Rejection is a right, just as survival is a right. The ancients said, you can't do anything unless you do something. This kind of "inaction" is rejection. People often think that rejection is a forced defense, but they don't know that it is an active choice. In our life, the probability of choosing to refuse is much greater than the probability of choosing to agree. Because life only belongs to us once, to achieve a unique life, we need to find a unique flower path in thousands of roads. We decided to "one" and rejected 999. Although we walk together, we are friends for life. We don't live in rejection all the time, and its frequency is far more frequent than we think. When you wear red clothes, you refuse all clothes except red. You chose to study this morning, that is, you refused to sing and dance, to visit and travel, to chat with friends, to negotiate with your opponents ... and to dominate other possibilities this time. Your lunch is steamed bread and stir-fry, and your stomach is equivalent to solemnly declaring that it is insulated from rice, jiaozi, pies and various soups. No matter how hard you try, it's futile, because its volume is limited. When you choose the profession of lawyer, there is no doubt that you have rejected the title of architect. Perhaps a century ago, the same land could be interplanted, and intelligent people with extraordinary energy could easily attack in many directions. With the development of modern society, all trades need the full efforts of practitioners. Unless you are extremely talented, the greatest possibility of doing it at the same time is to fail in both aspects. When you identify a man or woman as a life partner, you flatly reject hundreds of millions of men or women in the world. Maybe they are more determined and better, but refusing means canceling. Rejection is rejection, which makes you once and for all. Rejection makes you turn your back, which gives you freedom and deprives you of more freedom. Rejection is a one-way channel. As soon as the gate was opened, the river washed away and there was no turning back. Rejection is so important to us that we grow and move forward in rejection. If you don't refuse, you can't successfully cross life. The essence of rejection is a negative choice. When we refuse, we tend to be too hasty. In the days when we can easily refuse, we wasted time timidly and hesitantly. We put off refusing, and we are afraid of refusing. We compare rejection to the last stop in a dilemma. Whenever possible, we hide in the sand like ostriches. I don't know when we choose to refuse, we should be calm and comprehensive, and have enough time to analyze the pros and cons and consequences. Rejection should be a mature berry after careful consideration, not a forced sour grape. The essence of rejection is a kind of loss. Compared with gentle and enthusiastic praise, it reflects the cold effort and the crispness of hitting the floor, which requires decisive judgment and courage to walk the line. If you refuse money, you will stick to poverty all your life. You refused to have fun, so you went on a vegetarian trip to the end of the world. If you refuse your parents, you may become a drifting boat, hanging alone overseas. If you refuse the teacher, you may be expelled from your old school and die. You refuse the help of a powerful person, who may oppose you and leave rapids and dangerous beaches on your journey. You turned down the favor of a well-connected woman. She may hide a knife in her smile and stab you all over in an unexpected moment. Your rejection of the boss may symbolize parting ways with a bright future. You turned down an opportunity, and it will never come back to visit you, leaving you with lifelong regret. ..... Rejection is not as pleasant as choice, and its rigorous coat wraps our unexpected wind knife and frost sword. Just like a kind of strong liquor with full stamina, it makes us dizzy in the long night. So we instinctively fear rejection. We are silent when we should say "no" countless times, and we procrastinate when we should refuse. At the moment when we postpone the rejection, the cold volume of dream rejection will gradually shrink or even disappear with the passage of time. Unfortunately, this is just our kindness, and the real situation is often counterproductive. We refused because we had to. If you don't refuse, things that should have been rejected, like cauliflower cancer, are thriving and infiltrating into our lives, and it is more difficult to treat every day. Rejection is bitter, but it is temporary pain, and after the pain, it is calm. Not refusing is forbearance, and there is a knife in your heart. There is a limit to patience. At that moment, time was delayed and more pain and trouble were gained. Rejection is a test of one's courage and mind. Our refusal will hurt some people. Just like the spring breeze will blow away the red, sometimes it is a constant need. If we never refuse, we won't hurt others, but we hurt someone closer to ourselves, and that is ourselves. The taste of rejection is not delicious. When we summon up the courage to refuse, we are accompanied by depression, a feeling that our soul is squeezed, which lingers for a long time. Afraid of this unspeakable feeling, we intentionally or unintentionally reduced the rejection. In all the decisions in life, rejection is a destructive and irreversible behavior. This feature determines that we need to be extra calm and cautious when refusing. However, once rejected, it is like a broken milk cup, which can never be taken back. It is frozen in our footsteps. Whether it is right or not, there is no need to stay in the same place for a long time. There is nothing wrong with refusing. What is responsible is the judgment we make before refusing. Don't be afraid to refuse, we just need to make a more careful decision. Rejection is a simplification, and rejection is a relaxation. Rejection is a kind of wisdom, and rejection is a truth. When interests dazzle you like a kaleidoscope, you will blur your vision in the chaos. Try to refuse. You have rejected the people and things you least like, and your true love is like a rock at low tide, waiting for you to climb. When you complain that time is like a cake divided by countless knives, you can't find your own cream flower anymore, try to refuse. You refuse everything you can and can't do. Time is like water in a wet towel, squeezed out drop by drop. When you find that life contains too much distress, which is close to the limit that one can bear and the mood is on the verge of collapse, try to refuse. You may find that you didn't dare to refuse before because you were afraid of causing trouble. But on the contrary, refusal, like a huge comb, quickly straightened out the chaotic days and made the sky clear again. When you are dazzled by the days of spinning like a top and forget where you came from and where you are going, try to refuse. You will be surprised to find yourself awake from the complicated packaging, arouse the childlike innocence that has withered for a long time, and sigh that each of us is a son of nature. Rejection is like a broken arm, and the old love no longer hurts. Rejection is like a wild rush, pregnant with lonely walking. Rejection is sometimes an elegy, echoing with lingering sadness. Rejection is a kind of courage to burn one's bridges, a kind of spirit to face dripping blood and bleak life. You can't refuse too much. Rejecting everything fundamentally rejects everyone's once brilliant life. Exercise the right of refusal wisely and bravely. This is the birthright of each of us, and this is the white sail of the boat of our will.