If you don't believe me, look at the wine at the banquet. Let's toast the rich first. Tie a tall horse to the door, not for kissing, but for kissing.
Put a begging stick in front of the door to keep relatives and friends away. It takes gold to make friends in the world, not too much or too deep.
Even if you make a promise temporarily, you will always have a long way to go. Money and wine have made many brothers, so I haven't seen anyone in an emergency.