The book says that if you are bored doing something, it is often not because of the thing itself, but because of the wrong way to do it. If you invest enough, even if it is as simple as frying eggs, you can feel the fun and realize the flow.
The simple "knower", the person who knows this matter, just stays at the level of speaking. But "good people", people who want to learn, will have a force to do things in their hearts. "Happy people" are completely immersed in things and don't need external force to push them.
If Confucius cried today, he wouldn't sing today.
Confucius is a musician. "Yu Qi smell" shao ". Then I don't know the smell of meat in March, and the sound is lingering. "
After listening to Shao, I felt that the music was so beautiful that I was bored for three months. How can there be such a state? In fact, it is to feel the present and be in a state of flow.
There is a book called Feeling Love-there is no lack of love in life, but we seem to have lost the ability to feel love.
The ability to feel love comes from enough pressure.
As the saying goes, the ancients talked about "feeling physical and chemical", and Confucius understood it very thoroughly. He conforms to the Tao. So when a person really understands a lot of truth, the stress situation will be much less. Because, the so-called fame and fortune is no longer regarded as the pursuit goal.
Confucius hates "mourning without mourning", that is, going to a funeral without heartfelt pain, even crying is fake. This is also a state of numbness.
There are related contents in The Trap of Happiness and Intrinsic Motivation. Only when a person lives completely can he live lively and true.
Is it really difficult for Confucius to say "benevolence"? Is it really far from us? I just ... I'll be there soon. All the great things in the world have a common feature, which is called difficulty, and it is not called difficulty.
Is it difficult to love someone? We think that love is nature, so how can it be difficult to love children?
But in reality, how many parents "bad" love their children, making them particularly painful. So love is neither difficult nor difficult. If you really want the realm of benevolence, in fact, at this moment, the realm of benevolence has arrived.
If you want to be a scholar, you must have a big picture, grand and broad ideals and dreams. Isn't it far enough to carry benevolence to the end of the world? Don't set a retirement age for yourself.
Just like the core theme of living the meaning of life, everyone's life must be meaningful, but sometimes they don't know it, or even they can't find it all their lives. But I believe this meaning must exist.
With the birth of tragedy, philosophers have been asking whether our life is meaningful. Mr. Zhou told me that it might really be meaningless. But finding the meaning of life is meaningful in itself.
Professor Deng Xiaomang's The Beginning of Philosophy also said that people should live a higher life slowly.
Many people know this sentence, but they always use it wrongly. When passing the buck, they often say that this matter is not my responsibility, so don't look for me. This is really misunderstood.
This sentence is actually for the leaders, which means that you can't intervene in everything, and the person in charge of any position should bear the due responsibility.
In the book "Responsibility Virus", you will see that if there is a responsibility virus in the organization, everyone will understand that this sentence is completely reversed, and they will think that it is not my fault and should not look for me.
But if we can solve the problem of "responsibility virus", we can fully empower our subordinates and mobilize their enthusiasm more when assigning tasks. This is the real role of "not in place, not seeking politics".
As a leader and manager, it is actually arrogance to get involved in every job at any time. Believe in the strength of employees and organizations.
Ren said: "Let the commander who can hear the guns command the battle" is the truth.
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