I heard a saying: "Reliable people are all similar, but unreliable people are unreliable in their own way."

Too many people complain that their friends are unreliable. In fact, even the most reliable money is fake, not to mention the human heart?

A smart person does not doubt the relationship between people, but sees reliable people and manages reliable relationships.

A truly reliable relationship is one that is compatible, trustworthy, and reliable.

When people interact with each other, what matters in the short term is interest, while long-term relationships depend on whether they are compatible.

The deeper the friendship, the more inner harmony is needed.

Countless people have regretted Li Jian’s departure.

He and Lu Gengxu both love music, and they created and rehearsed together. Their relationship was once as close as brothers.

One has a rough voice, the other has a soft voice. They work together very well, and the group is becoming more and more popular.

But just one year later, Li Jian suddenly withdrew.

He was too tired from a lot of business performances and pretending to be another person on stage. What he pursued was always just holding the guitar and singing quietly.

And the noise that he hated was exactly what Lu Gengxu wanted.

There is no need to fall out in a relationship that is gradually growing apart, and even conflicts are not inevitable.

Lu Gengxu doesn’t understand Li Jian’s pursuit of music, and Li Jian doesn’t approve of Lu Gengxu’s future. After all, they are not the same kind of people.

The feeling of compatibility is less, and as time goes by, it is natural for them to part ways.

Now that Li Jian has released an album, the first thing that comes to mind is not Lu Gengxu, but Yu Hua, who is 14 years older than him.

In his spare time, he loved to read Yu Hua's books. He was struck by the emotions in the articles, and he read them more carefully than the critics.

Every time Yu Hua looked at the CD he sent, he would complain about the small font of the album while reading every lyric carefully.

After learning that Li Jian was successful in "Singer", he stared at that station every day until there was no more programs for him.

Yu Hua not only appreciates the melody of "Lake Baikal", he also likes the faraway artistic conception in the clear voice. He knows that Li Jian is a poet at heart.

Gorky has a famous saying: "The best friend is the kind of person who doesn't like to talk much, can talk to you silently and is in close communication with you."

A truly harmonious relationship , it’s not just that you have the same preferences and can simply play together, but that he understands you.

No matter who you are, there are people who can’t get anywhere, so don’t blame yourself.

It is a kind of luck to meet someone who is truly compatible with you. If he happens to be around, you must cherish it.

I have met more and more people, some of whom are close to me, but those who are trustworthy are true friends.

Ms. Qian from Changzhou, Jiangsu Province, was on night shift when her best friend stole her things.

In the middle of the trip, her best friend called her and asked her if she was at home. She didn't think much about it and told the truth "not".

After getting off work, she found that the lights were on at home. When she rushed upstairs, she found that her best friend was at her house and her things had been messed up.

Ms. Qian was so nervous that she hurriedly checked for important items, only to find that all the jewelry in her cabinet, plus 5,800 yuan in cash, were missing.

You can tolerate friends who cannot be trusted, but sooner or later you will feel cold.

Whether you choose to forgive or not is a personal choice, but once you see clearly that you can’t trust someone, don’t have any deep friendship with them.

Save your time and sincerity and leave it to people you can trust.

Some netizens said that they suddenly received an express delivery from a friend many years ago.

Above it are the delicate words: "This is the book you have always wanted. As soon as I saw it, I bought it for you."

She and her friends had nothing to say before. Regardless of talking, they both keep secrets for each other. Because in different cities, it was agreed that whoever finds a job first would treat the other person to dinner.

She thought it was just a joke, but when she found a job, her friend actually came all the way to have a meal.

Reading magazines together, she liked a certain editor's column very much, and especially hoped that he could publish a book by himself.

My friend also casually said that if that person published a book, he would definitely buy her a copy.

Now I am holding the book that was sent to me, and I am full of emotions.

We usually have our own things to do, and we haven’t seen each other for a long time. She has been to several companies, and her favorite writing styles are also very different, but the words between friends still remember each other.

Some people don’t have much contact with each other, but once they think about it, they go back to the past in an instant.

There is no fear or doubt, because we are reassured and care about each other.

You all know that the friendship we have had will never be forgotten.

When interacting with people you trust, you can take every word seriously and tell them every little thought.

With such a friend, you can open your heart as much as you can, and you won’t get tired of being together for as long as you want.

Reliable people are hard to come by, but once you find them, they are worth it and last a long time.

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Yang Lan was already very busy at work, but when she received the call, she immediately agreed: "No problem."

Within two days, she went to the ward with a large bouquet of flowers and gave her gave the old man a hug.

After delivering the flowers and brand-new Parker pen, she stayed and comforted the old man for a long time.

The old man was happy for several days, and He Dong also decided in his heart: Yang Lan is my best friend.

The relationship between friends is good, not just for gatherings and making jokes, but for him to be there when needed.

True friends are often very reliable.

Those who are reliable, no matter who they are friends with, can treat each other sincerely, and the relationship will be closer.

Everyone who knew Mei Yiqi during the Republic of China had a unified evaluation of him: reliable.

In the turbulent times, Tsinghua president changed frequently, but no one was willing to replace him, because the presence of Principal Mei meant peace of mind.

Hearing that his friend Zhao Yuanren was coming to teach, he personally rushed to the train station to pick him up and waited there on time.

When Wang Guowei committed suicide by throwing himself into a lake, Mei Yiqi endured her grief and carefully arranged his funeral arrangements.

When students participated in political movements, he immediately came forward to negotiate with them so that they could continue to study with peace of mind.

Although he looks dull, he is absolutely unambiguous in his work. There are celebrities and madmen in the school who all regard him as a friend or even a close friend.

A reliable person makes people feel at ease when they stand there.

Chi Li once said: "It's reliable. It's simple to say, but complicated to implement. It sounds like a feeling, but in practice it's a principle."

The older I get, the more I feel that my own affairs, In the end, you have to rely on yourself.

But in the vast sea of ????people, you can always meet one or two people who care about you and make you dare to rely on them.

They are not only emotionally intelligent, but also thoughtful.

Such a friend is worthy of you reaching out and responding to him with the same warmth.

Cheng Ying said in "The Legend of the Condor Heroes": "Look at these white clouds gathering and dispersing, dispersing and gathering again, just like the separation and separation in life."

We We have all encountered several unreliable relationships, but we are more willing to believe that the reliable people and relationships around us are worthy of our sincerity.

The best relationship is one where we understand each other, trust each other, rely on each other, and provide warmth to each other.

Even if we have less contact, we still miss each other, and even if we are noisy, we don’t mind.

Such a relationship is worth keeping in memories, and even more worth holding in the palm of your hand.

Click here to watch. In the future, you will be a reliable person, make reliable friends, and treat each other sincerely, which will be a reliable relationship.

Author | Zishan, a cute iron lady born in the 90s, with a pen that can turn into a knife and a smile on her face.

Pictures | Visual China