? Many people will feel that there is a person who can rely on and support themselves, so there is no need to work too hard. As a child, you fantasize about relying on your parents, but your parents will leave this world before you one day. Parents can manage you for the rest of your life at most, and you have to rely on yourself for the rest of your life. Many things in life, such as exams, such as finding the other half, still depend on your own strength, and parents can't do much to help. Being a wife and husband means that husband and wife can depend on each other, but the ancients said that it seems heartless but extremely true. Husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and they will fly separately in the face of disaster. In reality, those who give up their careers and become full-time housewives often have no independence in personality because they have lost their independent financial resources. If they meet someone who is unlucky and betrayed by love rat, they will be careful of the day when they are swept out of the house. As a parent, I think I can rely on my children, but I haven't seen a dutiful son before my bed for a long time. It's a traditional idea to raise children to prevent old age and save for hunger. Now that children have grown up and become married, there are a lot of things in their careers and families. How can parents have the heart to influence their children's lives? When you are old, it is a pragmatic attitude and practice to take good care of your health, accumulate more funds and enjoy your old age happily. Can brothers and sisters depend on each other? In order to support parents and compete for inheritance, there are many people who turn against each other. As the saying goes, relatives don't have money, but * * * money breaks off. It is a wise saying that a brother should settle accounts clearly. I have made a lot of friends in the society, which seems to be reliable, but besides Liu Guanzhang, who died in the same life as Jin Lan, I have more fair-weather friends. I usually eat and drink, and there are a lot of people around me. When something happens, especially when there is a disaster, the most common thing is that the tree falls apart, and there are also many people who sell friends for glory. Even if they don't fall, they burn high incense.
? In this world, self-reliance and self-improvement are the foundation of settling down. Tian Xingjian, a gentleman strives for self-improvement, and only by self-reliance and hard work can he stand on the society. If you always want to rely on others, it is the least desirable. In fact, people who have this idea are terrible. You should know that no one can be really reliable in this world. A good life needs to be created by yourself, and attachment to others will not make you better. If a person only wants to live by others, he can't live high naturally. Life without self is the most failed life. This society is very realistic, and people who live in it are more realistic. As far as the love that everyone yearns for is concerned, they love each other to death, but love is not permanent. In fact, the so-called love is the most insecure. A person may love you very much at this time, and may not love you in a blink of an eye. It can be seen that lovers are unreliable, and only relying on themselves is the most practical. In this life, only you are the biggest reliance. No one can shelter you forever, and you are your strongest backing. If you don't work hard yourself, don't think about having your own world. This is the truest portrayal of life, seemingly heartless, but it tells the philosophy of life. All the successful people in history, which one didn't rely on themselves, keep forging ahead, keep fighting, and finally achieved something? In reality, some people are born into a noble family, aren't they also black sheep? Dramatically defeated the ancestors' accumulated virtues and failures.
? Throughout history and reality, no one's life is built by others, and a truly successful life is built by oneself bit by bit. The gentleman's ze, the fifth and beheaded; Being rich for three generations is like a spell. A big family in history, a Confucius family, and a teacher for generations; Zeng Guofan's family, Qian's family, is known by people, admired by people, and talented people come forth in large numbers. It depends on family style and family education, and it depends on children's self-reliance and self-improvement. Therefore, at any time, it is the most reliable to recognize this reality, maintain its own independence, do not rely on parents and families, and rely on its own efforts to achieve a career.