My daughter is a little cotton-padded jacket. Parents, would you like to write a letter to your daughter? Next is a sample letter I compiled from a father to his daughter. Welcome to read.
Sample letter 1 from father to daughter:
Daughter:
You fell asleep, and a full and busy day of study life made you fall into deep sleep. Dreamland. Dad is usually a very expressive person, but at this moment it was difficult for me to fully express my love and expectations, so I chose letters. The reason why I choose this method is also a kind of commemoration. The letter can be read over and over again, and it can be read at different time periods. One day in the future, you may understand what I say better!
Life is impermanent. , some things are better said early, and I am your father, if I don’t tell you, no one will tell you.
When you were a toddler, you were treated differently than most kids your age. At that time, your character was very reckless. You wanted to run before you learned to walk, and you wanted to jump before you learned to run. Even when you were in kindergarten, you still fell all the time. Haha, touch the scar on your forehead. Remember? It was left on the flower bed after a fall. In the beginning, every time you fell, your father would always pick you up immediately and try every possible means to comfort you, until you broke down in tears and laughed. But I found that every time you fell, it became more and more difficult to comfort you, and the time from crying to laughing became longer and longer. Suddenly I realized something was wrong, so your treatment plummeted. Once I fell down, I just said: Get up by yourself! You lay on the ground, crying into a big face. When you saw that I not only ignored you, but also firmly stopped others from coming. I helped you, and after a long time, you looked at me secretly through your tearful eyes, your little face flushed red, full of grievances. I was afraid that I couldn't help it, so I turned away with a hard heart, listening to you sobbing, It took a long time before you got up and grabbed the corner of my clothes, "If the baby doesn't cry, daddy is in pain!" Haha, you always call yourself a baby. I squatted down and gently dusted off the dust, "Baby, your dad won't pick you up after you fall. You have to learn to be independent and get up by yourself." ?I know you must not understand what independence means, but you still tilt your head and agree with your milky voice, ?The baby should not cry, but be independent. ?Later, you fell faster and climbed up faster. Every time you got up, you clenched your little fists and shouted: "Baby needs to be independent." ?Haha, I often make the people next to me jump. At that time, your parents were both working, and your grandparents were out of town. No one had enough time to take care of you. In the winter, your diapers would freeze into ice, leaving blood stains on your thighs. After get off work, your mother would hug you and cry until you almost gasped. Don't get angry. As you grow older, you learn to dress yourself, wash your face, brush your teeth, and eat by yourself. If you had memories at that time, I think the blood marks on your thighs might be more profound than a thousand sermons!
You went to school one year earlier than other children, so your intellectual development is relatively slow. It was much later. At first, even the kindergarten teacher complained that you could not learn to fold paper, draw, or sing. Until you entered the lower grades of elementary school, your grades were hovering in the middle and lower reaches of the class. But in With the encouragement of your parents, you watched you get better and better every year, until your grades were outstanding in your senior year. I recall when you were a child, you clenched your little fists and shouted: "Baby, don't cry, be independent." ?Yes, live and study independently as much as possible. You must understand the meaning of independence better than most children.
In your senior year, you have come into contact with computers, the Internet, learned QQ, learned games, and written tens of thousands of words of novels on the Internet. It is said that you also cultivated a group of fans of your own. Yeah, hehe. But you know, dad's worries are increasing day by day, because the unregulated Internet contains too much violence, pornography, and countless vulgar tastes. In this world, even if the sun shines, there are still dark corners. You have read so many books and accepted the teachings of so many teachers. Can you distinguish between black and white, right and wrong? But you are in a more rebellious period. Age, simple preaching, and rough interference may lead to bad results. So I recommend you to find some books on the Internet that I think are very meaningful to read, and then share your reading experiences.
Watch a movie with you. Watch "Forrest Gump" to explore the meaning of life, watch "The Brave Man" to understand the meaning of being brave, watch "The Story of Hachiko" to know what loyalty is, and so on. Do you know why dad did this? Because when you grow up, you must not only learn to live and study independently, but more importantly, learn to think independently! Forgive dad for prying into your privacy. Many times, I will secretly Check your chat history, web browsing history, and check results? Haha, you don’t know how happy I am.
By the way, you must still remember the car accident when you were seven years old. When your teacher burst into tears on the phone, I only knew that you and your mother were hit by a car, but I had no way of knowing how injured you were. I rushed to the hospital as fast as I could in my life. Along the way, I almost worshiped the gods and Buddhas in the sky. I pray that you are safe! I pray that you are still alive and well! When I rushed into the hospital and saw you and your mother alive, yes, still alive, for me, in an instant, I went from hell to heaven. The X-ray taken in the hospital showed that your thigh bone was brutally broken like a matchstick, and the wounds were bloody and bloody. I shed tears for the first time in front of you. I couldn’t hold it back no matter how hard I tried. I barely remember what I said to the driver who caused the accident. You are angry, and your heart is full of sadness. Why can't you let me replace your pain? I held your little hand, and I told you to be strong! The night after the operation, the anesthetic wore off, and you woke up in pain after a few minutes of sleep. Your whole body was in convulsions, and you were sweating profusely. You held my hand and shouted over and over again. :?Dad, what should I do? It hurts so much!? While I wiped your sweat with a towel, I told you heroic stories and fairy tales, and repeatedly advised you to be strong. All pain is temporary and will pass. You kept tossing until dawn and then fell asleep.
During the days when you were gradually recovering, your father would say it several times almost every day: Pain and setbacks are temporary and will eventually pass. ?So much so that when I opened my mouth to say: ?You will always make a weird sound in the second half of the sentence because of the pain. When you were able to sit in a wheelchair, I took you to play in the small garden. I pointed to the grass on the roadside and tried my best to explain what it means to be strong. I also bypassed the doorman and pushed the wheelchair into the shopping mall, where the crowd was bustling. It is full of all kinds of flavors and displays all kinds of products, all of which are so real and bright! You are confused, but Dad wants you to understand: be strong to overcome pain, overcome setbacks, live, and be with your loved ones. What a wonderful thing it is to live together! I know you must not have known your father's good intentions at that time. You just left the white ward and looked at this long-lost troubled world with your eyes open! As long as you are here In your innocent eyes, there are far more colors than gray, and I am satisfied.
The patients around us are surprised that our ward is full of happiness, because they have always heard your childish, crystal-clear laughter, for a joke told by dad, for dad’s beard Scum, for a sparrow that flew into the ward, for being able to go out and play again in the afternoon, there are thousands of reasons to make you laugh.
The forty days of hospital life passed quickly. In order to make up for the missed homework, I watched you make up a plan to make up for the missed lessons. There was almost no supervision, and you studied consciously. The final exam, Chinese: 95, Mathematics 98. Dad is proud of you!
When I told you a few days ago, a senior high school student committed suicide by jumping off a building angrily because he was late for the college entrance examination. I saw you curling your lips with disdain after hearing the news. I know that the word "strong" is no longer just a word in your heart, but a real experience and a vow carved in the soul.
Watching you grow up healthily and happily, watching you gradually grow into an adult, is the greatest happiness for me as a father. When I told you heroic stories as a child, I didn’t hope that you would become a hero, but that you would learn noble qualities, such as independence and strength. When you were in elementary school, you came into contact with literature, painting, and music in order to fill your mind with interest, which will sustain you throughout your life.
In this way, even in the harsh winter, you will never forget the fragrance of roses! There are some things that you may not be able to understand now, but when you grow up, you will understand: there are many things that are dazzling and worthless, as long as you To be able to grow up healthily, truly understand independence and be strong, this is your father's greatest expectation for you.
As I write this, I can’t help but go into the room to see you. You are thirteen years old. Looking at your face that is still a little childish and innocent, I can’t help but kiss you on the forehead, silently in my heart. Said: ?Bless you, Zhengzheng, one day, you will definitely understand the meaning of your name!?
Good dreams!
Love you dad
Sample letter 2 from father to daughter:
WY’s beloved daughter:
Hello! Now, you have just turned 9 months old. Before, Dad always wanted to write to you, but he always hesitated. I firmly believe that words are more stable and powerful than sounds, so I decided to write you this first letter. Now, I have sorted out my thoughts and typed the following text for you. The content is as follows:
I have too much to say about your growth. From big principles to small details, I can talk a lot. I will communicate with you more in the future, starting from the time when you can understand and speak. I have imagined what you will look like in the future and the life path you will take. The most important thing is that you will lead a more decent and leisurely life than your mother and I, at least not worse than us. Of course, this does not mean that your income must be high or you must live in a big house. This is just a way of living. But that's all imagination. Returning to reality and our current life, I discovered that my hope for you is actually very simple. To put it simply, it is mainly the following aspects. If we achieve the following aspects, you will be happy, we will be happy, and our education for you will be successful and great.
(1) You will never become a tool for your parents to show off. Including your grades and your hobbies, your mother and I will only give you reminders and guidance, but we will never put any pressure on you. We are your parents, and our greatest hope is that you can be happy and cheerful, develop a survival skill within the scope of your hobbies, and be able to withstand the pressure of work and life, nothing else. As for getting promoted and getting rich, it's all just a cloud.
(2) You won’t do what you don’t like to do. You will not learn piano, practice calligraphy, or learn painting like other children. You can only do these things if you like it. Before you are in kindergarten, including the third grade of elementary school, I will not pay attention to your grades, how many words you can recognize, or how many "Three Character Classic" and "Hundred Family Surnames" you can recite. I think that is quite boring and even mentally retarded. thing. During this time, you just need to laugh happily, all kinds of laughter. After fourth grade, my mother and I will only know your grades. But your mother and I will be more concerned about your character, your quality, your understanding of things, your own views on society, especially forming a critical spirit and criticizing everything you think is abnormal. Only in this way can you mature, find the right, and form principles. Only then can you learn to take responsibility and understand how the world and society operate.
(3) Your future cannot be too utilitarian. The purpose of life is nothing but freedom and happiness, nothing else matters. Be indifferent to fame and fortune, and seek a pure land for your own life. Look at the society with a smile, talk about life with a smile, live a carefree life, a poetic life, a healthy life, don’t be too tired, don’t be too idle, life must have a degree, and you need to grasp and adjust the degree. Your future teachers will not teach you these things, and your leaders will not teach you either.
(4) The first lesson in your life is also a required lesson that you will take every day in the future? Safety. In this world, the premise of our life is safety. Your mother and I will definitely teach you the common sense of safety in the event of earthquakes, fires, and floods after you become sensible. You cannot work in unsafe occupations in the future, especially agriculture. I am a farmer and I like to do farm work, but I don’t like the dangers of agriculture.
Did I fall off your grandfather's tricycle? You must learn to be safe when driving and riding in the future, and be ready to escape at any time.
(5) About your future emotions. You must not fall in love before the age of 18. You can have your own feelings, but you can't love with real heart and effort. After you turn 18, you must fall in love, otherwise your youth will not be perfect. After the age of 18, your parents will not interfere with your love life. I will not regard you as precious just because you are my only daughter, and I will not be reluctant to let you go. You need to have your own life. Even if there are misfortunes in your life, it has nothing to do with your parents. You should respect your parents. Take charge of your own life. Must be responsible. We have long since run out of responsibilities.
(6) You don’t have to worry about our future. When you are busy, you don’t have to go home often. We are not so pretentious, and we are not fragile. I think that even if we are in our seventies or eighties, we will have our own lives. If our life in our later years is miserable, it only means that our life is miserable. It's boring and has nothing to do with you. Of course, the principle is, we understand that you don’t have to be filial. Because I have always felt that filial piety and unfilial piety are false propositions. I am more concerned about our true feelings besides filial piety.
(7) Regarding others, you do not need to ask others to do what they must do? This is the foundation of tolerance. No one in this world can really be responsible for you, except yourself and your parents. Therefore, you have no right to ask others to become saints, you only need to impose strict requirements on yourself.
(8) Nine times out of ten things in life are not as expected. The sky will definitely be blue if you get through it, there is no obstacle that you can't overcome. Including the birth, old age, illness and death of the people around you, including the birth, old age, illness and death of me and your mother. Life will still go on, the sun will still rise the next day, the new life will still be sunny, and you still need to have all kinds of smiles on your face.
I can only think of so much now, so I will write this much first. I will think of it later, and I will write it later. If I don’t think about it, I won’t write it again. I believe that these are enough for you to work hard in the first half of your life, and I also believe that these can already cope with all kinds of things in your future life.
In the end, I hope you can grow up happily.
Your father: Wang Chuantao
Sample letter 3 from father to his daughter:
Dear child:
Dad is not I don’t think I have any qualifications to give you valuable life advice. On the contrary, I watch you grow up day and night, watch your growth with silent joy, watch you change from a toddler to a slim figure, and be with me. The inspiration, challenges and thoughts brought by your life together seem to make me experience my childhood more clearly again. This is the unique gain and happiness you bring to my father. This kind of love comes from the connection between two generations, just like What you said when you were a child is like the stars in the sky, they are eternal.
Looking back on my father’s life, if I can give you some advice based on my own personal experience, I think there is nothing better than the word “knowledge”.
Dad’s boyhood was spent in an ancient town 65 kilometers away from the provincial capital. In those years of poverty and silence, thanks to your grandparents, they grew up in a country where not everyone In an era when every child could go to school, they sent me to the only national primary school in the town, where I learned to read and write? This is a favor they gave me that can never be repaid. In the hills of western Anhui, adults worked hard every day, and in addition to going to school, I also had to help with some housework. It was an era when there was no Internet, no TV, and most people didn't even have radios in their homes. Moreover, people They all seem to be nailed to their respective hometowns, and travel is rare. Any reading or readable material that I occasionally get after my daily hard work is so precious.
It is two miles from my elementary school to my home. Every day after school, I always walk along this asphalt road that is said to be built along the ancient post road, passing by a hill that was not inhabited when I was a child. Gang, and then cross a short field road, you will find an old house full of old locust trees and poplars.
I remember it was a spring evening, the sunset was very warm, the tung trees on the hillocks were all blooming, and they were all white. Just where I turned from the road into the hillock, I found half a newspaper that someone had discarded. It was 40 years old. Years have passed, and now I still remember that there was a piece of news in the newspaper about the visit of foreign guests, and the title said "Portugal?"? Ha, there is actually a country called Portugal! What a weird name for a country, she has What kind of scenery? How do her people dress and live? Is this country so full of grapes that the people eat them every day, so their teeth look very different from ours? The surprise, surprise and curiosity at that time were so Intense, I didn’t understand until later, it was a passion for knowledge about distant things. (Famous Quotes www.lz13.cn) This ignited my unremitting enthusiasm for the geography, history and national culture of the world. Therefore, when I took the college entrance examination a few years later and needed to fill in the application form, I did not hesitate to fill it out. I am majoring in international relations, and the knowledge I have learned in this major has been the tool for me to improve myself, serve the society, and make a living independently over the years.
Although my father has tried to constantly think about the purpose and meaning of life, he has not come to any clear conclusion. I can only say that based on my father’s personal experience, it is the greatest happiness and motivation in my life. The joy and feeling that come from seeking knowledge are unparalleled. By learning all kinds of knowledge, I will feel that individuals are not only living in the current time and space, but also living in a larger time and space. Even the people and things at the end of the earth and people and things that have long since died physically, they are also integrally connected to a person's life through his process of seeking knowledge. A person is not an isolated island, but is subordinate to a larger group of people and inheritance ties. This is a kind of An experience that is both independent and integrated, giving people a sense of peace of mind.
The path of seeking knowledge is full of joy and comfort. To sum up, there are three basic ways to seek knowledge: learning from teachers, observation and reading.
Becoming a teacher is the minimum stage that each of us must go through, and it is also a way of life that can be supported throughout our lives. The ancients said: "When three people walk together, there must be one who can teach me." This sentence This means that even after finishing studying in school, people should still communicate and discuss knowledge with others in a humble manner in order to improve themselves.
Observation is the introduction to modern science. Spring flowers and autumn moon, summer rain and winter snow, beautiful scenery of rivers and mountains, historical scenes, as big as the sun, moon and stars, exotic customs, as small as the microscopic world, you can see it with your own eyes. Listen with your own ears. As long as you have a little patience, you will find that even in familiar places, there will be shocking scenery, and the habit of observation is an experiment, which is already within the threshold of science. Something happened.
As for reading, it is not only the most friendly and convenient way to acquire new knowledge throughout your life, but also the cheapest and most beneficial self-entertainment at your fingertips: the fun you experienced yesterday may be forgotten in the blink of an eye, and you read A certain sentence in a book, a certain fictional storm, the joys and sorrows of a non-existent person may be unforgettable for your whole life!
Dear child, when you were young, your father had already I will do my best to give you safe protection and knowledge, but no one can take care of you throughout your life. When you embark on a more distant and unknown road than your father has walked, when you start to belong to the big world that your father can't imagine. In your own life, you are destined to experience helpless difficulties and seemingly insurmountable obstacles. At that time, the knowledge you have and your ability to seek knowledge will be your only support and partner. Because as you know, Athena, the goddess of wisdom, is also the god of war. When you are in a confused situation, she will help you maintain the courage to transcend reality and guide you on the way forward.