Secondly, men and women are different, and each has its own resource advantages and disadvantages. Women don't over-consume their advantages in front of men, don't bargain, and don't abuse their shortcomings. For example, some women always make a weak gesture that needs protection in front of men, and when they are completely dependent on men, they are selling and abusing their weakness. This kind of woman is essentially a takeaway, and the care and love for men can be described as taking advantage. How can a man who has returned to taste respect such a woman?
Third, women who don't objectify themselves or men. Many women see that Gao Shuai is rich, and they are already half shorter, but they immediately show their external advantages to attract each other. From a biological point of view, there is nothing wrong, but if it is mixed with material factors, there is an attitude of self-materialization, packaging and equivalence. Men who know will not really respect such women on the surface. Similarly, objectifying men is the other extreme. These women regard men as available objects to meet their career, emotional and physical needs. The criterion for judging men is utility, which will keep men away, lest they avoid it, so what about respect?
But can you tell from the appearance whether a woman is one, two or three?
What kind of woman will be respected by men? I am a man, and I answer this question with my most objective remarks. I think only when a woman can get real affection and love from a man can such a woman be truly respected by a man. So what aspects of women's life are these good feelings and love reflected in? I can probably find the answer from the following points.
First of all, I think it is men's sensory recognition of women's body image. This is a natural power resource for men, that is to say, it is the first feeling for men to evaluate women externally, because the external performance of women is also very important for men. Men care about the matching of women's external appearance and momentum, mainly paying attention to women's natural appearance and clothing collocation, and finding this natural and beautiful somatosensory law can win men's respect.
Secondly, I think it is men's recognition of the inner nature of women, and this requirement is relatively high. This is an instinctive desire of men for women, which requires women to have strong understanding and ability to distinguish right from wrong. We should really see that women have the expressive force of self-respect and self-love, a good wife and a good mother, really do a good job in their relationship with men, and really play that natural and normal inner beauty.
Finally, I think it is men's objective recognition of women's material gains. Although this is an incomplete objective requirement of men for women, because in fact there are always some physiological necessities.
Wrong, but on the whole, it only requires women to have an independence, not to rely entirely on men. Because this is a man's own responsibility, it is a kind of self-esteem within the scope of responsibility. If a woman wants to go beyond the authority of this objective requirement normally, it can also shake a man's rare respect for women.
I have always thought that the word respect carries weight and is a kind of awe to others. In other words, if you want to respect others, or others need your respect, the first thing is how to be kind to yourself. That's true respect for others or respect by others.
What kind of woman will be respected by men?
Kindness!
Self-respect and self-love!
In fact, it is nothing more than economic independence and spiritual independence.
Go to the lobby, go to the kitchen.
Wisdom, wisdom!
So putting kindness first, I don't think anyone will respect a vicious person. Just like among stars, if we do more public welfare, we will always be more tolerant.
Women must respect themselves, and no man will respect a woman who doesn't respect herself.
The economic base determines the superstructure. In today's increasingly realistic society, women must be able to support themselves. Contemporary men all have the dream of three wives and four concubines, while ancient men did not have the strength to support three wives and four concubines, so they demanded more from women. The first is economic independence. Although this is required by others, it is also the beginning of our self-esteem. With financial resources, we will no longer ask men for money, so that we can do what we like, regardless of men.
Then there is her own hobby. Women have their own hobbies, no matter what, this time will be particularly charming because they concentrate on doing one thing. These things can be gardening, dancing, music, pottery, baking ... and if you have many hobbies, you won't put all your thoughts on men. To tell the truth, people are mean. The nicer you are to him, the less he cares about you. Beautiful bodies abound, and interesting souls are one in a million!
Although inner beauty is important, all your talents will be discounted if you don't have a beautiful appearance. It is also important to dress up beautifully and appropriately. After all, this is also the time to eat just by looking at your face. Men and women are all the same, and they always have more opportunities to become beautiful and handsome than others.
A smart woman, everyone gets along with her like a spring breeze, which is the embodiment of high emotional intelligence.
Then there is tenderness and virtue. The Chinese nation has always demanded that women be gentle and virtuous. No matter how the society develops, it is not so easy to break the shackles of the patriarchal society that has been deeply rooted in feudal society for thousands of years. It is better to be gentle.
To answer this question, I borrowed the famous words of a great and respected woman, Jiang Yang.
First, your problem mainly lies in reading too much and thinking too much. Therefore, to get men's respect, you have to read more, be intellectual, be elegant and be talented. Learn from life, learn from life.
Second, I pretended to be strong at first, and then I was really strong. So women should be tough and self-reliant.
Third, from now on, there will be only death, not separation. Therefore, women are faithful to love and marriage.
Fourth, take the road of your choice, not the easy one. Female friends must stand in the development trend of the times, lead the times and roll forward.
What kind of woman will be respected by men?
Personally, I think it should be an independent and financially independent woman. Of course, there is a major premise that the person opposite is not love rat.
Only when the economy is independent can we have a say in a relationship. You don't have to make a lot of money, but you should keep your ability to make money. Otherwise, a man won't say anything at first, but after a long time, your position in a man's heart will gradually change, and he will think that you have gradually become his accessory, not an equal adult with him.
Financial ability alone is not enough to make men respect you. In life, you should have your own ideas, and you can't rely on men for everything. In that way, he will look down on you more and more, and slowly start not to know how to cherish.
Of course, the most important thing is that women should first know how to respect themselves, respect their hearts, and strive to become better. Even without men, they should live a wonderful life.
Women who are economically independent, spiritually confident and emotionally rational deserve more respect from men.
Even if men have the ability to support you, economically independent women always deserve more respect. Whether in film and television dramas or in real life, we have seen too many women who really gave up their earning power because men said "I support you" at the beginning. Even if many women pay all their money in marriage, they are only rejected in the end.
Luo Zijun in the TV series "My First Half Life", which was popular not long ago, is the truest portrayal of such people. Because of her husband's "I support you", she gave up her hard work for more than ten years to get a high degree. Although she is young and beautiful and devoted to her family, she can't compete with an ugly and old mistress with children in the end. When the divorced Luo Zijun looks devastated and doesn't know where to put himself, I believe many viewers who are as sympathetic and distressed as me will breed the idea: Why do women rely on men to live? Are women really inseparable from men?
There are many uncertainties in life. Of course, it is the happiest ending for husband and wife to grow old together, but real life is far more cruel than novels. Every day when people are alive, they are struggling with all the uncertainties. "The ability to support yourself" is a powerful guarantee that you will not be defeated in the struggle.
Later, Luo Zijun, who gained independence by reintegrating into society, not only became more and more confident, but also won the favor of male gods.
So for a woman, having independent ability can make her invincible and win the respect of others.
What kind of woman will be respected by men? My answer to this question is pessimistic.
First of all, the point to be discussed in this issue should be the word "person".
If the question is "What kind of woman deserves respect", the topic will be much simpler, but the word "man" is put in the final evaluation standard, which means that the evaluator is a man, not a woman herself, so we should discuss men first.
First of all, people themselves are different, whether from the moral level or from the personality.
There are many kinds of men. First of all, some men don't know how to respect people. This blow is for all mankind. He doesn't know what respect is. In the face of such a man, this problem simply does not exist.
Second, some men just don't know how to respect women They will respect other men, but they only discriminate against women and objectify them. In the face of such a man, women will never get respect.
Third, a man with self-cultivation, high morality and respect for everything. This kind of man is actually the same as the latter two in essence, just the opposite. In other words, in the eyes of such a man, you are worthy of respect anyway.
The above three kinds of individuals think that they should account for about one-tenth of men (purely empirical speculation, no basis), then the rest are the normal ordinary men. So in the eyes of these men, what kind of women are worthy of respect?
Personally, don't listen to those poisonous chicken soup. What "self-respecting women will be respected by men" and "powerful people will be respected" is nonsense. Most women with the above two characteristics also have the following personality characteristics, namely "pride, strength, stubbornness and arrogance". (It's not a stick that kills a boat, just most of them)
Don't forget the title, everything still falls on the species of "people".
In the eyes of ordinary men, "strong, arrogant and stubborn" women will not let them respect them, but will only stay away from them.
So, what kind of woman will make ordinary men respect?
As a family, I think the first thing is a woman who knows how to respect others. You have to respect the people around you, and people will respect you.
Secondly, a woman who knows how to give will win the respect of men. Remember your mother? Why do you respect her?
Then there is a woman who can't be talented. This is the so-called ranks of great women.
Finally, even more amazing is that women who are easily loved are more likely to be respected by men. Men are interesting. When you meet a woman who is easily loved, you will become cautious and show concern and respect everywhere.
In fact, there is another kind of woman who makes people feel very upright. This kind of woman is also easy to be respected, but it is hard to describe.
All right, as a family, criticism is allowed, but don't insult Europe.
The word respect is not easy to get.
Women need self-respect, self-respect and self-improvement to get men's respect, and women will respect you.
Self-esteem, that is, self-respect, is a healthy and good psychology.
Self-respect, respect your personality.
Self-improvement means self-improvement, self-encouragement and hard work.
Men who do these three things will also be respected by others.
This is a comprehensive reflection of world outlook, values and outlook on life.
What kind of person you want to be, what kind of person you will become, come on!
A woman who respects herself will be respected by others. As for whether the respectful party is male or female, it is not the key.
A woman who knows how to respect herself will think about how to treat and love herself. In life, there are too many aspects to consider, and sometimes we are easy to get lost. Society emphasizes that women should pay, love and sacrifice, so we pay, love others and gradually sacrifice ourselves. This is not right.
A woman who knows how to respect herself will think about how to improve herself. Women are not vassals, they should have their own independent careers. Only in this way can we have a more equal posture, keep pace with the times and not fall behind, and not be called a woman who only has her husband, children and bags in her eyes.
A woman who knows how to respect herself can be respected.
Knowing the world is not secular.
I have read many poems, traveled a long way, suffered, been cheated, hurt and loved others by mistake.
In this muddled world, I was once trapped and cried.
However, when she gritted her teeth and waded through Qianshan, she would still show an unambiguous sincere smile in the face of a little kindness from others.
As always, she pursues beauty, believes in love and lives hard.
Can be moderately self-reliant, do not follow the crowd, do not follow the trend. Have their own views on society and the world, have their own moderate judgments on events, and have their own persistence, either for hobbies, family members or lovers.