(1) No longer eager to prove that you are right

Teacher Dashuai is also a travel enthusiast and works part-time at a company in Shanghai that has always been known as the "Top 500 Street" As a contract leader of a travel company, I can honestly say that the hobby of "travel" has indeed brought me a lot of valuable spiritual wealth! The most important one is: the experience of cross-cultural communication.

As we grow up, we will naturally form some "self-righteous" ideas, and we also firmly believe that most people think the same as us.

For example, I always thought that tap water was undrinkable. It was not until I traveled to Japan that I learned that China is one of the few countries in the world where tap water is undrinkable;

I I have always thought that religion means going to temples and burning incense during festivals. When I went to Qinghai Lake, I realized that there are people who are willing to die on the pilgrimage and are proud of it;

These shocking things Concepts have allowed me to see a completely different worldview and values, and have made me no longer so eager to prove that I am right in real life.

(2) Why is it said that "reading thousands of books" cannot replace "traveling thousands of miles"?

The ancient Chinese once said: Read thousands of books and travel thousands of miles. I have always believed that reading can also play a role in cross-cultural exchanges to a certain extent. Although I have never been to Tibet, I You can read "The Tibetan Book of Life and Death"!

However, "principles" and "hearing" can never replace "experience". As Han Han said in the words of Wang Luodan in "The Future", "You know a lot of principles, but you still can't live well." This life”.

Every bit of experience you experience during the trip will become something that is difficult to describe in words and can be engraved in your heart. In Light Blue Dream Interpretation, this kind of thing is It's called "subconscious". Only this kind of growth that does not just stay on the surface of consciousness and cognition can truly transform people from the inside out and become a better self.

Moreover, what you can experience during travel is far more than just the culture of a foreign country. Travel itself is also a process of exploring the unknown world, so experiencing uncertainty is also a very important theme in travel. For most of us busy adults, it seems that having as stable a life as possible has become a natural habit. We hate to face things that we are not confident about controlling. However, during travel, only uncertain things are beautiful, just as the people in Shanghai are much more surprised by the white snow than in the water towns in the south of the Yangtze River. In the process of traveling, we finally have the opportunity to go the other way, to experience the unknown and enjoy this feeling of uncertainty.

This process from rejecting and hating uncertainty to accepting and enjoying uncertainty is exactly the process in which a person becomes more mature! This is a part that no book, movie, or documentary can bring to you.

(3) "Travel can cleanse the soul"

The last and most important point is that relevant research on tourism psychology shows that the travel process itself provides a connection with real life. Completely different scenes, thus weakening the "sense of morality" and "sense of responsibility" that subconsciously inhibit our behavior, and the setting of "there is a beginning and an end" in the trip itself will reduce people's inner insecurity to a certain extent. feel. (Here are two points to explain briefly. The subconscious "moral sense" and "responsibility" we are talking about here are a broad concept and are not limited to the traditional social ethical value system. For example: we have The reason why we don't do many things when we are young is not because we don't want to, but because we feel that it will make our parents worried and is a kind of "disloyalty" and "irresponsibility" to our parents. The second point is, "There is a beginning. But it never ends." That falls into the categories of "wandering around the world" and "home all over the world". It often requires a lot of courage and courage, and obviously does not belong to the travel we usually talk about.

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And when a person lacks "morality" and "responsibility", but at the same time has a basic "security", what kind of changes do you think will happen to him or her? ! That's right, that means the whole person has gone to heaven... He begins to dare to do things that he usually dare not do, and gets to know his real and completely different self! This is why there are often contrasting cute girls on the Sichuan-Tibet line who are "very quiet at work but wild when riding". At the same time, it also explains more specifically the so-called "traveling can cleanse the soul" from the mouth of literary and artistic young people, because Travel, like dream interpretation technology, literally creates a small opening that allows us to enter our inner world.

So, if you have time and money, please take a step forward and see more of the world! To paraphrase a famous saying in our circle: The hardest thing to do is to decide to go! When I bought that ticket to Prague or Istanbul, the next thing would become natural.

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