[Interpretation] Waste: Stop. Can't sleep; Forgot to eat. Describe active efforts in study or work; give one's whole mind to
[Language] In the Northern and Southern Dynasties, Wang Rong's "Preface to Qushui Poetry" said: "I am still there, and I am going to sleep; Never mind the meal. " Yan Zhitui's "Family Instructions of Yan Family in the Southern and Northern Dynasties": "Yuan Di loves to learn between rivers and mountains; Enrollment; Pro-professor; Forget about eating and sleeping; Night follows the DPRK. "
[Pronunciation] Sleep; Can't be pronounced "Qi N"; Eat; It can't be pronounced "sí".
[Shape discrimination] Waste; Can't write "fee"; Sleep; Can't write "sleep".
[Modern significance] Eating night clothes and burning ointment conscientiously make me forget to eat day and night.
[antonym] Absent-minded
[Usage] It contains many compliments. Used to describe people who are very dedicated to their efforts. Generally used as predicate, adverbial and attribute.
2. Regarding the table manners, there are many table manners that should be paid attention to, which are often overlooked.
(1) Sit and leave.
1. Wait for the old man to sit down.
If there is a lady at the table, you should wait until the lady is seated. If the lady's seat is next door, someone should page her.
After dinner, other guests can leave only after the hostess and the host leave.
4. Sit up straight and keep a proper distance from the dining table.
When eating in a restaurant, the waiter should take you to the table.
6. When leaving the seat, help the old man or woman in the next seat to drag the seat.
(B) the use of incense towels
1, napkins are mainly used to prevent clothes from getting dirty, and also to wipe oil stains on your mouth and hands.
You must wait until everyone is seated before you can use the napkin.
3. After the napkin is spread out, put it on the thigh at the top of the knee. Don't wear a belt or hang it on the collar of a suit.
Never wipe the tableware with napkin.
(3) the general etiquette at the table
1. Sit up straight, put your feet under the seat, and don't straighten up at will. Don't lean your elbow on the edge of the table, and don't put your hand on the back of the seat next to you.
2. When eating, be gentle, calm and not impatient.
3. At the dinner table, you should not only care about yourself, but also care about others, especially the female guests on both sides.
If there is food in your mouth, you should avoid talking.
5. Don't put your own tableware in the public plate to get food.
6, be sure to stutter, don't big mouth, food is the last to swallow, can't plug the entrance.
7. When picking vegetables and scooping soup, use public chopsticks and spoons.
8, eat imported things, can not spit it out, such as hot food, you can drink water or juice to shower.
9. When the food is delivered to the entrance, the elbows should be tilted inward, instead of being placed straight at the sides to touch the neighbors.
10. When you hold a knife and fork or others chew food, you should avoid talking or toasting.
1 1, delicious is a dish, not a dish. Take rice with you, and don't send it to your mouth in a hurry, otherwise the soup will drip on the tablecloth, which is extremely indecent.
12, never pull out your teeth with your fingers, use a toothpick and cover it with your hand or handkerchief.
13. Avoid coughing, sneezing and vomiting at the dinner table. If you can't help it, you should say "I'm sorry"
14, drink casually, toast politely, and don't persuade, guess or shout.
15. If the tableware falls, please ask the waiter to pick it up.
16. In case of an accident, you accidentally spill wine, water and soup on someone else's clothes, just apologize, and you don't have to make amends in a hurry, but make the other person embarrassed.
17. If you want to take the condiments placed in front of other guests at the same table, ask the guests next to you to pass them to you. You shouldn't reach out and drive for them.
18, if the host cooks himself, don't forget to thank the host.
19. If you eat something unclean or smelly, don't swallow it. You should gently take out the imported food with your thumb and forefinger and put it on the plate. Don't make a fuss if you find bugs and gravel in the unfinished dishes. When the waiter comes near, tell him to change it softly.
20. After eating, the tableware must be placed neatly and not misplaced. Napkins should also be folded and put on the table.
2 1. Smoking is not allowed in the process of staple food. If you want to smoke, you must ask your neighbors' permission first.
22, eating in a restaurant, you can't grab the bill, push and pull the payment, it is indecent. If you are a guest, you can't rush to pay the bill. You shouldn't pay the bill for your friend without his consent.
23. Eat at the same speed as the host and hostess, neither too fast nor too slow.
24. Don't talk about sadness at the dinner table, or it will spoil the happy atmosphere.
3. With regard to the idioms of civilized etiquette, the four-word idioms related to civilized etiquette are: gentle, polite, courteous, knowledgeable and respectful.
A, gentleness [wé n zh and b and nběn]
Interpretation: text: literary talent; Quality: essence; Binbin: Describe the fitness. The original appearance is elegant and simple, and the later description is elegant and polite.
Said by: Confucius in the Warring States Period, The Analects of Confucius: "Gentleness is a gentleman."
Only by cultural integration can people be elegant and polite.
Second, be polite.
Explanation: Binbin: The original meaning is the appearance of both literature and quality, and the later description is elegant. Describe the appearance of being graceful and polite.
From: Sima Qian in the Western Han Dynasty, Biographies of Historical Records and Taishigong: "Uncle and grandson gather gifts, and literature is slightly advanced.
When Uncle Sun Tong worked out the etiquette, he stepped forward gracefully and politely.
Three. Corporal Li Xian [Xi Xi]
Explanation: Treat people who are talented with courtesy, and make friends with ordinary talented people, regardless of status.
From: Tuotuo and Arutu at the end of Yuan Dynasty, Gong Yichuan, King of Jiangxia Literature in Song Dynasty: "Corporal, sage hangs training."
Be polite to talented and virtuous people, which is a famous saying left by saints.
Fourth, be sensible [zh esh dálǐ]
Explanation: knowledgeable and polite. Refers to an educated person. There are also people who say that knowing the book is a gift.
From: Yuan Yiming's "Feng Yulan" is the first fold: "Only I know the book as a gift, how can I be talked about for showing ugliness?"
It's just that I should be careful when I learn etiquette. How can I wear it without exposing my ugliness?
Verbs (short for verb) respect each other as guests.
Explanation: describe that husband and wife respect each other as if they were guests.
From: Zuo Qiuming's Zuo Zhuan Xi Gong Thirty-three Years Spring and Autumn Period: "I was short of money at the end of the season, and my wife treated me like a guest."
Nine ambassadors passed by her and saw that she didn't mow the grass, accompanied by her wife, and respectfully treated her as a guest.
4. Table manners idioms are mild.
new word
Basic explanation
Gentle: gentle and polite; Er ya: gentle. Describe a person's gentle attitude and behavior. The present tense also means that there is no spirit of struggle, and there is no courage and enterprising spirit in doing things.
commendatory sense
tidy
Qing Pu Songling's Strange Tales from a Lonely Studio: "The satrap is startled and says,' The son of this famous man; Gentle and sincere; "Wu Can is a thief!" "
example sentence
At the opening ceremony of the Asian Games, Miss Etiquette left a good impression on Chinese and foreign guests.
Approximate antonym
synonym
Polite, gentle and sincere.
antonym
Go on the rampage and be arty.
5. Civilized etiquette idioms, four-character idioms related to civilized etiquette.
Li, Qian, Shen, Li, Corporal, Gong, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian, Qian. Pride is not impetuous, courtesy corporal, approachable, modest and courteous, treat people with things, courtesy corporal, three sages love their fathers and children, be filial to their parents, be modest and polite, be kind to others, treat others with courtesy, and treat others with courtesy.