Love and life are a pair of balanced bodies, and touching love is a tragedy. But the competition between the two is not good, comparable to divorce. Some people know that they will call again in a few days. Why? If you are good, you must balance it with war. After that, it will be balanced. But in good times, you are unhappy, you are not sad when there are contradictions, and you fail to live up to expectations, which means that you are neither good nor bad, but you have just lived this life flatly. Husband and wife are a pair of gears, you are convex and concave, and you are concave and convex. Generally, if the husband is particularly extroverted, the wife promises to be introverted and doesn't like to go anywhere; If you are particularly eloquent, your husband should be silent, silent everywhere, and make sure that you can balance; If you are particularly capable, your husband promises not to do anything, because you have finished all the work, and you represent them both; If you care about face, what's your husband's role? Those who hurt your face are all for your balance. So husband and wife are a pair of gears, but if your advantages are the same as his, it will be in trouble, and the shortcomings will all go to the children.

If the husband and wife are particularly extroverted, the children will be particularly introverted and extremely introverted; If both husband and wife want to be particularly frugal, the children will be particularly wasteful to balance you, which is even worse. Most couples are one-sided and one-sided. Before they got married, they were not like this. After marriage, I promise to get the opposite of you. Different people have different marriage personalities. Some people marry you in this character, and marry others in that character, because there is a process of self-adjustment of mentality. But most people have their own advantages and want others to have them, and also want others to have their own good places. Then he has your advantages at the same time, and then his tooth collapses. Can you bite if it is convex? Then it is not a gear. You see many celebrities marry celebrities, why are there so few good ones? Because of broken teeth, why do many capable husbands find less capable wives? This is also called cooperation. If two people can do it, it means divorce. After divorce, it means inviting trouble. This is the so-called source of Pepsi. Why do many great men never divorce? He knows that divorce consumes other blessings. Some men take the initiative to divorce, divorce, and then their careers go downhill again and again. You try, in today's society, have you ever had a particularly good divorce? If there is, career will punish you cruelly. But often the life of passive divorce is good, and passive divorce depends on whether you are angry or resentful. Some people are angry and hate their guts. Some people divorced passively, but they didn't get angry after grief, and their fate improved quickly, which made her business start to turn around. Husband and wife are in the same boat, he is trying to balance your use, so you must cherish the teacher of husband and wife.

If you balance yourself with your lover at home, you will easily get over this hurdle. If you want to avoid the lover's obstacle, you should balance you with children. If the child's barrier is not enough, you can use the unit leader to balance you. Many people quarrel with their lovers, and it is when your career is not smooth after the quarrel. It turns out that love is also balanced, one positive and one negative. In the past, ordinary couples could last forever, but they didn't know each other seriously, they were not excited when they got married, and their lives were dull. Such a couple can last forever. People are different now, they are pursuing love, and they have exhausted the wonderful life in advance. What awaits you is pain and divorce. Pursuing love and having fun is equivalent to consuming happiness in the next few decades. It consumes blessings.

Why did Zhuge Liang say, "An ugly wife is close to home." He knows that half of his advantages come from his wife, because his wife's ugliness makes him good. Many great men's wives are not beautiful Why? Because an ugly wife can help her lover succeed in his career, he can find a beautiful wife, and he may not succeed after finding a career. Must be tolerant, even the lover is not tolerant, then how can I do it? Some people say that love is not good when they are free. This question that question even belittles one's lover and forgets the benefits. Can you always hold on to people's shortcomings? Love makes you love her, but your heart won't move.

Some couples, you are good to your husband, and your husband is not good to you. Many people don't know this truth. You are good to your husband, run him well. At this time, she knew that "being a good person is not good." What do you mean you're wrong? Passing is wrong, there is no distinction between good and evil, so it is called "wrong". Passing the ball is wrong. If you want to be nice to each other, they will be upset and panic. If you are nice to each other, they will even go out and find one. It is good to become better, the competition is not good, and it is good to be flat.

Too much happiness leads to divorce. If you are both kind to each other, the disaster will be even greater. Therefore, in the past, old people often said that it is difficult for a good couple to grow old together, and even one of them will die young. It is not good to be too competitive. If you go east and he goes west, it will also lead to divorce.

There was a lesbian whose husband found a young woman outside. As a result, the woman had to kill her husband and die with him. She asked me, "I am so kind to him, why is my husband like this?" I said I'll help you find the cause and effect first. "You two were so happy when you were in love and so proud after you got married, weren't you?" She said, "Yes, we were really handsome at that time. Everyone envies us and has a good life. " I said, "At this time, the good will lay the groundwork for the bad." I said the second, "Have you ever said before that you don't care about other people's styles?" "Yes, I am particularly disgusted with that kind of person." This time, I'll invite one to your house when I hate it. Nature arranged for a young lady to accompany your husband to buy food, touched his shoulder and left. You hate it, then recruit one. I said, "Have you ever liked being quiet? This time it's completely clean, another cause and effect. I said, "Are you unable to cooperate with others at work? Are you disgusted with some gay men? "You hate gay men, you should leave him. This is also a cause and effect, becoming your husband to balance you. If you annoy others, they will leave you. " Did you two break the ice during the war? "You said," I have had bad blood with you in my life. I am superfluous to you. Will you regret it later? "I said you don't have to regret this time, your wish has finally come true, so be practical." Oh, I told you, complaining can also balance me? "Why are you complaining? Say nothing. Nothing? Say goodbye, cut off the back road, this is the fundamental balance, so everyone should be taboo! Love is balance.

Why do some families, marriages that parents don't agree with, generally live well? Aren't parents arranged by Buddha to give lectures? In fact, this is a sign that there is a big bump here, but you don't understand. What was the result? My parents didn't agree to the marriage, and life was not smooth afterwards. I was embarrassed to tell my parents. I tried to hold back my laughter. The more I suppressed this energy, the bigger the field, and suddenly broke out to a certain extent, and the divorce could not be closed. How to crack this kind of thing? There is also a method called excretion to let the other person vent.

How to vent? For example, a couple said that my parents didn't approve of my marriage. We have always been uncomfortable and unhappy, and we dare not tell my mother when we go back, because my mother didn't agree to our marriage at that time. In fact, this is relatively simple to handle. I said that when you go back, you will say that she (the other party) is not in front of your parents, scolding her and joking, which is false. As a result, he went back and said to his parents, "I really regret not listening to you at that time." I'm a bad lover, not a thing. I suffer with her every day, "said how she is not a person and so on. In fact, what you said is lies and calmness. Let parents vent this energy field, because parents don't know how to participate. This is called excretion. As a result, as soon as parents listened, the fire came up. "I told you the first time I met her that she was not a thing." When parents scold, they echo, feeling that the field is leaking and the external energy field is leaking. At this time, he can go back to life with peace of mind, which is equivalent to draining the gathered energy field, so it is not immutable. At the same time, I have to participate in it myself. I had to confess to my parents at that time. My parents don't agree, but I shouldn't compete with them, which is equivalent to solving the problem. The disaster of marriage can be solved.

? All kinds of marriage contradictions are actually balanced.

Of course, if a gay man is looking outside, his career will decline and there will be disaster. If you can really forgive your husband, he can really turn back. If you really cross-reference, it is equivalent to destroying the cause and effect and making your chess pieces unbalanced. In fact, all fate and diseases are born from the heart, and of course they can also be destroyed by the heart. All laws are born from the heart, and all laws are turned at will. If the method is not centrifugation, centrifugation is false. In love, no matter whether you have any problems, setbacks or contradictions, you should always be happy when you are in love. No matter who you compete with in this life, you must participate. Why are you struggling with your parents and unit leaders and falling in love is not smooth? This kind of power must be reflected back, because it is relatively exhausted, that is, reflected to one's own destiny, and at the same time reflected to the body, forming diseases. To be sure, this cause and effect is not empty.

Therefore, participating in these two items will contribute to family happiness and sweet love. Looking back on past happiness means that I shouldn't be happy, that happiness never happened, that I didn't consume my happiness, that I gave it back to myself, that I got rid of sadness, because there is always sadness when there is happiness. Participating in competition is to ease the competition of others. You are more energetic than others, and others are more energetic than you. Your happiness is also sad, and so is your competition. Remember that neither side is good, only the middle is the best. After participating, it will be easier for people to move closer to the middle. How can a lover always embarrass himself? Just attend first. I should not save face. If you want to save face, it's normal for someone to hurt your face, and I'll take part in saving face. Meanwhile, the more you despise him, the more he despises you. I shouldn't despise others. The more you look down on others, the more your lover will look at you, and others will look at you, which is equivalent to increasing this piece in turn. My lover is always silent, and he always ignores me. How should I participate? First of all, you should not be too talkative. If you talk too much, what did he say? So I shouldn't say too much. I also want to ignore others. I shouldn't ignore others. If you ignore others, arrange an important person to ignore you to balance you.

People drink boiled water back and forth: it's really cool to wear, it's really cool to wear so many things, it's better to wear cotton cloth or coarse cloth; I still eat rice and vegetables. At the worst time, you still eat old rice porridge and old dishes, which are extremely gorgeous and eventually return to dullness; After sleeping comfortably, I found that it was still very difficult to pull the bed, and everything should be restored to its original state. Therefore, Taoism says that returning to the park is primitive and returning to the park is returning to the baby.