No one is perfect. Everyone has some shortcomings, but these shortcomings are different in everyone’s eyes. My sister is looking for a boyfriend. In the eyes of this boyfriend, Here, spending money is the biggest shortcoming of my sister, but she thinks that it is okay to improve her life within her ability. So, my sister, who was going to get married, chose to break up and not get married. At this time, my sister's boyfriend was still very confused. How could he not get married if he didn't get married? He didn't do anything, he just asked her to get rid of this shortcoming. In fact, people who have different views on life cannot continue to live. The view on consumption is also very important. Imagine that there are always people nagging you when you spend money. Isn’t it a very annoying thing?

Is it wrong for women to make their own money and spend it themselves?

When many women face this question, the answer must be right. But in the minds of some men, the answer must be wrong, because some men think that women's money is a waste, such as buying lipstick and buying clothes. In the eyes of many men, it is enough to wear enough clothes. What's the point of leaving so many of them without wearing them? Also, I bought one lipstick after another. They are all the same and there is no difference. For such men, if a woman spends money, it is a shortcoming in their eyes. Not only is it a shortcoming, it is also a waste.

Should men control women’s spending money

In fact, regarding the matter of spending money, whether you are a man or a woman, if it is within your spending power, you want to let As your life becomes better quality, there is nothing wrong with spending money. If your financial ability does not allow it, but you particularly like to spend money or spend money randomly, then this must be changed. Many women love vanity. When they see what other people have, they want to buy the same bag to compare. This is not recommended. If you have the spending power, there is nothing wrong with you buying it. If you don’t have the spending power, sometimes you want to spend money even if your credit card is overdrawn. This is absolutely not good. Especially when you have a boyfriend or get married, it will put a lot of financial pressure on the other person. Sooner or later it will be a problem.

What would you do if you encountered such a problem?

I once dated a boyfriend. He was the kind of stingy person who basically did everything when he was in love. All the expenses were paid by me. At the beginning, because I felt that I loved him very much, I didn't care about it. But as time went by, I couldn't feel his love and sincerity for me, because many people say that whether a man treats you well or not depends on whether he is willing to spend money for you, but mine My boyfriend is completely reluctant to spend money on me. And when I spent money to buy things, he also disliked this and that, always thinking that I was a waste. Later, I felt that it was not that he didn't love me, but that he was too careful because of his family environment, and this The carefulness didn't suit me, so in the end we broke up.