1. The 4-character idiom story of Chinese etiquette and virtue
Kong Rong let the pear
A long time ago, there was a child named Kong Rong. There are six brothers in his family, and he ranks sixth. Everyone calls him Xiao Liuer because he has a lively and easy-going temperament, and everyone likes him. Although there are many brothers in the family, their parents have very strict requirements for each of them: they must study hard; they must be polite to others; they must speak kindly; no matter what, the brothers must be humble to each other and not only think about themselves; others must Help if you have any difficulties. Although Kong Rong was young, he clearly remembered the words of his father and mother. He likes to do things, and is always rushing to sweep the floor, serve bowls, etc. He is very lovable.
When Kong Rong was four years old, one day, one of his father's students came to see the teacher and his wife, and brought a lot of pears. The guest asked Kong Rong to share the pears with everyone. After his father nodded in agreement, little Kongrong stood up and divided the pears for everyone. He first gave the biggest pear to the guest; then he picked two big ones for his father and mother; then he gave the big ones to his brothers one by one; finally, he took the smallest one among a lot of pears. to myself. The guest asked Xiao Kongrong why he picked the smallest one for himself. Kong Rong replied: "I am the youngest, so of course I should eat the smallest one." The guest praised Kong Rong after hearing his answer. Dad nodded with satisfaction.
Later, my father’s students wrote an article about Kong Rong’s story of dividing and letting go of pears. So everyone started to recite it, and it has been spoken from ancient times to the present. 2. The 4-character idiom story of Chinese etiquette and virtue
Kong Rong let the pear
A long time ago, there was a child named Kong Rong. There are six brothers in his family, and he ranks sixth. Everyone calls him Xiao Liuer because he has a lively and easy-going temperament, and everyone likes him. Although there are many brothers in the family, their parents have very strict requirements for each of them: they must study hard; they must be polite to others; they must speak kindly; no matter what, the brothers must be humble to each other and not only think about themselves; others must Help if you have any difficulties. Although Kong Rong was young, he clearly remembered the words of his father and mother. He likes to do things, and is always rushing to sweep the floor, serve bowls, etc. He is very lovable.
When Kong Rong was four years old, one day, one of his father's students came to see the teacher and his wife, and brought a lot of pears. The guest asked Kong Rong to share the pears with everyone. After his father nodded in agreement, little Kongrong stood up and shared the pears with everyone. He first gave the biggest pear to the guest; then he picked two big ones for his father and mother; then he gave the big ones to his brothers one by one; finally, he took the smallest one among a lot of pears. Own. The guest asked Xiao Kongrong why he picked the smallest one for himself. Kong Rong replied: "I am the youngest, so of course I should eat the smallest one." The guest praised Kong Rong after hearing his answer. Dad also nodded with satisfaction.
Later, my father’s students wrote an article about Kong Rong’s story of dividing and letting go of pears. So everyone started to recite it, and it has been spoken from ancient times to the present. 3. What are four or five examples of idioms about traditional Chinese virtues?
Selflessness During the Spring and Autumn Period, Duke Ping of Jin once asked Qi Huangyang: "Nanyang County is short of a county magistrate. Look, who should be appointed? Which one is more suitable?" Qi Huangyang replied without hesitation: "It is most suitable to ask Jie Hu.
He will definitely be able to do it!" Ping Gong asked him again in surprise: "Isn't Jie Hu the best? Your enemy? Why do you still recommend him?" Qi Huangyang said: "You only asked me who is qualified and who is the most suitable; you didn't ask me if Jie Hu is my enemy!" Duke Ping sent Xie Hu to Nanyang County to take office. After Jie Hu took office.
He did a lot of good things for the people there, and everyone praised him. After some days, Duke Ping asked Qi Huangyang again: "There is a lack of a judge in the court now.
Look, who is qualified for this position?" Qi Huangyang said: "Qi Wu can do it. "Ping Gong became strange again and asked: "Isn't Qi Wu your son? How can you recommend your son? Aren't you afraid of others gossiping?" Qi Huangyang said: "You just asked me who is qualified, so I You recommended him; you didn't ask me if Qi Wu was my son!" Ping Gong appointed Qi Wu to be the judge.
Qi Wu became a judge and did many good things for people, and was very popular and loved by people.
When Confucius heard these two things, he praised Qi Huangyang very much.
Confucius said: "What Qi Huangyang said is so good! He recommends people based solely on their ability. He does not recommend him because he is his enemy or has any bias. He is his own son, and he is afraid of others' comments, so he does not recommend him. Only people like Huang Qiyang can be said to be "selfless"!
Zu Ti of the Jin Dynasty was a man with an open mind and lofty ambitions. But when he was a child, he was a naughty child who didn't like reading.
When he entered his youth, he realized his lack of knowledge and felt that he could not serve the country without studying, so he started reading hard. He read extensively and studied history seriously, so he started reading hard.
Read extensively and study history carefully, from which I learned a wealth of knowledge and made great progress in my knowledge. He had been in and out of Luoyang, the capital, several times. People who had come into contact with him said that Zu Ti was a talented person who could assist the emperor in governing the country.
When Zu Ti was 24 years old, someone recommended him to go to court, but he did not agree and continued to study hard. Later, Zu Ti and his childhood friend Liu Kun Yizhi served as the chief registrar of Sizhou.
He and Liu Kun had a deep relationship. Not only did they often lie in the same bed and sleep under the same quilt, they also had the same lofty ideals: to make contributions, revive the Jin State, and become the pillars of the country. Once, Zu Ti heard the crow of a rooster in his sleep in the middle of the night. He kicked Liu Kun awake and said to him: "Other people think it is unlucky to hear a rooster crow in the middle of the night. I don't think so. Let's just hear it later." How about getting up and practicing swordplay when the rooster crows?" Liu Kun readily agreed.
So they got up after the rooster crows every day to practice their swords. The light of the swords danced and the sound of the swords clanged. Spring goes to winter, cold comes and heat comes, never stopping.
Hard work pays off. After a long period of hard study and training, they finally became all-round talents capable of writing good articles and leading troops to win battles. Zu Ti was named General Zhenxi, realizing his desire to serve the country; Liu Kun became the governor, taking charge of the military affairs of the three states of Bing, Hebei and You, and gave full play to his literary and military talents.
Honesty and Trustworthiness: The Story of Zeng Zi Once, Zeng Zi’s wife went to market to buy things, and his youngest son was crying to go to the market. She said to the child: You should stay at home and wait for your mother. When she comes back, she will ask your father to kill the baby pig for you to eat.
The child stopped making trouble. When she came back from the market, Zengzi was sharpening his knife to kill the pig.
She hurriedly said to Zengzi, "You can't kill the baby pigs. I am just playing with them." Zengzi said: How can adults have no faith in children? If the mother doesn't keep her word, the child will break her promise. You can't go back on your promise to your child.
Zengzi’s wife nodded in agreement and killed the pig boy with Zengzi. Three Visits to the Thatched Cottage At the end of Han Dynasty, the Yellow Turban Rebellion broke out and the world was in chaos. Cao Cao took control of the court, Sun Quan supported Soochow, and Liu Bei, the shepherd of Yuzhou, the Han clan clan, listened to Xu Shu (a native of Zhouzhoushe during the Three Kingdoms period and a famous land seeker) and Sima Hui (a famous land seeker from the Three Kingdoms period) Yangzhai native (also a famous counselor) said that Zhuge Liang was very knowledgeable and talented, so he, Guan Yu, and Zhang Fei took gifts to Wollongong in Longzhong (now Xiangyang County, Hubei Province) to invite Zhuge Liang to help him work for the country.
It happened that Zhuge Liang went out that day, and Liu Bei had to turn back disappointed. Soon, Liu Bei, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei braved a heavy snowstorm to invite him for the second time.
Unexpectedly, Zhuge Liang went out for a leisurely trip again. Zhang Fei was unwilling to come back, but when he saw that Zhuge Liang was not at home, he urged him to go back.
Liu Bei had no choice but to leave a letter expressing his admiration for Zhuge Liang and asking him to come out to help him save the country's dangerous situation. After some time, Liu Bei went on a vegetarian diet for three days and prepared to invite Zhuge Liang again.
Guan Yu said that Zhuge Liang may have a false reputation but may not have real talent and learning, so there is no need to go. Zhang Fei, on the other hand, insisted that he call him alone. If he didn't come, he would be tied up with a rope.
Liu Bei scolded Zhang Fei and visited Zhuge Liang for the third time. At that time, Zhuge Liang was sleeping.
Liu Bei did not dare to disturb him and stood there until Zhuge Liang woke up, then sat down and talked with each other. Zhuge Liang saw that Liu Bei was determined to do things for the country and sincerely asked for his help, so he came out to help Liu Bei establish the Shuhan Dynasty.
"The Romance of the Three Kingdoms" refers to Liu Bei's three personal invitations to Zhuge Liang as "Three Visits to the Thatched Cottage".
In Zhuge Liang's famous "Execution of the Master", there is also a sentence: "The late emperor did not regard his ministers as despicable, but he was arrogant and wronged himself, and he paid close attention to his ministers in the thatched cottage."
So when later generations saw someone personally going to that person's home several times in order to invite someone they admired to come out to help them, they quoted this sentence to describe the desire and sincerity of the invitation.
That means not being ashamed to ask questions and seeking talents with an open mind. 4. Four-character idioms about virtue
Diligent and frugal means hardworking and frugal, describing hard work and frugal life
Repaying hatred with kindness means repaying hatred with others with kindness. From "The Analects of Confucius·Xianwen": "It may be said: 'What is it like to repay evil with kindness?' Confucius said: 'Why repay kindness? Repay evil with directness, repay kindness with kindness.'" Original sentence: "It may be said: 'How is it to repay evil with kindness?' Confucius He said: "How to repay kindness? Repay grievance with directness, repay virtuousness with kindness." - "Analects of Confucius Xianwen" The original sentence of complaining with virtue: "One might say: 'Repay grievance with virtue, how about it? 'Confucius said: "How to repay kindness? Repay kindness with straightness, repay kindness with kindness."
4. Doing good to others comes from "Mencius Gongsun Chou, Part 1": "To treat others as good is to do good to others. Therefore. "There is nothing more a gentleman can do than be kind to others." 5. "Traditional Virtues and Idiom Stories"
1. The most important thing for a filial son is to respect his relatives; I am very tired.
——"The Book of Songs" 3. Once a teacher, always a father. 4. Whoever cares about an inch of grass will be rewarded with three spring radiances.
5. A drop of kindness should be repaid by a spring. 6. Being a human being is like a candle. It has some heat and some light, giving people light and warmth.
——Xiao Chunu 7. Life needs a grateful heart to create, and a grateful heart needs life to nourish. ——Wang Fu 8. When drinking water, don’t forget the man who dug the well. The predecessors planted trees for the descendants to enjoy the shade.
9. There is no greater kindness than knowing how to repay kindness. 10. Sheep have the kindness of kneeling down to breastfeed, and crows have the kindness of feeding back.
11. Borrowed thousands of dendrobium water from the river and made it into calligraphy to praise the teacher's kindness. 12. Give him a peach and give him a plum in return.
13. One father raises ten sons, and ten sons raise one father. 14. Look down on the world as passing away like smoke, but remember that kindness remains like blood.
15. A father’s kindness is higher than a mountain, and a mother’s kindness is deeper than the sea. 16. The kindness of one meal should never be forgotten.
17. Fish know the kindness of water, which is the source of happiness. 18. I pity the hearts of parents in the world.
19. The kindness of knowing and encountering someone should never be forgotten. 20. I feel sorry for my parents. I don’t know the kindness of my parents if I don’t have children.
21. God pities the grass, but late love is common in the world. 22. Thank you to fate, thank you to the people, thank you to your thoughts, and thank you to everyone I want to thank.
——Lu Xun 23. Parents who love their children have far-reaching plans. 24. When others help me, I will never forget it; when I help others, I will never forget my heart - Hua Luogeng 25. If you don’t live in the family, you don’t know how expensive firewood and rice are, if you don’t raise children, you don’t know how to repay your mother’s kindness. 26. If you want to repay kindness, you want to forget grudges; if you don’t repay grudges, Repay kindness long.
27. Gratitude is a spiritual treasure. ——Locke 28. Gratitude is the health of the soul.
——Nietzsche 29. Without gratitude, there is no real virtue. ——Rousseau 30. The most beautiful scene in the world occurs when we miss our mother.
—— Maupassant 31. The reason why family is important is mainly because it allows parents to gain emotions. ——Russell 32. The virtue of parents is a huge wealth.
——Horace 33. How similar mothers are all over the world! Their hearts are always the same, they both have an extremely pure and innocent heart. ——Whitman 34. The kindness of parents cannot be drowned by water or extinguished by fire.
——Proverb from the former Soviet Union 35. Only when you raise a son can you know how hard your mother is, and when you raise a daughter, you can know how grateful you are to your mother. ——Japanese proverb 36. Ingratitude is more powerful than lying, vanity, rhetoric, drunkenness, or other evils of the fragile human heart.
——British proverb 37. An ungrateful person cannot be saved if he is in trouble. ——Greek proverb 38. Gratitude is the least of virtues, and ungratefulness is the worst of conduct.
——British proverb 39. Despicable people are always ungrateful, and ungratefulness is a despicable part of the original.
——Hugo 40. The bees sip honey from the flowers and express their gratitude when they leave.
The pompous butterfly believes that the flower should thank him - Rabindranath Tagore 41. Charitable behavior can relieve the pain of others more than money. ——Rousseau 42. To know the kindness of parents, hold children and grandchildren in your arms.
——Japanese proverb 43. No matter how proud a person is of his achievements, he should drink water and think about his source. He should remember that it was his teacher who sowed the original seeds for their growth. ——Madame Curie 44. Every kind of favor has a barb, which will hook the mouth that swallows the favor. The benefactor can drag him wherever he wants - Don En 45. Despicable people are always Ungrateful: Being ungrateful is originally a part of despicability - Hugo 46. An ungrateful person cannot be saved when he is in trouble - Greek proverb 47. If a person receives a great favor and later turns against the benefactor, he will Taking care of one's own dignity must be more vicious than an unrelated stranger. He has to prove the other person's guilt to explain his ruthlessness - Thackeray 48. Gratitude is the smallest of virtues, and ingratitude is the worst of vices. ——British proverb 49. An ignorant person wants to do something good, but in the end he does harm to others; a little magpie plucks out its mother’s feathers, thinking it is repaying the kindness of raising her. - Tibetan proverb 50. You don’t know your mother until you are a child, you only know it when you raise her. Repay your kindness to your mother - Japanese proverb about gratitude. If you work hard, you will die.
(Zhuge Liang's "The Master's Guide") The crow has the meaning of feeding back, and the sheep knows that the kindness of kneeling at the breast and dripping water should be repaid by the spring. Who said that the heart of an inch of grass can repay three spring rays, and the bee emerges from the flower. Sipping honey and thanking Yingying when leaving. The flamboyant butterfly believes that the flower should thank him.
—— Rabindranath Tagore When people help me, I will never forget them; when I help others, I will never forget them. —— Hua Luogeng Every kind of favor has a barb, which will hook the mouth of the benefactor who swallows the favor. The benefactor can drag him wherever he wants —— Being ungrateful is better than lying, vanity, gossiping, and drunkenness. Or other evils that exist in the hearts of fragile people are even more powerful - British proverb: Despicable people are always ungrateful: ingratitude is originally a part of being despicable - Hugo An ungrateful person cannot be saved when he is in trouble - -Greek proverb: If a person receives a great favor and later turns against the benefactor, he must take care of his own dignity and must be more vicious than an unrelated stranger. He must prove the other person's guilt in order to explain his ruthlessness. - Sack Gratitude is the least of virtues, and ingratitude is the worst of vices - British proverb: An ignorant person wants to do something good, but ends up doing harm to others; a little magpie plucks out its mother's feathers, thinking it repays the nurturing. The kindness of parents - Tibetan proverb: Water cannot drown the kindness of parents, and fire cannot extinguish it - Soviet proverb: Father's kindness is higher than the mountains, and mother's kindness is deeper than the sea - Japanese proverb: To know the kindness of parents, you should hold your children and grandchildren in your arms - Japanese proverb: Raise a child to know your mother After hard work, you can only appreciate your mother's kindness by raising a daughter - Japanese proverb: You don't know your mother's kindness when you are young, but you only know how to repay your mother's kindness when you raise a child - Japanese proverb: If you don't have a family, you don't know how expensive firewood and rice are; if you don't raise children, you don't know how to repay your mother's kindness - Chinese proverb: If my father gives birth to me, my mother will Bow me, pick me up, feed me, grow me, nurture me, take care of me, revive me, come in and out of me, the virtue you want to repay, Haotian is extremely ignorant. The grass is knotted in the ring, and the silhouette of the solitary lamp is shining in the night in return of kindness. He looks at his son like a dragon and looks up at him soaring into the sky.
Youhu's temples are covered with cold frost, the waist of her skirt falls in spring, and the tips of her eyebrows rise in autumn. In the 32nd year, there were storms and waves, the rain and clouds disappeared, and my thoughts were like a flood.
In memory of the loving mother who has worked hard for half a lifetime and knelt down to nurse the lamb, she will repay her today. Quotations from famous people about gratitude: Work hard and die.
(Zhuge Liang's "After the Master") Crows have the meaning of feeding back, and sheep know the kindness of kneeling to breast. The kindness of dripping water should be repaid by the spring. Whoever says that the heart of an inch of grass can repay three springs.