1. Self-respect and self-love, ancient Chinese sayings
People will regret themselves and then others will regret them, their families will destroy themselves and then they will be destroyed, and a country will cut down on themselves and then others will cut them down.
——"Mencius" Those who do not believe in their words will have no results in their actions————Mo people cannot stand without faith————Confucius Those who are sincere are the way of heaven; those who think sincerely are the way of man. Tao Ye——Mencius cultivates one’s character through tranquility and cultivates virtue through frugality. ——Zhuge Liang A gentleman worries about the road but not about poverty.
—— Confucius: Be poor without flattery, be rich without arrogance. ——Zi Gong If you strengthen your foundation and use it sparingly, the sky will not be poor.
—— Xun Kuang Those who are extravagant and lazy will be poor, while those who are strong and thrifty will be rich. —— Han Fei The journey of a gentleman is to cultivate one’s character through tranquility, and to cultivate one’s virtue through thrift. If it is not indifferent, it will not clear its aspirations, and if it is not tranquil, it will not be far-reaching.
—— Zhuge Liang Those who are extravagant will be in ruins, while those who are frugal will be safe. One evil and one good fortune are in front of you. ——Bai Juyi Don’t think about living in peace and be prepared for danger, abstain from extravagance and be frugal; cut down the roots to seek luxuriant trees, plug the sources to seek long-lasting growth.
——Wei Zheng looked at the virtuous countries and families in the past, and their success was due to diligence and frugality, and they were destroyed due to extravagance. ——Li Shangyin The overlord took Erjiang alone, and many of his descendants surrendered with hundreds of cities.
After the success of Luxury, what is the joy and peace of mind and the misfortune? ——Wang Anshi. 2. Poems describing self-love
Regarding dignity: 1: People must regret themselves and then others will regret them, their families must destroy themselves and then destroy them, and their countries must cut down themselves and then others cut them down.
--- "Mencius" 2: People are shocked in various ways: some are on the spine; some are on the nerves; some are on moral feelings; and the strongest and most lasting ones are on the individual In dignity. ——John Goersworth 3: Every upright person should maintain his dignity.
--- Rousseau 4: Self-respect has so far been a necessary virtue for a few people. Wherever power is unequal, it is not to be found in those who submit to the domination of others.
——Russell 5: Without self-respect, there will be no moral purity and rich personality spirit. Respect for oneself, sense of honor, pride, self-esteem - these are the stones for honing delicate emotions.
——Suhomlinsky 6: Self-esteem and self-love, as a driving force for perfection, are the source of all great undertakings. ——Turgenev 7: A high degree of self-esteem is not synonymous with pride, arrogance, or a lack of self-criticism.
People with high self-esteem do not think that they are superior to others, but they just have confidence in themselves and believe that they can overcome their shortcomings. ——Ishay Cohen 8: If people want to be aware of their own dignity, they must be humble.
Indeed, human nature is dignified, but it is still unclear and incomplete. To say that human beings are dignified can only be limited to situations where they are selfless, altruistic, compassionate, emotional, and willing to sacrifice themselves for other creatures and the universe.
--- Toynbee 9: Dignity is civilization, but it is as easy to fall off as a layer on the face. ——Chen Jiaqi 10: We can lend our belongings and lives to our friends to meet their needs, but it is rare to transfer the name of dignity and place our honor on others.
——Montaigne. 3. What are the famous classical Chinese sentences about self-respect and self-love?
People will regret themselves and then others will regret them, their families will destroy themselves and then they will be destroyed, and their countries will cut down on themselves and then others will cut them down.
——"Mencius"
Those who do not believe in their words will not achieve results——Mozi
People cannot stand without faith——Confucius
Being sincere is the way of heaven; being sincere is the way of man - Mencius
Quietness is the way to cultivate one's character, frugality is the way to cultivate virtue. —— Zhuge Liang
A gentleman is concerned about the road but not about poverty. —— Confucius
Be poor without flattery, be rich without arrogance. ——Zi Gong
If you strengthen your foundation and use it sparingly, you will never be poor. ——Xun Kuang
Those who are extravagant and lazy will be poor, while those who are strong and thrifty will be rich. —— Han Fei
The journey of a gentleman is to cultivate one’s character through tranquility, and to cultivate virtue through frugality. If it is not indifferent, it will not clear its aspirations, and if it is not tranquil, it will not be far-reaching. —— Zhuge Liang
Those who are extravagant are in ruins, while those who are frugal are at peace. One evil and one good are in front of you. ——Bai Juyi
Don’t worry about danger in times of peace, abstain from extravagance and be frugal; cut down the roots in order to make the trees flourish, block the sources in order to have a long flow. ——Wei Zheng
Looking at the virtuous countries and families in the past, their success was due to diligence and frugality, and they were broken down to luxury. ——Li Shangyin
The overlord took Erjiang alone, and many of his descendants surrendered with hundreds of cities. After the success of Luxurious, what about peace and happiness and misfortune? ——Wang Anshi 4. Ancient poems about self-respect and self-love
Regarding dignity:
1: People will regret themselves and then others will regret them, their families will destroy themselves and then they will be destroyed, and their country will self-destruct. Cut it down and then people cut it down.
——"Mencius"
2: People are shocked in various ways: some are on the spine; some are on the nerves; some are on moral feelings; and the strongest and most lasting ones are on the individual In dignity. ——John Goersworth
3: Every upright person should maintain his dignity. ——Rousseau
4: Self-esteem has so far been a necessary virtue for a few people. Wherever power is unequal, it is not to be found in those who submit to the domination of others. ——Russell
5: Without self-respect, there will be no moral purity and rich personality spirit. Respect for oneself, sense of honor, pride, self-esteem - these are the stones for honing delicate emotions. ——Suhomlinsky
6: Self-esteem and self-love, as a driving force for perfection, are the source of all great undertakings. ——Turgenev
7: A high degree of self-esteem is not synonymous with pride, arrogance or a lack of self-criticism. People with high self-esteem do not think that they are superior to others, but they just have confidence in themselves and believe that they can overcome their shortcomings. ——Ishay Cohen
8: If people want to be aware of their own dignity, they must be humble. Indeed, human nature is dignified, but it is still unclear and incomplete. To say that human beings are dignified can only be limited to situations where they are selfless, altruistic, compassionate, emotional, and willing to sacrifice themselves for other creatures and the universe. ―――Toynbee
9: Dignity is civilization, but it is as easy to fall off as a layer on the face. ―――Chen Jiaqi
10: We can lend our property and lives to our friends to meet their needs, but if we transfer the name of dignity and place our honor on others, This is rare. ——Montaigne 5. Self-respect and self-love, ancient famous sayings
People will regret themselves and then others will regret them, their families will destroy themselves and then they will be destroyed, and their countries will cut themselves down and then others will cut them down.
——"Mencius"
Those who do not believe in their words will not achieve results——Mozi
People cannot stand without faith——Confucius
Being sincere is the way of heaven; being sincere is the way of man - Mencius
Quietness is the way to cultivate one's character, frugality is the way to cultivate virtue. —— Zhuge Liang
A gentleman is concerned about the road but not about poverty. ——Confucius
Be poor without flattery, be rich without arrogance. ——Zi Gong
If you strengthen your foundation and use it sparingly, you will never be poor. ——Xun Kuang
Those who are extravagant and lazy will be poor, while those who are strong and thrifty will be rich. —— Han Fei
The journey of a gentleman is to cultivate one’s character through tranquility, and to cultivate one’s virtue through frugality. If it is not indifferent, it will not clear its aspirations, and if it is not peaceful, it will not be far-reaching. —— Zhuge Liang
Those who are extravagant are in ruins, while those who are frugal are at peace. One evil and one good are in front of you. ——Bai Juyi
Don’t worry about danger when you are in peace, abstain from extravagance and be frugal; cut down the roots in order to seek luxuriant trees, stop the source in order to have a long flow. ——Wei Zheng
Looking at the virtuous countries and families in the past, their success was due to diligence and frugality, and they were broken down to luxury. ——Li Shangyin
The overlord took Erjiang alone, and many of his descendants surrendered with hundreds of cities. After the success of Luxurious, what about peace and happiness and misfortune? ——Wang Anshi 6. Famous aphorisms about self-esteem and self-love
If you don’t love yourself, you will never love others. A person cannot be perfect, but this does not mean that he is insignificant. Everyone has something that others don't have. ——Baskery
A person who loves himself at least has the advantage that he will not encounter many competitors. ——Lichtenberg
Self-love uses current consciousness to look at immediate interests, while reason considers the future and consequences. ——Pop
In any era and in any country, people in the past, present and future love themselves more than others. ——Helvetius
We only feel our own good and evil according to our self-love. ——La Rochefoucauld
The unique desire inherent in human beings is self-love, which is selfishness in a broad sense. ——Rousseau
Excessive love for oneself is actually the source of all human faults. ——Plato
Self-love is shrewder than the shrewdest man in the world. ——La Rochefoucauld
I have often been surprised that everyone loves himself more than he loves others, but values ??his own opinions less than he values ??the opinions of others. ——Marco Aurelius
Self-esteem and self-love, as a driving force for perfection, are the source of all great undertakings. ——Turgenev 7. What are the ancient poems about self-esteem and self-love
Ancient poems about self-esteem and self-love:
1. The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop; the child wants to be raised but cannot be kissed. Don't be slow when your parents call you; don't be lazy when your parents tell you to do it. ——"Disciple Regulations"
2. Filial piety is the law of heaven and the righteousness of earth. ——"The Classic of Filial Piety"
3. Don’t be slow to answer the call, be sincere and cheerful.
——"Persuading parents to repay their kindness"
4. Good food should be used by parents first, and good clothes should be worn by parents first. ——"Encouragement to Repay Parents' Favor"
5. A poor family knows a filial son, and a country in chaos knows a loyal minister. ——"Collection of Famous Sages"
6. Those who are arrogant towards their relatives are those who disrespect their relatives. ——"Three Kingdoms·Book of Wei"
7. Mencius said: "If you don't have relatives, you can't be a person; if you don't have relatives, you can't be a son." ——"Mencius·Li Lou Shang"
8. Mencius said: "Old men and women are as old as men; young men and women are as young as men." - "Mencius: King Hui of Liang, Part 1"
9. Mencius said: "Kissing one's relatives is benevolence; respecting one's elders is righteousness." - "Mencius: Devoting the Heart"
10. Mencius said: "Everyone loves his relatives and grows up with them, and the world is peaceful." - - "Mencius Li Lou Shang"
11. Don't let your parents suffer from toil, and don't let your parents suffer from sorrow. ——"Encouragement to Repay Parents' Favor"
12. If you like your relatives, use your strength to help them; if your relatives dislike you, be careful to get rid of them. ——"Disciple Regulations"
13. If a relative has a fault, he will correct it if he admonishes him. My color is calm and my voice is soft. ——"Disciple Rules"
14. If you love me, it's hard to be filial; if you love me and hate me, filial piety is the only way to be virtuous. ——"Disciple Rules"
15. A virtuous wife and husband will bring few disasters, and a son will be filial to his father and have a generous heart. ——"Zeng Guangxian Wen" 8. Verses that ask you to respect yourself
The earth respects itself without losing its vastness; the sky respects itself without losing its cohesion.
The mountains respect themselves without losing their majesty; the sea respects itself without losing its majesty.
Flowers must respect themselves without losing their beauty; grass must respect itself without losing its strength.
Pine is self-respecting without losing its elegance; wind is self-respecting without losing its solemnity.
The clouds respect themselves without losing their carefreeness; the rain respects itself without losing its gentleness.
Snow has its own weight. Without losing its coolness.
The world respects itself without losing its popularity.
People respect themselves. Without losing its muscles and bones.
A wise person respects himself without losing his humility; a mediocre person respects himself without losing his honesty.
A woman should respect herself without losing her charm, and a man should respect himself without losing his severity.
Children should respect themselves without losing their innocence; old people should respect themselves without losing their old age.
Respect yourself, my friend, self-respect and dignity are in love, self-respect and honor are married, self-respect and a valuable life are married.
The earth respects itself without losing its vastness, and the sky respects itself without losing its cohesion.
A person’s self-respect does not lose its bones and muscles. 9. Poems to encourage women who are careless but not self-respecting
Famous lines of poetry·Source: A day of kindness to the king will lead to a hundred years of misunderstanding.
I would like to send a message to you, a stupid little girl, be careful not to give your body to others. ——From "Introducing the Silver Ping at the Bottom of the Well" Era·Author Tang Dynasty·Bai Juyi Full text·Original text·Full poem "Introducing the Silver Ping at the Bottom of the Well" (Bai Juyi·Tang Dynasty) Preface: Stop prostitution and run away.
There is a silver vase at the bottom of the well, and the silver vase is about to be tied up with a silk rope. Grind the jade hairpin on the stone, and the jade hairpin will be folded in the center.
What can you do if the bottle sinks and the hairpin breaks? It seems that I am leaving you now. I recall that when I was a girl at home, people spoke and behaved differently.
The autumn cicada wings on Chanjuan’s temples reflect the distant mountains with two moths. Laughing and accompanying the play in the back garden, I didn't know you at this time.
My concubine is playing with green plum blossoms against a short wall, and you are riding a white horse next to a weeping poplar tree. They immediately looked at each other from afar, and their hearts broke as soon as they saw Zhijun.
Knowing that you are broken-hearted *** your words, you guide the pine and cypress trees in the mountains. Feeling you, the pines and cypresses turn into my heart, and my two servant girls chase you away.
In the five or six years since I arrived at Jun's house, the adults of the Jun family have spoken frequently. If she is hired, she will be a wife and a concubine, and she cannot bear to be worshiped by the master.
Finally, I realized that your home was uninhabitable, so I had no choice but to go out and have nowhere to go. How can there be no parents in the high hall, but there is also family love in the hometown.
I couldn’t get any more information from here, so I feel so sad and ashamed that I can’t go home today. A day's kindness to the king can lead to a hundred years of misunderstanding.
I would like to send a message to you, a stupid little girl, be careful not to give your body to others. Interpretation·Appreciation·Quotation This is an admonishment poem written by Bai Juyi imitating the tone of an abandoned woman. The theme is just as he said in the preface: "Stop prostitution and run away". The purpose is to advise young women not to elope with others. Stupid thing.
The following paragraphs explain the meaning of the poem. A silver vase is drawn from the bottom of the well, and the silver vase is about to be tied up with a silk rope; a jade hosta is ground on the stone, and the jade hosta is about to be folded in the center.
——These poems use the artistic technique of "Xing" and have the meaning of "Bi". Drawing water from the bottom of the well and pulling up the silver vase, the rope broke just as the vase was coming up; polishing the hosta on the stone, the hosta broke in the middle when it was about to be polished.
Both of these images show that things are not successful, which means that the following love affairs have no good consequences. What can you do if the bottle sinks and the hairpin breaks? It seems that I am leaving you now.
——Do you know what to do if the bottle falls or the hairpin breaks? Just like the difference between me and you today. These two lines of poetry serve as a link between the previous and the following, linking the image with the facts to be told.
Concubine: This is a woman’s modest name for herself. I recall that when I was a girl at home, people behaved differently.
——Recalling when I was a young girl at home, people said that my behavior and movements were extraordinary. Special posture: a distinctive posture.
Chan Juan’s temples are covered with autumn cicada wings, and the two moths are reflected in the distant mountains. ——My temples are as graceful as the wings of cicadas, and my eyebrows are curved like the colors of distant mountains.
Chanjuan: This is used to describe graceful and elegant posture. Double moth: refers to the two eyebrows of a beautiful woman.
Mountain color: refers to the state of eyebrows that look very comfortable. The words come from the second volume of Liu Xin's "Miscellaneous Notes of Xijing": "Wen Jun is beautiful, his eyebrows are as beautiful as looking into the distant mountains, his face is often like hibiscus, and his skin is as smooth as fat..." Laughing and accompanying the play in the back garden, at this time I was with Jun Wei. acquaintance.
——I was laughing and playing in the back garden with my friends, and I didn’t know you at this time. My concubine is playing with green plum blossoms against a short wall, and you are riding a white horse next to a weeping poplar tree.
——I am leaning against the short wall, playing with green plum blossoms, while you are riding a white horse and standing next to the weeping poplar trees. They immediately looked at each other from afar, and their hearts broke as soon as they saw Zhijun.
——The man on the wall and the man on the horse looked at each other from a distance, and it was clear from this side that you were out of your mind at the moment. Heartbroken: This is used to describe extreme affection.
Bai Pu's drama "The Horses on the Wall" comes from the poem "The Horses on the Wall Look at each other from afar". I know that you are broken-hearted, and I know your words. You guide the pine and cypress trees in the mountains.
——Knowing that you like me, I will talk to you. You point to the pines and cypresses on Nanshan Mountain and swear an oath. Feeling you, the pines and cypresses turn into my heart, and my two servant girls chase you away.
——I am grateful that you expressed your love for me with the longevity and steadfastness of the pines and cypresses, so I privately combined my two servant girls and followed you. Combined Double Huan: In ancient times, girls’ hairstyle was double Huan, which merged into one after marriage.
In the five or six years since I arrived at Jun's house, the adults of the Jun family have spoken frequently. ——I have been in your house for five or six years, and your adults often listen to me.
If you hire her as your wife, you will become your concubine, and you are not worthy of being worshiped by the Lord. ——Those who have made betrothal gifts are those whose main wives have eloped and can only be concubines, and are not qualified to officiate and offer sacrifices in family sacrificial ceremonies.
Ping Fan: Ping and Fan. Two edible aquatic plants, often used in sacrifices in ancient times.
Finally, I realized that your home was uninhabitable, so I had no choice but to go out and have nowhere to go. ——Finally, I know that your home cannot be lived in for a long time, so you have nowhere to go after leaving home.
How can there be no parents in the high hall, but also family love in the hometown. ——It’s not that there are no parents in the high hall, there are relatives everywhere in my hometown.
Gaotang: In ancient families, the parents’ room was generally called the main room, which was located in the middle of the family. The ground and roof of the main room were relatively higher than other rooms. Therefore, Gaotang is used to refer to the parents' residence, or to refer to parents.
I couldn’t get any more information from here, so I feel so sad and ashamed that I can’t go home today. ——I ran away secretly and never heard from him again. How can I go back now that I am sad and ashamed? Hidden: privately, secretly.
A day of kindness to a king can lead to a hundred years of misunderstanding for a concubine. ——For one day's love from you, I have delayed my life's happiness.
These are two lines of poetry that make people feel sour when reading them. From them, we can understand the protagonist’s infatuation and resentment. The so-called "one-day favor" refers to the flirting between the "horses on the wall" that day and the man's solemn vows at that time.
And "a hundred years of life" refers to one's lifelong happiness. Life lasts only a hundred years, and "hundred years of life" means a lifetime.
The woman is a person who values ??love and justice, so the love shown by the man to her that day was unforgettable to her. In order to repay this friendship, she resolutely ran away with him regardless of the constraints of family and ethics.
They originally thought that they could stay with each other until they grow old, but unexpectedly the man gave in under the pressure of family and feudal forces, and the vow of "Nanshan Pines and Cypresses" finally came to nothing. Now I have no status in my husband's family, and I want to go back to my parents' house but I have no face. It's really a dilemma.
Women are no better than men. Once a woman has the "stain" of running away with someone, it will be difficult to raise her head again in this life. It is under such circumstances that a woman expresses resentment towards a man, saying, "One day of kindness to the king will cost you a hundred years of life as a concubine." Even though it hurts her heart, she is still resentful but not angry.
I would like to send a message to you, a stupid little girl, be careful not to give your body to others. ——I would like to advise some young girls not to easily commit their lives to others.
Chixiao: childish; weak. These two poems are the heroine summarizing her own experience and lessons and giving advice to the infatuated girl.
Reading it today, it still has practical significance. There is nothing wrong with a woman striving for her own love, but she must know how to respect and love herself. She must not be deceived by a man's sweet words and sacrifice her chastity.
Once you meet someone who is not a human being.