After lockdown, move forward bravely

2009-09-16 22:14:48 Author: ? Source: Number of views: 905 User comments: 0

Still Confucius said, "You stand tall at thirty, and you have no doubts at forty." It's a real question, but I think the plan for life is too theoretical and too pessimistic. Throughout the ages, there have been countless heroes and figures, and we have learned from them. Learn their thoughts, habits, and life plans. When I was a child, I regarded Sun Wukong as my idol. When I got older, Lei Feng was my idol. How could I become "Brother Haonan" when I was older? When I was in technical secondary school, it was even weirder and I became bin Laden, Nei, and Judd. , and what’s the name of the one who has been hanged? Oh, by the way, it’s called Silly Mother! Now my career idol is myself, can’t you see? You can't find any pattern in your life from anyone, so you can only take one step at a time and think about it day by day.

People, especially men, must have their own goals and a future they expect. Most people understand this, so they have so-and-so, so-and-so, and so-and-so, and even make a list, marking their next five to five years, or ten to ten years. Then let’s clarify what I should do at what time, and what I must have at what time. It's as if his life is a chain reaction designed by him, and the end is just a matter of time. Everyone imagines what the future will have, but few imagine what the future will lack. Many people place their hope on the future, but few people have thought about whether they will have a future.

I believe that goals must be there, but what is more needed is a correct and positive attitude. Because materials will change, society will change, and even people will change, these are undisputed. Don't just focus on your own goals and ignore the scenery on the roadside, and don't just fight for your "own" goals. The more important thing is to think seriously, what is my goal, myself, my family, or society? What should I do if I encounter difficulties on the road? Even if no one supports me, am I capable of adjusting my mentality and moving forward? This will be your inexhaustible motivation. If you can't answer these two questions, it proves that you are immature, and your future will be just talk on paper. Therefore, after determining your goal, you must meet several conditions: 1. What is the ultimate goal? What to do if you have setbacks? What if you can't reach it?

I want my friends not to use social standards to measure their happiness index, and not to judge their own goals based on the goals of most people. I think the most important condition for achieving your goals and not getting back up no matter what the results are is: don't be happy with things, and don't be sad with yourself. After locking down, move forward bravely.