What should you do if you encounter difficult things?

Hundreds of years ago, Cao Xueqin already had an answer in "A Dream of Red Mansions": Don't open your mouth when it's none of your own business, shake your head when asked, and don't know. In "In the Name of the People", the old solitary fox Gao Yuliang even has a famous saying: enthusiasm, politeness, and knowing nothing about anything.

1. The more ruthless, cunning, cold-blooded and ruthless you are, going your own way and doing whatever you don’t accept, the more people will appreciate you and obey you. The more honest, kind, soft-hearted and kind you are, the more people will appreciate you and obey you. The more people bully you and take advantage of you.

2. Smiling less to please and keeping a serious face will help you reduce 80% of social bullying in the nature of bullying. People who are confident enough and tough enough can get more than what they deserve and even more than they deserve; people who are weak and try to please others will not even get what they deserve.

3. Don’t share your success with anyone, because no one really wants you to live well, especially those who are in the same circle as you.

4. Don’t get angry casually. The easier it is to get angry, others will know that you have no real ability.

5. Excessive compromise and letting others cross your bottom line at will is the reason for others to act recklessly.

6. Every ounce of your understanding of the ways of the world and the city are gained in exchange for disappointment. Wisdom can only grow after suffering a loss. Smart people grow up after suffering a loss.

7. Don’t always tell your good news in front of others. It makes sense to make a fortune in silence. No one can bless another person unselfishly, especially when their own life is not going well.