Reminder:
If you have any mental troubles outside, don't hide them and don't be afraid of being complained. It's never a bad thing for a person to have a sophomore or teenager to give advice.
Attitude towards achievement:
Your performance in playing the piano made us very happy. For parents, we don't have to be afraid of being praised. Just analyze the weaknesses at the same time and tell us the shortcomings that others have not said but feel. Reporting people's praise to us is your greatest comfort; But at the same time, we should also deeply review our own shortcomings. In this way, your letter will not seem excessive; And this kind of self-critical kung fu is like a mirror, which is of great help to you. Writing down your thoughts is completely different from daydreaming in your head. Writing down requires correct and precise thinking, so introspection written on paper is particularly profound and impressive for yourself.
About sensibility:
Often feel fast, immersed in not deep, can't last long. ..... Don't let your new feelings float on the surface of your feelings, carefully analyze how the new feelings are different from your original thoughts and emotional expressions.
Playing the piano can't just rely on feelings and emotions. Those psychological effects are too changeable. ..... need to be rationally combed and summarized, so that you can be deeply integrated into your mind and become a part of your personality.
Artists are naturally sensitive. Changing a place, a group of people and a spiritual atmosphere will unconsciously change your temperament and expression, but the most important thing is that the best and best part of your mind, the essence you have learned from others, should be firmly grasped and deeply planted in your character, which will remain unchanged no matter when and where.
About personal feelings:
Try to control your feelings and move them into art. There are too many beautiful angels around you, and I'm afraid you can't hold them anymore. Don't forget, you swore to be a Puritan for several years, to live a monk's life in a few years of love between men and women, and to live an abstinence life for several years! This must remind yourself ~ always beware of yourself! Everything should wake up early, and tents should be collected early; Don't let your enthusiasm soar and then suppress it. It will be more painful and less effective.
About courtesy and etiquette:
Be polite to the west. The scarf must be taken off in the cloakroom with the coat, and it should also be taken off when the coat is not worn. It is more impolite to put your hands in your upper pocket than in your trouser pocket.
For polite people, or teachers, or old people, when you speak, your hands should be vertical and people should stand up straight.
When you don't hold a knife and fork in your hand at the dining table, you should also put the knife and fork flat on the table.
When saluting or taking a curtain call, the facial expression should be gentle, ... This has a lot to do with the mood of the masses, so we should pay attention to it in time. As long as you don't worry, calm down and your expression will naturally be gentle.
You should not only learn music, but also absorb the strengths of others in actions, attitudes and manners.
Talking about the old father:
I hope you can start from your feelings and appreciate my pains; At the same time, we should also think that as long as it is the truth and a real lesson, whether it comes from parents, friends or strangers, we should accept it.
On Fu Cong s Too Easy-going Temper;
It's easier for foreigners, and sometimes it's best to just say: I have something to do, or I want to write a letter home. Artists especially need meditation. Always in the crowd, there will be a lack of opportunities for reflection; Thoughts, feelings and feelings can't be well sorted out and summarized.
About depression in Fu Cong:
People's lives are ups and downs in high tides and low tides, and only mediocre people can live like stagnant water; Or you must have a high level of self-cultivation in order not to be tired and truly free. As long as the climax doesn't make you nervous and the low tide doesn't make you decadent, there is no problem.
Cultivate another kind of mood to deal with the past: be able to think, don't be thrilling, analyze the cause and effect from an objective standpoint, and learn from the future to avoid repeating the same mistakes. Only when one dares to face up to reality, mistakes, rational analysis and thorough understanding can one not be eroded by memories.
About the content of music:
Students themselves must first have conditions: it is futile for people who have no brains to be instructed by famous teachers. Except music, isn't it? )
About the game:
"I'll try my best", and leave the rest to fate. The spirit is relaxed and the effect is good.
About the nervousness of practicing piano at ordinary times;
Art itself is very exciting, so don't be too nervous when practicing. Life is limited, energy is limited. We should take a long-term view and run the marathon well.
For artistic accomplishment and self-control:
The thought of China's philosophy and the ideal of Buddhism are to be able to control feelings, not to let them control.
Art is fire, and artists don't cry.
I said to Ender the day before yesterday: "Music mainly uses your brain to clearly distinguish your vague feelings ... When you understand, your realm is very clear, and then your skills will follow."
Uncle Zhou talked about reading poetry the day before yesterday and said ... you must recite it, and your feelings will only become turbid. I think this is very insightful. Poetry reading is still like this, let alone playing the piano!
Young people don't understand the words on earth. It would be useless to read this book if there were not hundreds of poems and dozens of words in my stomach first. ..... Personally, I think Tales on Earth is the best literary criticism in the history of China. Carry forward the spirit, this book is equal to a golden key.
I always think that the most important thing is to develop a "person" as much as possible, learn to be a man first, and then get married. Otherwise, no matter how clever that family is, it won't make much contribution to mankind.