Author·God’s Beloved
No matter where you are, your location must be a tiny corner of this world, no matter how many city trips you have taken , you definitely can’t visit every corner. The world is much bigger than we imagine. Different countries have different cultural backgrounds, and different regions have different customs. I really envy those who can travel once a year. Man, my envy does not mean that I am dissatisfied with the status quo, but staying in one place for a long time will inevitably form an inertia. The environment in front of us will limit our curiosity to explore the world, and also block our ability to open our horizons. sight.
Watching the world through my mobile phone every day, I can’t help but feel a lot of emotions. At the same time, I have a lot of thoughts. I am not worried about getting older day by day. What I am worried about is that I have not grown up spiritually and stayed in the same place. It's like sailing against the current. I won't complain about my ordinary background, but I'm afraid that I will settle for mediocrity, live a mediocre life, and grow old like this, doing nothing in my life.
There is a saying that I like very much: Take the method from the top, and you can only get the middle. The method is taken from the middle, so it is below. This means that if a person sets a very high goal, he may only be able to achieve a medium result. If he sets a medium-level goal, the final result may be the worst.
Looking at the general public, everyone is trying to survive at various stages of life. The period before the age of thirty is a period of confusion. During this period, many choices need to be made, such as which school to attend, what major to choose, What kind of job to do, what kind of person to choose to accompany them until old age, etc., people gradually figure out the path they want to take in the confusion, and outline the prelude of life.
The period after the age of thirty is a period of struggle. During this period, the basic framework and outline of life have taken shape. By the time they reach their thirties, most people have lost their childishness and begun to pursue career and family success. This period is the most important period in life. The shining period is also the most difficult period. Faced with a situation where there are seniors and juniors, dual responsibilities are placed on the shoulders of young people in the struggle period. However, I am very lucky (my time zone is later than others, and I have not yet Join this ranks) still enjoy an independent and free life, and at the same time also understand the meaning of growth. At this age, most people know what they want, cherish the little things in life, and love those around them more. of everything.
What the title says: The world is so big, I want to see it. I think it is everyone’s yearning. Everyone wants to reach the so-called poetry and distance. People living in the countryside always want to go there. In a big city, you want to experience the fast-paced life with tall buildings and busy traffic. You want to experience the convenient lifestyle and the unique atmosphere of the city.
People who live in the city are somewhat envious of the tranquility of the countryside. They envy that every household has its own space. In summer, they can freely grow fruits and vegetables, and they can eat green and fresh vegetables without any additives without paying. When you open the door, you can feel the rural atmosphere with the singing of birds and the fragrance of flowers. This feeling of a single house is something that people living in the building cannot understand, because outside the door is another family in addition to the corridor. Although the geographical location is very close, the inner feeling is The sense of boundaries is very strong (although every household in the countryside also has a clear sense of boundaries, but compared to the city, the relationship is closer).
In the past, I really envied people in the city. I even felt inferior to those who were born in the countryside. But later I gradually discovered that this is a distorted view. Both those who were born in the countryside and those in the city are equal and do not exist. The essential difference is that those who think they are unequal are arrogant and prejudiced, and are self-righteous ideas created by an innate sense of superiority.
I think everyone has watched "The Longing for Life". After watching it, it really made me love my living environment even more. I have to say that the scenery where the shooting was taken is beautiful, but at the same time I also feel that my family is not very backward, and it is not the kind of simplicity that people who can’t get on the stage want to escape from. I see many celebrities experiencing life there, and I feel very lucky, because I have almost never experienced the farm work. (Thanks My parents gave me a comfortable growing environment with their hard-working hands. They have always raised me like a princess. My father said that I do not belong to a rural child because I have been studying outside these years and I should not get married in the future. Staying in the countryside is actually quite good. You can cook at home without a fire, and you have gas, rice cookers, ovens, juicers, washing machines, freezers, computers, TVs, etc. Rural areas are no longer what people think. It looks great. Except for some hardware facilities that are not as good as those in the city, the experience is still OK. However, if you want to get married, going to the city is also great. Living in one place all the time may lead to aesthetic fatigue.
Now the country’s policies are getting better and better. The streets in rural areas are basically suet roads. They are no longer the muddy situation they used to be. With the gradual deepening of rural management, they have been refined to The level of street hygiene and air quality makes it very pleasant to walk on the road. The street to the right of my house has street lights all the way to the church, and they are solar powered. When I went for dental treatment last year, the dentist picked me up and dropped me off, and I saw the face of the countryside. He sighed: The countryside is getting better now! I unconsciously raised the corners of my mouth and smiled knowingly.
It’s just that I’m very curious and want to go out and see the world and gain some knowledge. Although I can enjoy the beautiful scenery of many cities by turning on my mobile phone, it is too limited after all. Although reading is a journey of the soul, Traveling is a reading of the soul, but if you don’t actually go out and feel it, you still won’t be able to appreciate the actual feeling of traveling. The advantage of traveling is that as you travel further and see more, your whole person will become more transparent and temperamental. Conversations will change accordingly. We all have dreams and goals in life. This goal can be big or small, and it varies from person to person. After I clearly positioned myself, I found that there is only one goal that can be achieved, and that is to make myself To become better and better, whether it is through reading or traveling, I have to give myself the ability to deal with the ins and outs of life, and live my life more calmly and calmly.
I sincerely appreciate those who have seen the world. Many things that make us feel crazy seem so ordinary in the eyes of those who have seen the world. That kind of calmness with a smile is like reading a book. , a strong aura engraved in one's bones brought by the road traveled, famous brand cosmetics and clothing can make a person look very attractive on the outside, but the charming temperament exuded by a person on the inside is something that has been read Books are cultivated bit by bit along the way.
Only when people realize how big the world is, will they know how small they are. Only when they are close to the edge of knowledge will they realize that what they know is only the tip of the iceberg. Only when they look at it objectively Only when you are exposed to everything around you can you have a sense of awe towards life. Only when you learn to think from other people’s perspective can you understand that it is not easy for everyone. Only when you get along with everyone with a humble heart can you see the beauty in everyone. Only when we are willing to broaden our horizons and open our narrow minds can we respect everyone's way of life. We only see their actions, but we don't Knowing what they have gone through, everyone is the same. Who we are today is the sum of all our past experiences. Everyone deserves to be respected.
Maybe the environment around me and the RMB in my wallet do not allow me to travel, but I can explore the world in other ways. A person’s life is the process of exploring the world and understanding oneself. There are many places , I have never been, I have not been exposed to many fields, and I have not tasted many delicacies. Fortunately, after graduation, I have always maintained my ambition to learn, as well as my curiosity and enthusiasm for the world. Although I don’t read much, But I still have an attitude of learning, and I like Socrates' famous saying: I only know one thing, and that is that I know nothing, so the "world" is so big, I want to see it.