In the beginning, it was to raise 400,000 yuan to "sell myself to save my father." What happened now?
Asking for help
In ancient China, there was a famous saying: "Filial piety comes first among all good deeds." This shows that children's filial piety towards their parents is above all else. If you have both parents, your family will be there and you can grow up with your children. When your parents are old and various diseases strike, life and death are the most heartbreaking. In today's society, networks and communications are becoming increasingly developed, and a large amount of information is pouring into people's eyes every day. When people receive information and comment on the information they receive by typing on the keyboard, this screen communication method has gradually become a habitual part of people's lives.
However, the authenticity and credibility of the information received through the media are questionable. Journalists pursue timeliness and explosive power. In order to publish press releases as quickly as possible, many reporters inevitably end up being inaccurate because they cannot understand the facts well.
Perhaps many media are blindly pursuing the traffic brought by news and do not care whether the content they report is true. It is for this reason that when people accept fragmented information, they are likely to be guided to use this information. Today, flip news emerges in an endless stream, and more and more people realize that "the whole picture is unknown without comment." However, due to the large base of netizens, the average level of education of netizens is low, network information is updated too quickly, and the focus of attention is too high. It is so fast that people cannot understand the antecedents of an invitation.
Especially when a post asking for help appears on the Internet, there are always some people who have a strong sense of justice and immediately express support and discover that it is a scam; there are also some who immediately believe that the other party has ulterior motives and are indifferent and selfish. Calendar. Feng Shuangshuang, born in 1995, claimed that "I will marry anyone who can save my dad." This is one of the "help-seeking incidents" that has attracted widespread attention. Surprising words for help online
With the development of modern social networks, more and more people turn to netizens for help when they encounter difficulties. It can be as small as solving problems or as big as solving problems in life. It seems that as long as enough people pay attention, you can get the correct answer. When Feng Shuangshuang faces the situation where his father is seriously ill and his family's financial situation cannot afford medical expenses, there are also online platforms such as "Shui Di Chou" that can be used to seek help from the society.
How many online platforms are trustworthy and how many people receive financial support in this way are as shown in the table below. The reason why Feng Shuangshuang’s request for help received more attention than others was because she chose a more surprising way to ask for help.
A girl born in 1995, she works in a beauty salon. Life was peaceful and happy at first, but his father's serious illness changed everything. For this ordinary family in Pingdingshan, Henan Province, the cost of treatment is as high as 400,000 yuan. On the one hand, his father has an emergency, and on the other hand, he has huge medical expenses that no one around him can raise. Feng Shuangshuang and his family are in a dilemma.
And Feng Shuangshuang came up with a solution for online help. She posted a video of a caller on the Internet. One side of the video shows her taking a makeup selfie, and the other side shows her father being stuffed full of medical equipment and lying unconscious in the special care ward. The contrast of these photos brought a strong visual impact, and what Feng Shuangshuang said in the video was also surprising. She said in the video that if someone could spend 400,000 yuan on her father’s treatment, she would marry To this man. The video asking for help caused controversy
This video attracted widespread attention from netizens, but most people did not want to spend 400,000 yuan, but stood aside and watched, wondering what happened. The truth of the matter. In the final analysis, this kind of thing is to save his father, just like it happened in the feudal society thousands of years ago. In modern society, there are many people who take advantage of the sympathy and lack of legal knowledge of some uneducated people to create the scam of "selling one's body to bury one's father". In other words, Mr. Feng's statement did not win much trust at first.
At the beginning, netizens had many questions about the Feng Shuangshuang incident. For example, was Feng Shuangshuang’s father really seriously ill? This incident seems tear-jerking. Could it be another scam behind it? Others are curious whether anyone is really willing to spend 400,000 yuan. After all, it is not a small expense. Whether Feng Shuangshuang will really make hasty decisions for the rest of his life for his father. These are all hot topics among netizens.
There were so many people discussing the video she posted, which was good news for Feng Shuangshuang, because it meant that more people understood her family’s plight and more people understood her. Difficulty and willingness to seek help, her hope of receiving funding has also greatly increased. However, despite the fact that this matter has become very popular, no one has come forward to bear the entire cost of treatment. Moved netizens to accept funding
Feng Erniang's father was in a coma most of the time due to a serious illness, but when he was awake, the pain he suffered was far more than that. When he saw that everyone treating him at home was looking sad, and he didn't want to burden his family, he thought about removing his stomach tube and dying several times.
Although no one stepped forward to pay for Feng Shuangshuang’s father’s medical expenses and asked to marry Feng Shuangshuang, Feng Shuangshuang received help from all the well-wishers who paid attention to the matter, and she was moved by her filial piety towards her father. Everyone also fought for the last chance for his father. The family relationship between the two became very harmonious, and it all ended with a happier ending - Feng Shuangshuang's father was rescued by the society and had the opportunity to receive treatment.
Although no one stepped forward to pay for Feng Shuangshuang’s father’s medical expenses and asked to marry Feng Shuangshuang, Feng Shuangshuang received help from all the well-wishers who paid attention to the matter, and she was moved by her filial piety towards her father. Everyone also fought for the last chance for his father. The family relationship between the two became very harmonious, and it all ended with a happier ending - Feng Shuangshuang's father was rescued by the society and had the opportunity to receive treatment.
From this we can see that when people face the pain of others, most people will choose to convey kindness. The lyrics sung "as long as everyone gives a little love, the world will become a beautiful world", which is the state in which most people help each other.
In fact, after this incident, looking back at the video that Feng Shuangshuang released at the beginning, it can be seen that the reason why she made such shocking remarks was to spread the news to the maximum extent. If she had just posted a crowdfunding link in the first place, maybe no one would have noticed that there was anyone here who needed help, and no one would have paid attention to whether what he said was true.
Back to the issue of news dissemination, now people can receive a variety of information, and they will give priority to those interesting news to absorb. If a piece of news can be seen from the title, it is not Watch it, so no one will click on it. Because of this, many articles and news nowadays have been criticized as "clickbait", because an eye-catching title can indeed attract more traffic to some extent. If the title is good and the content is more exciting, no one will criticize it. After all, no matter how good the content is, it must be packaged.
The current problem is that in order to gain exposure, many unscrupulous media use all means to stir up disputes and create shocking headlines. Clicking on them to read the content will make them tasteless and a pity. Such a large amount of non-nutritious content is output, which wastes the time of the work and readers.
Feng Shuangshuang could have directly released the video of the incident when he was in distress, but if he released an ordinary video when there was no traffic, it would probably sink into the vast ocean of the Internet and not be seen. This time she chose to use a rather shocking sentence to attract everyone's attention. It was actually very smart, because she knew that only in this way could she spread the news that she needed help to more people as soon as possible.
In this matter, of course we cannot deny Feng Shuangshuang's filial piety towards her father. Of course, we also lament that this post-95 girl could think of such a way. It is really smart. Although the mixed content on the Internet has resulted in all kinds of clickbait chaos, as long as these hot-spot skills are used in the right way, it can become an effective way to spread knowledge and positive energy.