Give some advice to people with soft personalities.
Change personality weakness through subconscious training and deliberate practice.
1, with good expression management. Don't giggle awkwardly to cater to others.
2, learn not to explain. Don't explain everything to others, lest they misunderstand.
Don't tell anyone before you succeed in doing something.
4. When things go wrong, be independent and dare to express your thoughts and needs.
I have a strong sense of rejection and inferiority, and feel that I can't do anything well.
6. Feeling insecure in front of the public. Eat, go to the toilet, finish class, get off work ..... Everyone is very busy, so it is important to learn to be alone.
7, refused to please personality, centered on the opinions of others.
8. Don't dodge when talking to people and looking at each other.
9. Learn to find topics when socializing, warm up and enliven the atmosphere.
10, often learned to be cheeky. Don't promise others unconditionally because you are thin-skinned and worried that others will think you are stingy.
1 1, and don't take the initiative to help, too enthusiastic, not hot face and cold ass.
12, don't think about it after sleeping and closing your eyes at night. Many times the pain is because we think too carefully about the problem.
13, two empty cups, reaching the state of no self. Don't always think about yourself when expressing, think about what you want to express.
14, write a success diary. Write down what you have successfully gained every week to cultivate your self-confidence.
15, often ask less. Always asking others questions will give people a feeling of "being bullied" without a definite view.
16, people have a sense of boundaries. The coquettish and fragile side can only be displayed on those who love you, and it will only make people feel weak on others.
17, learn patience. If the other person puts your dignity on the ground without a bottom line and tramples on it again and again, we must learn to go back, so that others will not let you do it again.
18, learn Tibetan, don't talk shallow, don't talk much.
19, and don't bend over when walking, hold your head high and look forward to improve your temperament.
20. Don't expect too much from your partner. Lower expectations and stay away from sensitive physique.
2 1, learn to be decisive and refuse to be indecisive.
22. Read appropriate books, cultivate a strong heart and reduce blushing and stage fright.
23, more contact with new things. Most soft-hearted people feel insecure when they come to new places and come into contact with strange things.
24, too concerned about other people's evaluation, life is not your own.
25. Stay away from negative energy and make friends with optimistic people.
26. Put on your favorite clothes and appropriate clothes bravely.
27. Make positive psychological suggestion, refuse to be emotional, and stay away from the constitution of tears incontinence.
28. If you don't think twice, you will lose. People can be patient and carefree. When you are upset, stay quietly, learn to heal yourself and learn to be strong.
29. What you are afraid of is often what you need to do. Do what you are afraid of, and you won't be afraid.
30. The county focuses on making money. Have food in your hand, but don't panic in your heart. Cary is rich, walks with wind, and has no weakness in character.