1. The main factor that affects children's grades is not school, but family. 2. If there is something wrong with family education, children may have a hard time at school, and children may become "problem children" at school. 3. For children with good grades, the mother is usually a planned and agile person. The more serious, organized and polite the father is, the better the children's grades will be. 4. Poverty is an important educational resource, but the poorer it is, the better it is for children's growth. Parents need to provide their children with basic cultural materials to prevent them from falling into the abyss of inferiority. 5. Richness is another higher education resource. The experience of westerners is: "It takes three generations to cultivate a noble." "Class is hereditary." However, more advanced educational resources need more advanced educational skills. Without advanced educational skills, wealthy families will bring disaster to children's growth. 6. Don't be a knowledgeable and uneducated parent. Some people are highly educated, but not necessarily literate. If parents don't know how to live, treat others well, or even treat their children well, no matter how high their academic level is, they are uneducated. Parents can regard their children as the center of the world, but don't forget that parents should also live an independent life. If parents completely focus on their children without their own life theme, such parents often interfere with their children's growth in the name of love. Sometimes, it's not that children can't live without their parents, but that parents can't live without their children. 8. Parents need to take the responsibility of educating their children, but don't completely cancel their leisure life because of educating their children. "No sense of responsibility hurts others, too much sense of responsibility hurts yourself." 9. If a child cries and his parents quickly pick up the child, then the child will take advantage of this feature of his parents to constantly pester his parents and make more demands. Therefore, children cry, don't hurry to pick them up, parents had better let themselves have something to do, and let their children watch them do things quickly. 1. The relationship between husband and wife affects the child's personality. If a man doesn't respect his wife, then his son learns to disrespect his female classmates at school. If a woman doesn't respect her husband, then her daughter learns to look down on her male classmates at school. 11. Education is to cultivate people's spiritual appearance. The mission of parents and teachers is to make children gradually take responsibility for their spiritual appearance, get rid of all kinds of filth that may be contaminated, cultivate spiritual "seeds" on people, let people breathe alpine air and hold their heads high. 12. Educated parents are Voltaire. "I don't agree with your point of view, but I will defend your right to speak to the death." They began to reason with their children from the day they were born and patiently asked for their opinions. Don't expect children to learn to obey by beating and scolding them. The result of killing chickens for monkeys is that monkeys have also learned to kill chickens. 13. Let children become passionate and rational people. "Without passion, no great cause can begin well, and without reason, no feat can end well." 14. Let your child become an educated person. Educating begins with punctuality, queuing, not talking loudly in public and not getting angry easily. 15. Be kind. If your child is kind, please don't laugh at his weakness. People who like to take advantage of small things often suffer big losses because they are disgusted by others. He who is willing to suffer a small loss will take a big advantage in the future, because he is liked by people. 16. Physical vitality can bring spiritual vitality. A person with good health has a sunny personality. People in poor health are hesitant, evasive and hesitant. 17. Don't think that a child's age from 1 to 6 is just the age of growing up. If parents let their children spend 1-6 years old with grandparents, and wait until their children are 6 years old before parents take them back to primary school, then the children will either become silent and silent or become lawless troublemakers in primary school. 18. Always do three things with children: one is to have dinner with children, the other is to invite children to repair toys, furniture or clothes, and occasionally invite children to help solve difficulties in work. The third is to tell stories to children and invite them to tell stories themselves. 19. If there is no special difficulty, parents had better go home to have dinner with their children every day. Family values are established in the process of the whole family eating around a table. 21. There are three critical periods for children's growth: the first is around the age of 3, the second is around the age of 9, and the third is around the age of 13. If you miss the critical period of growth, there will be endless troubles. 22. Not "standing at thirty", but "standing at three". Around the age of three, children must establish the courage and habit of self-reliance. Whatever you can do, you must do it yourself, and whatever you should do, you should try your best. 23. If your child likes Frost's poem when he is 13 years old: "Two roads branch in the forest, I choose the one with fewer people", which is normal. Don't worry, he may choose the one with more people in the future.