Self-confidence without pride, modesty without inferiority.

Be content without complacency, and do good without expecting anything in return.

Expect without demanding meditation without confusion.

Brave but not reckless, decisive but not hasty

Persistence without restraint, gentleness without cowardice.

Strong but not overbearing, arrogant but not overbearing.

Don't panic in a crisis, be cautious and don't hesitate.

Traditional but not stuffy, and there are many ceremonies but not conventional.

Harvard's 25 golden sentences of success

think

I believe you can do it, and you will do it.

Keep telling yourself something, even if it's not true, and finally convince yourself.

warn

We should be wary of those who scare dogs and children.

Being too alert is like being too late and making people suspicious.

Don't envy your neighbor's fence for being greener. Maybe there are more thorns than grass.

For those who are full of "others say-",ask him who "others" are, and you will see his tongue-tied embarrassment.

When a stranger is too enthusiastic to help you, be careful of his ulterior motives.

challenge

If you want to go up a storey still higher, you should provide more and better services to others.

Try to surpass the last performance every time, and soon you will surpass the people around you.

Henry Ford offered a reward of 25,000 yuan to anyone who could save a screw on each car.

You saved 10 points in every link of my factory, and I let you rise to the top.

If the status quo is maintained, what will happen in 10 years?

Don't destroy anything until you are sure to do it better.

primary objective

What kind of life do you want? What can you give in return?

Successful people only want what they want ―― not what they don't want.

Never mind what you have done in the past, what matters is what you will do in the future.

If you don't know what you want in this life, what else do you want?

A wise man can do nothing but do something.

Get busy with what you want, so that you have no time to worry about what you don't want.

Don't be afraid to aim too high, you may need to settle for the second best.

If you don't know what you want, don't say you don't have a chance.

Correct thinking

Judge yourself correctly before you judge others.

Are you cheating others or yourself? Think carefully before you answer.

People who think twice before acting seldom do anything wrong.

It's no use trying to persuade people who don't think.

People who think that the whole world is wrong are probably their own fault.

behaviour

Observe the person who walks in front of you, see why he walks in front, and learn from him.

Busy people can do things well, and slow people can only be opportunistic.

An indecisive person, even if he makes a decision, can't carry it through.

Goodwill requires proper expression of action.

cooperate

Requests can get better results than commands.

Those who are good at giving orders will certainly be able to obey and carry out them.

Willing to cooperate to generate support, forcing obedience leads to failure.

Tell your boss what you want and see if he is willing to help you overcome obstacles.

Friendly cooperation is more popular than incitement.

Cooperation must start with department leaders, and so must efficiency.

Collusion is not cooperation.

No one can hurt you unless you want to be hurt by others.

Say or write an article.

Remember, others know how much you know from everything you say.

What you say is as important as what you say.

When people want something, their tone is particularly different.

Euphemism is more acceptable to others.

Speaking casually often leads to embarrassing scenes.

Mean words hurt the most.

You can think what you want, but you must be careful when expressing your thoughts.

Enthusiasm and sincerity

When enthusiasm becomes a habit, fear and anxiety have no place.

People who lack enthusiasm have no clear goals.

Enthusiasm turns the wheel of imagination.

A person who lacks enthusiasm is like a car without gasoline.

He who is good at arranging play and work, and keeps both enthusiastic, is the happiest person.

Enthusiasm enlivened ordinary topics.

Do a little more

Every time you do it again, others will owe you some.

Let others do better and enhance their own value at the same time.

People who are good at fishing choose the bait that fish like.

You can't make everyone like you, but you can reduce the reasons why others hate you.

There is no friction in negotiation with people, which is a major subject to be studied.

Do more, and opportunities will follow.

He who serves others the most is the richest.

Only the road of service can lead to the city of happiness.

courage

Only by bravely admitting what you don't understand can you learn and make progress.

Courage is just a step beyond fear.

Most people who complain that they have no chance have no courage to take risks.

criticize

Only small people who have accomplished nothing can avoid criticism.

Don't be afraid of unfair criticism, but know what unfair criticism is.

Don't criticize people you don't know, seize the opportunity to learn from them.

Don't be afraid of being criticized. When you put forward new ideas, you should be prepared to be criticized.

Don't criticize other people's behavior unless you know why he does it. You may encounter the same situation.

If you can't stand criticism, you can't try new things.

If you often criticize others, why not try to praise them?

You'd better give a compliment before you start criticizing.

If you want to be more popular, praise as much as possible and criticize less.

behaviour

A truly great man, others will feel from his good deeds.

A day without imagining good deeds is a waste.

Medals and titles can't get you to heaven, but good deeds can increase your weight.

Only constructive behavior can convince people, and it is useless to talk big.

Don't say what you want, use behavior to express it.

Doing good deeds is the best way to praise yourself.

If you are smarter than others, others will see it from your behavior.

A kind response is the safest way to punish those who are unfair to you.

Don't waste your breath on people who don't like you.

Those who spend money to go to heaven must regret not doing more good.

Good deeds are more touching than eloquence.

Epitaphs are not as memorable as good deeds.

The world will not give you a medal for what you know, but will honor you for your good deeds.

Good behavior does not need the whitewash of language.

Clear goal

Know clearly what you want and pursue it.

A man without a clear goal is like a ship without a compass.

All smart people have the habit of thinking clearly.

Willpower comes from continuous action, spontaneity and clear goals.

Honesty and hard work need clear goal guidance to succeed.

Without a clear goal, life will be mediocre.

A firm goal is the first principle of success.

Education or study

Education is to cultivate inner strength. All education depends on your own experience; No one can educate another person.

What you learn from your work is more valuable than the immediate return.

Listening is to be learned, but speaking is useless.

A good teacher must be a good student.

You don't have to keep all the knowledge in your head, just get the knowledge you need.

Studying a person's good ideas leaves him with shortcomings.

Knowledge must be used to generate power.

Try to do things better than others, and you will forget your financial troubles.

If you don't study hard from your boss, you will waste your promotion and better job opportunities.

Philosophers find out the mistakes made by human beings from those who make mistakes.

Being good at asking questions made Socrates a wise man at that time.

Use knowledge wisely to attract more knowledge.

The more you learn from your job, the more you earn.

A work-study program is equivalent to others paying for his education.

Knowledge must produce benefits through action, otherwise it is useless.

fail

Edison failed ten thousand times before he invented the light bulb. Don't worry about failing once.

"Ordinary people" gave up after only one failure. So there are many "ordinary people", and Edison has only one.

Aimlessness and drifting with the flow are the primary reasons for failure.

You can find opportunities that you can't find in turn.

Let children be "better" when they are young and often "sad" when they grow up.

When criticizing other people's mistakes, add some compliments.

There is a big difference between failure and temporary setbacks. Only by knowing the difference can we succeed.

He who doesn't stop trying because of a temporary setback will never fail.

Many people just need one more minute of support and one more minute of hard work to turn defeat into victory.

Success attracts success and failure attracts failure.

People who try to get something for nothing often accomplish nothing.

Other people's mistakes are no excuse for your mistakes.

If you try your best, there is no shame in failing.

Don't blame children for being bad, blame those adults who don't teach their children well.

Mistakes are like weeds in the garden. If not eradicated in time, they will spread everywhere.

Self-pity is an addictive narcotic.

Wise people pay attention to their own shortcomings, while ordinary people brag about their own advantages.

If failure can push people out of their complacent chairs and force them to do more useful things, it is a blessing.

Failure is the preparation for people to take on greater responsibilities.

Knowing the reason for your failure is a kind of wealth.

Physical disability

A blind student of Northwest University in China copied the lecture notes in shorthand and sold them to students with normal vision to complete their studies.

If you feel discouraged, think of Helen Keller, a blind and deaf person who lives a full and happy life and writes books to encourage more people.

This is a great misfortune for a person who starts from the top, because he can only slide down frequently.

happy

Some people accumulate money in exchange for wealth, while smart people accumulate happiness and share it with others.

Happiness lies in action, not just in possession.

Depriving others of their happiness does not make them happy.

Smiling makes people more beautiful and happy, but it doesn't cost anything.

Enthusiasm is more popular than resentment.

Give happiness generously and you will be happier.

Harmonious

Harmony makes the universe run.

Friction between machines consumes money, and friction between people consumes the soul.

If you don't agree with others, at least don't argue with others.

Those who promote peace are admirable, and those who stir up friction are disgusting.

Remember, it takes at least two people to argue

More than two people working together for a clear goal will produce infinite power.

Mutual trust is the foundation of good interpersonal relationship.

People with good interpersonal relationships will never worry about having no friends.

People who like harmony generally know how to maintain it.

Lasting success is based on harmonious interpersonal relationships.

Try to be a peacemaker, there won't be too many disputes.

Only those who take the opportunity to fish in troubled waters will provoke personnel disputes.

fair

Don't ignore the cross section, the universe is made up of atoms.

The best way to get help is to start helping others.

confidence

The more you use confidence, the more you use it.

No one can destroy your confidence in anything unless you want to.

All great miracles are the power of self-confidence.

Unfortunately, people who have hope and confidence rarely struggle.

Confidence needs a foothold, but fear can exist out of thin air.

Self-confidence comes from clear goals and a positive attitude.

Self-confidence is an attitude, which can often make "impossible" disappear into the invisible.

Confidence can't give you what you need, but it can tell you how to get it.

afeared

Bluffing often shows deep fear.

Don't hesitate because of fear. Go ahead to eliminate fear.

Fear is the devil's greatest weapon and the greatest enemy of mankind.

Conscious people are seldom afraid of anything.

Confidence can conquer fear.

Keep your fears to yourself, others have other people's fears.

Bad luck likes people who are afraid of him.

Hope and fear cannot coexist.

People who are afraid of poverty will never be rich.

friend

People will find friends only if they ask for help, and they will soon have no friends.

If you want friends, make friends with others first.

Don't let down your friends who helped you recover from depression.

A friend is someone who knows you and respects you.

Friendship needs constant expression to last forever.

Friendship is to see a friend's shortcomings without making public.

complain

If you have to complain, keep your voice down so as not to disturb others.

Don't be too hard on the complainer, he has made his life hard enough.

If you feel listless, wait until you are hungry.

You should see a doctor before you get sick.

Eat only eight points full

If you keep thinking about getting sick, you will always get sick, and so will your health.

Fresh fruits and vegetables are healthy foods that will never be overdone.

Don't treat headache, finding out the cause is the fundamental way.

Eating too much is not necessarily healthy.

Pay attention to eating habits and save medical expenses.

There are 80 life beliefs.

0 1. Tell yourself "I'm really fine" once a day.

02. Anger is to punish yourself for what others have done wrong.

Life without friends is like life without sunshine.

The hope of tomorrow makes us forget the pain of today.

05. If life is stripped of ideals, dreams and fantasies, then life is just a pile of empty shelves.

06. Glowing is not the patent of the sun, you can also shine.

07. A fool monitors his mind with his body, while a wise man monitors his body with his mind.

The only way to get happiness is to cherish what you have and forget what you don't have.

09. Greed is the truest poverty, and contentment is the truest wealth.

10. You can get the whole world with love or lose the whole world with hate.

1 1. The value of a person is determined at the moment of temptation.

12. Youth is the only time when we have the right to weave dreams.

13. A youth classic will never be redeemed immediately.

14. Without the language of love, all words are boring.

15. True love should go beyond the length of life, the width of soul and the depth of soul.

16. Love is so powerful that people can forget everything, but so small that they can't even hold a grain of jealous sand.

17. when a person really realizes, he gives up the pursuit of wealth in the world and begins to pursue real wealth in the inner world.

18. As long as you have confidence, people will never be defeated.

19. No matter when you start, it is important not to stop after you start.

20. No matter when it ends, it is important not to regret it after it ends.

2 1. If a person is weak, he is his own worst enemy.

22. A brave man is his best friend.

23. "Impossible" only exists in the dictionary of fools.

24. Hope for the best, strive for the best result and prepare for the worst.

25. Sweet home! The best thing in the world is home.

26. Laziness corrupts people's minds.

Everything should be viewed from various angles.

28. Where there is an ideal place, hell is heaven.

29. Where there is hope, pain becomes happiness.

30. Compared with the victory of conquering oneself, all the victories are insignificant.

3 1. Compared with the failure of losing self, all failures are insignificant.

God never complains about people's ignorance, but people complain about God's unfairness.

33. A good life should be full of expectations, surprises and gratitude.

34. The most tiring thing in the world is to live in hypocrisy.

35. I feel I can do it, but I can't. Actually, it's just a moment.

36. The first youth is given by God; The second person's youth depends on his own efforts.

37. Without preset expectations, caring for people will be more comfortable.

38. Ideas are like practice. You must concentrate on drilling down at a point to have strength.

39. As long as you don't lose your way, you won't lose yourself.

40. If you ever sang the praises of the dawn, please embrace the night.

4 1. greetings don't have to be discreet, but they must be sincere and touching.

What matters in life is not where you stand, but where you are going.

43. Don't give up flying if you can fly.

44. Don't give up dreaming when you can dream.

45. Never give up when you can love.

46. Life is too short. If you don't give up today, tomorrow may not be.

47. Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent effort.

48. People always cherish what they don't get and forget what they have.

49. Only by sharing can happiness be doubled.

50. You have to respect yourself before others will respect you.

5 1. One today is better than two tomorrows.

52. Keep it in mind; Every day is the best day of the year.

53. Optimists see opportunities in disasters; A pessimist sees disaster in every opportunity.

Courage does not mean that fear does not exist, but that you dare to face and overcome it.

If you are willing to admit your mistake, you have corrected half of it.

56. Tomorrow is the land with the fastest appreciation in the world, because it is full of hope.

57. The ideal road is always for people with confidence.

58. Self-deception is the most serious of all deception.

59. The biggest mistake in life is constantly worrying about making mistakes.

60. Turn your face to the sun, and there will be no shadow.

6 1. Experience is extracted from pain.

62. Face the past with the least regret.

63. Face the present with the least waste.

64. Face the future with the most dreams.

65. Happiness is not because you have more, but because you care less.

66. Your choice is to do or not to do, but if you don't do it, you will never have a chance.

If you want to have a perfect friendship, you may never find a friend.

68. Don't drill into sadness when you are unhappy. Think about the days when you have laughter.

69. Treat yourself as a fool, ask if you don't understand, and learn more.

70. Before correcting others, reflect on whether you have made any mistakes.

7 1. If you are afraid of failure, you will never succeed.

72. To overcome the anxiety and depression in life, we must first learn to be our own master.

You can't control the weather, but you can change your mood.

74. Loneliness and abandonment are the most terrible poverty.

75. Imagination is more important than knowledge.

76. Living aimlessly is like sailing without a compass.

77. Play your role and do what you should do.

78. All great actions and ideas have a small beginning.

79. Be kind to others when you are proud, because you will need them when you are frustrated.

80. Learn to do everything step by step.