Text/Ci Nan

As the saying goes in rural areas, "It is better to suffer a grudge from your husband's family than to suffer a blow from your mother's family." Your husband's family is different from your mother's family.

Everyone must know that Our country has already proposed cultural self-confidence long ago, which shows that cultural inheritance is very important to us.

In fact, by reading books, visiting interesting places of interest, etc., we can better understand our national history and better inherit our national culture.

I guess you must have heard a lot of common sayings that are widely circulated among neighbors. In fact, common sayings are also a kind of our national culture. Don’t underestimate them.

Common sayings are liked by everyone not only because their language is easy to understand, but also because they can reflect some social phenomena and the views they express are profound.

For example, you must have heard the saying "It is better to suffer the anger of your husband's family than to suffer the anger of your mother's family".

I think this sentence means that I would rather be angry with my husband’s family than tolerate a little bit of criticism from my family.

People often say that a married daughter throws away water. Since you have already married into that family, no matter how wronged you are or how angry you are, you have to bear it by yourself. After all, no matter what you say, It's also someone else's family. After all, my husband's family is different from my mother's family.

Besides, women in the past were not as free as they are now. You can't get divorced if you don't want to continue living. There seems to be no other choice but to swallow your anger.

But it’s different when you go back to your parents’ home. This is the place where you grew up. Everyone is very familiar with each other. Everyone knows what can and cannot be said.

If a family member really said something to blame, he would probably jump up in anger.

In fact, it is easy to think, "I have had enough anger at other people's homes. Why don't you let me stay comfortably for a while when I go home?" Does my analysis make sense?

In fact, we usually hear quite a lot of common sayings. But what I’m going to say next is something I only learned recently.

In fact, "I would rather hear the noise in front of the door than the sound of the baseboards behind the house." I think this may be a habit of people in the past when they built houses.

When building a house, most people will choose the direction of the house facing the road. This makes travel convenient and makes people feel safe.

Why do you say that? Think about it, if your house faces away from the road and people come and go, you will always feel like you are being targeted by thieves.

As long as there are footsteps, even if the person is not a thief, you will still be on tenterhooks and restless.

So I think this saying is very reasonable. Think about it, is your house built in this way?

In addition to the above two proverbs, I also want to share a proverb with you. It goes like this: "No money at fifty, no talk at sixty, no stay at seventy, no stay at eighty." You won’t be able to sit down until you are ninety years old.”

This sentence may not seem difficult to understand. In fact, in rural areas, after the age of 50, it is basically impossible to do any physical work, and there is no ability to make money. , others will gradually cut off financial ties with them.

Sixty years old is not young anymore. Many people have experienced a lot in their lives to this age. They treat things with a calm and calm attitude, so they will not interact too much with others. I think communication may be out of self-protection.

At the age of seventy, the elderly often suffer from some sudden illnesses, so it is inconvenient to stay at other people's homes. If something happens, it is difficult to shoulder the responsibility.

I guess most people won’t be so confused. No matter how serious it is, you can’t eat at other people’s houses when you reach the age of eighty. The principle is the same as before.

When you are ninety years old, you can only bask in the sun in front of your home. It’s good if you can walk a few steps without trembling. Your neighbor will not let you sit in his house for a while. The risk factor is huge. Come on, who could be so stupid!

Of course, my words may be a bit exaggerated, but it is also true. Of course, I think everyone should exercise more while they are young. If their physical fitness improves, they can enjoy more blessings and avoid suffering when they get older, right?