First, individuals can't live without society, and their sense of value can't live without society. Everyone is pursuing his own sense of superiority and value, and this sense of value depends on the meaning people give to life.

Second, all losers fail because they lack sense of subordination and social interest. The meaning they give to life is personal, the goal of their efforts is a false sense of personal superiority, and their success is only meaningful to themselves.

Adler pointed out: "If a person wants to be a normal and healthy person, he must integrate himself into society through cooperation and constructive attitude, so as to gain a social consciousness, that is, to have social interest in others."

Ps: Why unhappy? A happy psychology of young people? Take three sentences to express mutual encouragement.