It is the only way for everyone to face setbacks. If God is going to demote himself to a great position, he must first suffer his mind and work hard for his bones and muscles. If you can grow up in setbacks, understand in setbacks, and laugh at life in setbacks, then you are a brave spokesperson.
in the face of setbacks, we need to grow.
Every setback is an experience. Don't regard it as a plague. What can't beat you will eventually achieve you. He can help you grow. When we read every martial arts novel, we know that the protagonist has finally become an admirable hero in the Jianghu after 9981 experiences. It can be said that it is setbacks that make the hero grow.
in the face of setbacks, we can see the true face of the world.
Every setback is a challenge, from which we can learn new knowledge, understand new truths and see a new person clearly. The world before us is brighter. As Lu Xun said, "Who fell into poverty from a well-off family? I thought that on this way, I could probably see the true face of the world." In the face of setbacks, it is the time when some ghosts and monsters show their true colors. It is these setbacks that have made Lu Xun a great writer.
in the face of setbacks, we should be calm.
When facing setbacks, we are not calm enough, only impulsive and complaining. At this time, maybe we become a crazy beast. Although it looks scary, it doesn't help things. We should seriously sum up the problems and find solutions to avoid recurrence.
in the face of setbacks, we should seek help.
In the face of setbacks, it is best not to bear it alone, especially for some underage children, to seek the help of adults in time. Let them provide solutions, don't be boastful, and think that they can solve them well. Sometimes asking for help is also an ability.
My experience
Like when I was growing up, I faced many setbacks, such as failing the college entrance examination, which made me fall into the abyss and felt that I had lost all my efforts and lost face in front of my classmates. But I bravely broke through myself and fought again, and finally got a better result. Also, when I was working, I was treated unfairly by my boss. I also bravely defended my rights and interests and didn't let people with evil intentions succeed.
In fact, every setback makes me realize my life and further improve my ability. For example, I learned to settle down when I was repeating, and I also realized that my defect was that I was too nervous during the exam. In addition, I also know that my strength is not enough to get into a very good school, so I have to redouble my efforts.
In fact, one thing we should think clearly is that everyone will encounter unhappy things and setbacks. We should not think that fate is unfair or unlucky, but think about how to solve the problem and the reasons for it. Only when we are aware of our own problems in time can we foster strengths and avoid weaknesses and reach a higher level as soon as possible.