It is a person's highest accomplishment to look for reasons from ourselves first, because all the problems we face may be caused by ourselves, and all our current situations must be caused by what we did or didn't do. Everyone's environment is of their own making. Whether what happened is good or bad is related to his usual accumulation. Why else didn't it happen to someone else?
Therefore, if you encounter any problems, you should start from yourself and find the reasons from yourself. The answers to all the questions are in ourselves. In life, there are inevitably many unsatisfactory things, and there are always many regrets and regrets. When we are very depressed and have nowhere to vent, many people begin to "complain about others." It is not only a kind of sadness but also a kind of stupidity to blame God for keeping his eyes open and others for not doing something for himself, but for not being able to calm down and reflect on himself.
It is a valuable accomplishment for a person to find out the reasons, find problems and solve problems first. However, finding problems from yourself does not mean that you have to make everything difficult for yourself. People can't do everything perfectly in this life. If it is your own fault, you must try to correct it. If it's not your own fault, you must learn to let go. People who don't have height will look at problems. If people have no pattern, their hearts are trivial.
As the saying goes: the villain is not wrong, but the gentleman often makes mistakes! A truly excellent person knows how to find reasons from himself, and often reflects on his mistakes and does something wrong, instead of asking for trouble, complaining less and reflecting more on himself. Only in this way can they keep moving towards goodness and progress.
"A person needs a window to see the outside world and a mirror to see his heart. The window sees the light outside, and the mirror sees its own shortcomings. " With the mirror of "introspection", one can improve one's own realm, be observant and constantly achieve a better self. Learn to be modest and understand how to analyze problems from different angles; If something goes wrong, find the reason from yourself. If the shoe fits, wear it. Dealing with people with this mentality can not only make our lives smoother, but also calm a lot of restless emotions.
I hope we can turn every ups and downs into opportunities for growth. In the improvement again and again, all the shortcomings have become their own advantages. May we sit still, always thinking about ourselves, gossiping about others, blaming ourselves with the heart of blaming others, and forgiving others with the heart of forgiving ourselves. Only by looking back at your heart from time to time can you constantly surpass yourself!