Indeed, as a man with a family, I think I can understand why the old man said such things.
I remember a big V derailed and made an excuse for himself. I didn't expect it to become a famous saying at once. Every normal man dreams of meeting an affair. This sentence is really good. Marriage is a responsibility and a constraint for men, but they have lost the right to love again. For men, the freshness of love is really hard to resist. When a beautiful young woman stood in front of them,
? But if a woman thinks that her charm can conquer a man and let him leave home for herself, I'm afraid it's still naive. There are many mistresses on TV who eventually break up each other's families, but this kind of plot is absolutely rare in reality.
First of all, a man who has an affair feels deeply guilty about his family. He is chic and happy outside, and his wife is at home guarding the home, taking care of the children and the elderly, doing filial piety for herself and taking care of the children. This will make a man feel defeated by his inner morality while considering divorce. He felt sorry for her already. Is it so cruel?
Secondly, if this man has children, it will be more difficult for him to get divorced. Children are the hope of life. Even if the relationship between this man and his wife breaks down, children are still a strong bond between them. After becoming a parent, you will know that the feelings parents pay for their children are not generally deep, and he can sacrifice everything for his children, including his own feelings. So, when you stand up and ask him for happiness, he may say, really.
At the same time, for a man, although the feelings outside marriage are beautiful, they are only a temporary novelty. Once this novelty is enough, men will always want to look back.
? When I love you, I am impulsive. However, after I love you, a man will regain his rationality, which is almost cruel. A man doesn't need to make too many comparisons to know which is more important, because a lover is a condiment to him, and life is too monotonous to be fresh. Therefore, this relationship has never been thought of forever, and only family can finally bring him back.
I remember a rich man in Hong Kong who chased flowers all day. The reporter interviewed his wife and asked her why she ignored him. His wife casually said that he would go home when he was tired of playing, and it was true. After several years, the old man was in poor health and quietly came back. After that, he never went out to play again. After calming down, men will find that what they need most is a seemingly monotonous family.
Therefore, don't love a man with a family, and don't let such feelings begin, because once they really start, it is the time when the injury begins.