Pay attention to teaching children how to behave. The essence of traditional Chinese tutoring is to focus on teaching children how to behave. The family rules, family training, and family norms regarding family education in China throughout the ages have all focused on teaching children how to be a good person; all loving fathers and mothers in history have been praised by the world for teaching their children how to be a good person. In the middle of the Northern Song Dynasty, Bao Zheng paid special attention to the moral education of future generations in view of the corrupt society at that time. In his later years, he asked a stonemason to set up his family motto: "The descendants of future generations of officials who commit corruption and abuse shall not be allowed to return to this family. After death, they shall not be buried in a large tomb. If they do not follow my aspirations, they are not my sons or grandsons." ." Engraved on the stele, set the stele on the east wall of the hall, so that descendants can always observe it and strictly abide by it. In his later years, Emperor Taizong of the Tang Dynasty had a premonition that he would not have much time left, so he carefully summarized the governance experience of various dynasties in history, especially the Sui Dynasty, and wrote twelve chapters of "Emperor Model", which he passed on to Prince Li Zhi. He said to Li Zhi: "The methods of self-cultivation and the way of governing the country are all described in this book. I don't need to make other last words when I die." Taizong also warned: "It is very difficult to succeed in building a country. It is easy to be ruined; it is harder to maintain a stable throne, but it is very easy to lose it. You must cherish it and be careful!" The ancients not only regarded morality as the focus of family education, but also required their children to be independent. Spirit. Wang Dan, the Prime Minister of the Northern Song Dynasty, never owned a farm or house in his life. He said: "Children should want to be self-reliant. Why bother with a farm and house? It is unjust for others to compete for wealth!" Guan Banqiao, a painter of the Qing Dynasty, did not have a son until he was 52 years old, but he had strict requirements for his son. Put forward the tutoring principle of "first, be sensible and be a good person". When he died, he left a suicide note to his son: "Sweat your own sweat, eat your own food, do your own business, rely on heaven, earth, and ancestors

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The famous ancient Greek educator and philosopher Plato has a famous saying: "Where a person's education guides him from childhood can determine where he goes later." He advocated that through stories, poems, Drama, history, oratory, and technical music are used to teach young people and "edify their souls." He believes that the content of stories and poems should be able to cultivate young people to be "gentle and brave" and to develop "the virtue of self-control". The 17th-century British thinker John Locke (1632-1704) advocated "gentleman education" for young people, and he paid most attention to moral education. He said: "I think among the various qualities of a gentleman, virtue is the first and most indispensable." It can be seen from the introduction that tutoring in ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad, has focused on teaching children to be a good person, and it is also the key to successful tutoring. One of the most important lessons.

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