The main reasons why children are not gregarious are

1. The impact of the one-child policy. In the past, most children in many families were only children, and the only children they usually came into contact with were family members. Although children who were not gregarious could not be said to have any disease. But it prevents them from adapting to the environment and learning new knowledge. It will be difficult for such children to cooperate with others and adapt to the needs of social development when they grow up.

2. Bad environment. For example: Many children are taken care of by nannies. If the nanny does not like to go out or talk, the children will also be adversely affected. They like to stay at home and play by themselves and rarely go out. As time goes by, you will inevitably lack experience in interacting with people. Such children also do not socialize in crowded places.

3. Improper parenting methods. For example, when the children were young, they rarely took them out to play. When the children are a little older, they are worried that the outside air is not good and will affect their health. As a result, the child is afraid of strangers and strange children.

4. Many parents dote on their children too much when their children are at home, and everything depends on their children’s temperament. But if you do this in kindergarten, you will definitely be rejected by other children. Over time, these children will no longer fit in with others.

5. Psychological depression and family misfortune. Parents are emotionally discordant or the family suffers setbacks, resulting in children who are withdrawn and unwilling to accept others. Lack of family warmth, improper parental education, etc. This will lead to imperfect character development from an early age. Such people are closed-minded and generally unwilling or hate interpersonal communication and teamwork. Slowly these people will become less and less gregarious.

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Parents’ solutions to children who are not sociable

1. Parents can take their children to places with many children frequently and let them bring more toys. , and assigned by him to other children to play with. This will allow other children to like or take the initiative to play with the child.

2. Encourage children to play with children of similar age. Parents can invite children from kindergarten to visit their homes. When children have a dispute over a toy, encourage them to find a solution on their own.

3. Parents can teach their children some social skills. For example: when you want to play with a child's toys, say 'Can I borrow your toys for a while?', 'I have a big car and you have a long gun, let's play interchangeably', etc.

4. If your neighbor’s children go to the same kindergarten as your own, let them go together, because this will create opportunities for the children to make good friends.

5. Parents can help other children play games. You can participate first and act like you are having fun. This will attract the child and make them interested in the game and they will gradually want to participate.