The ancients pointed out: "It is better to see that the world is full of bad people than to see that the world is full of good people and have a nurturing heart to make people happy to do good." This means that instead of seeing everyone in the world as a kind of good person, It is better for bad people to regard everyone in the world as good people. The advantage of doing this is to educate others with your own true, kind and beautiful heart, and help others be willing to form good thoughts.

This ancient famous saying tells a very simple truth here, that is, a person’s state of mind depends entirely on his or her thoughts. When you see that everyone in the world is a bad person, they all treat you badly. When you have bad intentions, your mood will definitely not get better; but when you think that everyone in the world is a good person and will care about you and help you, you must be in a cheerful mood and feel that every day is a sunny day.

So, you might as well adopt this principle and don’t evaluate or ridicule others rashly.

Some things in life cannot be explained clearly in terms of right and wrong, or there is no need to distinguish right from wrong. Only judges in court must use right and wrong to judge the person under trial in order to give him his freedom or deprive him of his freedom. It is a profession in which right and wrong cannot be avoided. In life, we always want to live easily and freely. Why should we go through so much trouble to determine right and wrong like a judge? This is nothing more than a competitive mentality at work, seeking temporary pleasure for oneself, with no regard for the feelings of others. For those trivial things in life, even if you are right and he is wrong, what does it mean? The result is not necessarily that the other party admits that you are smart, but that the other party has opened a distance in their hearts, affecting the brotherhood or friendship. An atmosphere of harmony among friends.

Some people not only like to distinguish right from wrong in life, but also make the mistake of ridiculing the ancients when doing knowledge. They always like to rank the ancients, judge their superiority, and make mistakes in their speeches. He talks wildly and does not know his own abilities. Anyone who is good at learning humbly accepts the advantages and specialties of others, considers them carefully, and always wants to learn them. How can he act arrogantly in judging and criticizing?

So, instead of sarcastically commenting on others, the most important thing is to get rid of the word "arrogance" in your heart. Don't be too harsh when dealing with friends, family, strangers, and ancient people. When dealing with things, you should leave room for everything. When looking at the people around you, focus on the benefits. As long as the big right and big wrong are not messed up, don't delve into the small right and small wrong. In this way, over time, a harmonious and smooth atmosphere will be formed around you.