yuanming. They have experienced liveliness, and they know the helplessness of liveliness best. Silence has become a spiritual longing, and this is true tranquility. The same is true for happiness. A person will naturally be very happy in a life of ample food, clothing and contentment, but it is difficult for a person to enjoy himself in a harsh environment of hunger and cold. This can be regarded as a deeper happiness that makes "mind and body come true". Only after experiencing pain can you understand joy. Happiness that comes easily is short-lived.

The power of heaven is the most powerful, what is the use of human wisdom

Original text: A chaste man has no intention of seeking happiness, and heaven will take advantage of him without intention; if a man is dangerous and wants to avoid disaster, heaven will That is to say, he just wants to seize his soul. It can be seen that heaven’s power is the most powerful, but human wisdom and ingenuity are of no use.

Translation: A loyal person does not bother to seek blessings for himself, but God guides him to obtain blessings because of his inadvertence; an insidious and evil person tries his best to avoid disaster, but God guides him because of his inadvertence. Deliberately depriving him of his spiritual strength brought disaster to him. It can be seen from this that the mysteries of God are extremely mysterious and miraculous, and human ingenuity is really helpless in front of God.

Comments Once upon a time, there was a farmer who found a money bag on the street and found that there were fifteen taels of silver in it, so he went home and gave the money to his mother. The mother said: "Son, if someone has lost his money, he must be very anxious. Please return the money to the owner as soon as possible!" The farmer then hurried back to the place where he picked up the money, and happened to see a man looking for the money bag, so the farmer returned the money bag. That person. After the man received the money bag, he was afraid that the farmer would ask him for a reward, so he deliberately said: "I have thirty taels of silver in my purse, why are there only fifteen taels left?" The farmer was very angry when he heard that, and followed the man. An argument broke out and the two came to the county government office twisting each other. After listening to their statement, the county magistrate said to the owner: "You lost thirty taels of silver, but what he found was fifteen taels. It can be seen that this money is not yours, but the pension money given to his mother by God." , go look for your money elsewhere!" The man felt that he was in the wrong and had to leave the county government office in despair. The onlookers all clapped their hands and applauded. If a person treats others with sincerity, God will reward him with luck. Dong Yong was favored by the seven fairies, and the hard-working young man got the beautiful snail girl. These are myths. But in reality, we can often see that honest and kind people, although they are not rich and powerful, are often free from illness and disaster and have a good death. "The agencies were too clever in their calculations, and they lost their lives." Although some people are extremely cunning, they have no choice but to "man's calculations are not as good as God's calculations." Everything pays off, as long as you have the patience to wait.

Hidden ridicule of family members' faults should be treated as if they were calm and calm

Original text If family members have had faults, they should not be angry or abandon them lightly. This matter is difficult to explain, so I will use other things to hide it and ridicule it. If I don’t realize it today, I will warn you again in the future. Like the spring breeze thawing the ice, like the harmonious atmosphere melting away the ice, this is the model of a family.

Translation: When someone in your family makes a mistake, you should not lose your temper casually, nor should you let it go easily and ignore it. For mistakes that are difficult to explain directly, use metaphors from other things to persuade and hint; if he If you cannot repent now, you have to wait patiently until later to give advice. Just like the warm spring breeze can dissolve the coldness of winter, just like the warm air current can melt the condensed ice. Such a family is a model of happiness and joy.

Comments: Stormy attack, not suitable for families. You don't want to eliminate him, but you want to make him correct his shortcomings and make him perfect, so you should pay more attention to methods and try not to hurt the other party.

In addition, if there is no big deal at home, the mistake is often not a matter of principle, but just a habit. Therefore, it is impossible to expect to eradicate it all at once. We can only conduct repeated education and never let it go every time it appears. In family affairs, "harmony" is the highest principle. If the critic is furious and hurts the other person's self-esteem, then he has made a bigger mistake than the other person. This is the rule of thumb in families.

If this heart is always perfect, the world will be at peace.

Original text: If this heart is always perfect, the world will be flawless; if this mind is always relaxed and peaceful, the world will be free of danger. of favor.

Translation If a person can have a perfect and kind heart, then the world will become beautiful and flawless in his eyes; if a person can have a generous and kind heart, then he will not I feel the danger and discord of humanity.

Comments Once upon a time, there were two neighboring villages. Villagers in both villages make a living by growing watermelons. The villagers in Village A are very hard-working. They often carry water to water the melons, so the watermelons grow quickly and well. The villagers in Village B are lazy and rarely water the watermelons, so their melons do not grow well. The melons in Village A grow well, which makes the villagers in Village B very jealous. So, every night, they took turns going to the melon field in Village A and tearing off some watermelon vines. The villagers of Village A were very angry when they found out. They also planned to destroy the melon fields of Village B at night. An old melon farmer dissuaded and said: "If you do this, it will only deepen the resentment between the two villages. I think it is better to help them. Every night, we will help them water the water." The villagers of Village A followed his words. After doing it, the melons in Village B got better day by day. After the villagers of Village B discovered the truth, they couldn't help but be deeply moved. They hurried to Village A to apologize. From then on, the villagers of the two villages became as close as one family. This little story illustrates the perfection and kindness of people. The ocean is wider than the earth, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human soul is wider than the sky. If a person is open-minded, the road to life in front of him will naturally appear magnanimous; and tolerating others with a generous heart will call back the kindness of angels into the hearts of devils. There is a road in front of you, and different people will have different endings if they take it. The same person will have different attitudes when different people interact with him. Don't complain about the world, but reflect on yourself. When the world embarrasses you, it is often because you embarrass the world.

You must change your behavior and your sharpness must not be too exposed

Original text: An indifferent person will be suspected by the showy person; a person who is disciplined will be tabooed by the unbridled person. When a gentleman is here, he must change his behavior a little, and he must not show his sharp edge too much.

Translation: A talented person who is indifferent to fame and wealth will definitely be suspected by those who are passionate about fame and fortune; a true gentleman who is upright and upright will often be jealous of those who are unscrupulous, evil and indulgent. When a gentleman is in such an environment of being suspected and envied, he must not change his ethics even slightly, and he must not overly reveal his talents and integrity.

Comment Everyone measures the world by themselves. The thief's famous saying is: "I don't believe you have never stolen anything." So in the villain's opinion, people are as selfish as themselves in their hearts. If someone is not like this, then they think it is hypocritical. A well-educated person tends to treat life well and pays attention to self-reflection. He thinks that he does not do other people's business because of his self-reflection. However, he does not expect that just because of his noble moral character, he reveals his villain's character and will inevitably encounter jealousy and jealousy. attack. Therefore, the smartest way for a person with both political integrity and talent in such a hostile and hostile environment is not to show too much edge. Because you can't make the world fully understand you unless he is the same type of person as you. You can't stop what others say about you, even if you are a king. "Go your own way. Let others tell you."

In adversity, there are many medicinal stones, and in the midst of prosperity, we are all equipped with weapons and spears

Original text: Living in adversity, there are needles and medicinal stones all over the body, which sharpen our integrity. Walking without realizing it; in the territory of Shun, there are weapons and spears in front of you, and the bones are sold without knowing it.

When translators are in an unfavorable environment, they are surrounded by acupuncture and medicine, which unknowingly tempers our will and character; when people are in a smooth environment, It's like there are swords and spears in front of us, hurting our sternum and heart unknowingly, leading us to fall.

Comments: The bird in the forest avoids the sharp claws of eagles and the poisonous tongues of snakes every day, so it is alert and good at flying; the bird in the cage is fed, so there is no need to worry about food, drink and safety, its wings have been Degenerated, no longer powerful. Human abilities also degrade as the environment improves. Apes were better at running than modern humans and had infinite strength. It is conceivable that if cars are popularized in families, one day people may not be able to walk, and only the human mind will become more and more developed. In terms of enjoyment, people always find it difficult to live in high places. Poor people live the lives of rich people, but rich people find poverty unbearable. In addition, when people are well fed and busy, their lives are superior, and people's morals are prone to decline. Shu Guang, a native of the Western Han Dynasty, once served as the teacher of the crown prince and had a very prominent position. When he retired from old age and returned to his hometown, the emperor and the prince gave him a lot of gold. After Shuguang returned to his hometown, he distributed part of the rewards to relatives and friends, and used the other part to entertain guests, preparing to spend all the money. Shuguang's descendants were very unhappy, so they persuaded Shuguang through the elders of the clan and asked him to buy more land and real estate for his descendants.

Shu Guang said: "My family originally had some land. As long as my children and grandchildren work hard, they can have no worries about food and clothing. I do this to let them support themselves! If I buy real estate, Or leave them a lot of money. When they have support, they will become lazy and refuse to study hard, thus becoming useless people who just sit back and enjoy the success. Isn’t this harming them?” This story of “Shu Guang teaches his children” tells us. : People who experience adversity have a smooth future; those who are accustomed to good times have an unpredictable future.

Desire is like fire, and it will surely shine

Original text: Those who grow in wealth and wealth, desire is like fierce fire, and power is like blazing flames. If it doesn't bring some cool smell, its flames will flicker by themselves if they don't burn people.

Translation: For people who grow up in wealthy families, the satisfaction of desires and the pursuit of power are like a blazing flame. If you don’t add some cool breath, then even if the flames don’t burn others, they will surely Will burn yourself.

Comment on King Zhou of Shang Dynasty is a famous tyrant in history. He doted on Daji, lived a life of debauchery, and brutally oppressed his subjects. At this time, the Zhou tribe in the west became prosperous day by day. King Wen of Zhou saw that King Zhou was fatuous and cruel, so he decided to attack the Shang Dynasty. He reused Jiang Taigong and continuously strengthened the national power. After the death of King Wen of Zhou, King Wu of Zhou came to the throne. Soon, he sent 50,000 troops and appointed Jiang Taigong as marshal. He crossed the Yellow River and marched eastward to attack King Zhou of Shang. The Zhou army was unstoppable along the way and soon reached Muye near Chaoge, the capital of Shang. King Zhou led 700,000 horses to Muye to fight. The soldiers of the Shang Dynasty usually hated King Zhou, but now they turned their spears and cooperated with the Zhou army to attack the Shang army. The Zhou army took advantage of the victory and pursued it all the way to Chaoge.

Seeing that the situation was over, King Zhou burned himself in Lutai that night. Many of the emperor's descendants had unfortunate lives, and some even did not die well. This phenomenon is no accident. They live in a circle of influence, witness with their own eyes everything that power and wealth bring, and see the tragic end of losers. Their desire for power is also stronger than others. It is common for brothers to fight and fathers to kill each other. Only the water of reason can extinguish the fire of desire. And this kind of reason is difficult to maintain without the support of noble morality.

Don’t take your body lightly, and don’t take your intentions seriously.

The original scholar and gentleman should not take your body lightly. If you take it lightly, things will scratch you, but there is no leisure and calmness; Things are muddy, but there is no opportunity to be lively and lively.

Translation: A gentleman should not be rash in life. Being rash will be hindered by external objects and lose the joy of leisure and calmness. Don't be too persistent in doing things. If you are too persistent, you will be influenced by external things and lose the fun of being free and lively.

Comments In ancient times, there were two people who were good at driving, one was named Zaofu and the other was Wang Liang. Each of them had some disciples. One of Wang Liang's disciples was very smart and quickly learned all the teacher's techniques. So he prepared the carriage and prepared to drive to a distant place, and said that he would travel thousands of miles a day. Not long after he set out on the road, he met a disciple of Zaofu. When Cepheus' disciples heard that he was going to travel a thousand miles a day, they said to him: "Your horse cannot run that far.

"Wang Liang's disciple said: "My horses are all carefully selected thousand-mile horses, and my carriage is also the best, and I am also proficient in driving skills. But you say that I cannot travel a thousand miles in a day. What is the basis for this?" Cepheus The disciple smiled slightly and said: "It's simple, your reins are pulled too long. "This story tells us that rashness is a taboo in business. Taking three steps in one step will not speed up your progress, but will only make you fall. Proposing a plan when the time is not ripe will ruin your career." The secret of the plan is "Zhuge is only cautious in his life", so he is not wrong. The wisdom of his life is all in this word, because he should not be too persistent.