1. Investment
Once a person reaches middle age and becomes the main pillar of his family, he must be willing to invest, want to invest, and work tirelessly for his lover, even if Not necessarily some people understand it, but you also need to be a person who devotes yourself silently. Some people compare a man's heart to a mountain. The mountain is actually the support of the whole family. It uses its own pillars to bear all the pressure of the family. It does not allow relatives to suffer all the rain and wind, and completes the purpose of protecting the lover from the wind and rain. Service Commitment.
Once a man reaches middle age, a man who truly loves his woman will not use too many words to express it. He is likely to prefer to use practical actions to express that when his lover encounters difficulties, When your heart goes well, stand up silently to give her warmth and help; when your lover feels aggrieved, quietly convey your reasonable support, making her feel that there is a force always accompanying her; in the face of all difficulties and emergencies When an accident occurs, I will always use my body and energy to resist everything, like a solid wall, guarding the peace and harmony of the home. This kind of investment can be regarded as the simple happiness of a man to a woman. 2. Expression
When a man says to a woman: "Daughter-in-law, I like you", it is very likely that the woman will not be impressed, but if the man gives her something that the woman dreams of, she will immediately give it to her. , spending every memorable day with her righteously. This kind of novelty and expressions confirmed by practical actions are the most sincere feelings for people once they reach middle age, and they are also the key to the happiness of a couple at first sight. .
Understanding that expression is an essential lesson for middle-aged people is an important factor in promoting the relationship between husband and wife and keeping it fresh from beginning to end. Expressing in a way that suits you is more effective than verbal expression. In ancient times, when promises were worth a thousand pieces of gold and words were life mottos, if you loved someone, you would say "There are no mountains and mausoleums, and heaven and earth are harmonious, so I dare to be with you." I firmly believe that those who can say this sentence must be consistent in their words and deeds. Because they have such self-cultivation and such feelings, they must have strong ideological awareness. Most people will definitely not be able to say such "classic sayings".
In the past society, people valued keeping their word, otherwise they would lose their personal credibility and be reviled by others. However, this kind of good moral character has long been abandoned in modern times. This is the so-called "people's heart" Not ancient”. Modern people can pretend to be content with their promises after making them very good, as if they didn't say it at all, while others are still waiting for others to honor them, only to find out that they are just infatuated. Rather than talking too much, it's better to prove it with practice. This is the most effective way for adults to express love.