Don’t have big disputes with others, don’t get angry and fight. Don't stress and don't traumatize yourself too much. Do what you think is right while ensuring your own safety. Just like a famous saying, "Your kindness must also have the edge it deserves." It is common to treat others kindly. If someone bullies others, the so-called kindness will only encourage the other person's evil deeds and hurt more innocent people. Appropriate means must be used. Even there is an angry-eyed Vajra in front of the Buddha. True kindness is an act that is beneficial to more people, rather than sticking to the superficial form of kindness.