Being able to bend and stretch is the best strategy! Of course, there must be principles in both flexion and extension! You must have your own opinion on big things, but you can be free on small etiquette and small details. Han Xin willingly suffered the humiliation of his crotch, and finally made a comeback, losing small details and eventually becoming a big deal. Wang Jingwei surrendered to the enemy and judged the country. He had no moral integrity and will be infamy for thousands of years! Those who are strong will not be allowed to die, and those who are eager to win will meet their enemies

Laozi quoted this inscription from the Zhou Dynasty Jinding in the Tao Te Ching, "Those who are strong will not be allowed to die, and I will be your godfather", and He put forward the idea that "the weak overcomes the strong", that is, "the tongue or the teeth are stronger". Under normal circumstances, when people live to be over 50 years old, their teeth begin to fall out one after another, but the tongue is not damaged.

The most famous story in history is "Han Xin endured the humiliation under his crotch", and finally returned to his hometown and forgave him.

"Water Margin" written by Shi Naian in the Ming Dynasty is a household name. It interprets the thirty-six generals of the Tiangang Star and the seventy-two generals of the Earthly Star ranked by seniority in Liangshan Juyi Hall. How many of these 108 generals finally died well? , basically in line with the wise saying "the strong man shall not die".

Not to mention, in recent times, a few people who have committed evil crimes have been able to escape the law's dragnet, but in the end they have all been punished by the law, and they rarely have peace of mind throughout their lives.

It can be seen from this that in the world of martial arts, people still have to abide by the law of "a small impatience will mess up a big plan", kill the intention and cause harm at a distance, and cannot lose the big because of the small, and do things that are harmful to nature and evil in an instant. There is no small matter in the world. Once you are involved in a lawsuit, you will have to deal with it and end up following the footsteps of the 108 generals in "Water Margin"!

I believe that toughness and tolerance are both important for people to survive in society, and both are indispensable. The reasons are as follows: First of all, when you are bullied by others, you cannot just tolerate it. You must be tough when you should be tough.

Too much tolerance will only make you look weaker, and will also make the bad guys arrogant and bully you even more. When faced with bullying by bad people, you must fight back forcefully under the premise of being legal and reasonable, in order to protect your legitimate interests and honor, and to protect your body and mind from harm! Secondly, when getting along peacefully with family, relatives, friends, and colleagues, tolerance is more important as long as there are no conflicts!

Tolerance will make you appear gentler, more considerate, more winning, and more lovable! If you are more tolerant when getting along with your family, relatives, friends, and colleagues on the premise that there is no conflict, when you encounter difficulties in your family, life, work, or making friends, your family, relatives, friends, and colleagues will Great help! Your life or work or dating will be smooth sailing! You will be happier in life! It will be easier for you at work! You'll be happier when making friends! In short, toughness and tolerance are both important for people to survive in society. You must be tough when you should be tough, and you must be tolerant when you should be tolerant.

Being tough will make you more isolated and disgusting! Blindly tolerating will make you weaker and even more contemptible!